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Teaching2019-11-11·10 min

EP37: Desperate Or Determined?

EP37: Desperate Or Determined?

Rosanne draws a critical distinction between being desperate versus determined on your fertility journey. With only 51 days left in 2019, she challenges listeners to choose their energy and approach - determined women cross the finish line while desperate women stay scattered and powerless.

The Year-End Wake-Up Call

With only 51 days left in 2019, Rosanne challenges listeners to resist the temptation to give up and instead dig in their heels. She shares her own ambitious plans for 2020 as an example of what's possible when you refuse to let time constraints limit your vision.

Desperate vs Determined: The Critical Distinction

Rosanne breaks down the energetic difference between desperation and determination on the fertility journey. Determined women operate from power and clarity, while desperate women are scattered, fear-based, and subordinate themselves to others' opinions and statistics.

Making the Decision and Taking Action

The episode concludes with a call to action about choosing which energy to embody and making clear decisions about your fertility journey. Rosanne emphasizes that resources and blessings show up at lightning speed once you commit to being determined rather than desperate.

Questions This Episode Answers

What's the difference between desperate and determined on fertility journey

Determined is in your power. Determined knows what she wants, and she's going for it. Desperate is all over the place, can't think straight, not in her power, subordinating herself to statistics, other people's opinions, not wanting to ruffle any feathers.

Rosanne Austin5:27

Determined women know what they want and go for it with power, while desperate women are scattered, fear-based, and subordinate themselves to statistics and others' opinions. Determined energy creates success while desperate energy is repulsive.

Is it too late to get pregnant if I've been trying for years

It is never too late to dig in your heels and take control back on this journey. I don't care what this year looked like for you... It is never too late to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and say, fuck that shit. I am getting back in the ring.

Rosanne Austin2:34

It's never too late to take control back on your fertility journey. You can turn on a dime and start thinking, believing, and taking action like a woman who succeeds, regardless of how long you've been trying.

How do I stop being desperate for a baby

Make a decision about which one you're gonna be. Are you gonna be determined on this journey and be able to roll with the punches, keep going... or are you gonna be the one, I'm not so sure if this is gonna happen for me. I'm just desperate for somebody. Please give me a baby.

Rosanne Austin5:59

Make a conscious decision to shift from desperate to determined energy. Get clear on your vision, stop subordinating yourself to statistics, and start thinking and acting like a woman who succeeds on this journey.

What happens when you make a decision about your fertility journey

The lightning speed with which the resources, people, all kinds of blessings, and just incredible things show up when you make that decision.

Rosanne Austin9:26

When you make a clear decision about who you're going to be and what you want, resources, people, and blessings show up at lightning speed. Things start happening incredibly quickly once you commit.

Can I still get pregnant late in the year

It is never too late to dig in your heels and take control back on this journey... You can turn on a dime on this journey.

Rosanne Austin9:06

Absolutely. There's never a bad time to commit to your fertility success. Even with limited time remaining in the year, you can create breakthrough results by shifting your energy and approach.

How to Shift from Desperate to Determined Energy

A framework for moving from powerless desperation to empowered determination on your fertility journey

  1. 1

    Make a conscious decision

    Decide which energy you're going to embody - determined or desperate. Make this choice deliberately and consciously.

  2. 2

    Get clear on your vision

    Know what you want and commit to going for it, regardless of obstacles or setbacks.

  3. 3

    Stop subordinating yourself

    Refuse to let statistics, other people's opinions, or fear knock you off course.

  4. 4

    Take empowered action

    Start thinking, believing, and taking action like a woman who succeeds on this journey.

All Teachings 6

TeachingEmpowering4:27

There's a critical energetic difference between being determined versus desperate on your fertility journey

Women in Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program are getting pregnant left and right by embodying determined energy rather than desperate energy

ReframeFierce5:27

Determined women know what they want and go for it with power, while desperate women are all over the place and not in their power

Determined women featured on this podcast have crossed the finish line regardless of obstacles, demonstrating the power of this mindset

TeachingEmpowering2:34

It's never too late to dig in your heels and take control back on this journey, regardless of how your year has gone

Even with only 51 days left in 2019, Rosanne emphasizes that women can turn on a dime and start achieving results immediately

ReframeChallenging5:48

Desperate energy is repulsive and fear-based, involving subordinating yourself to statistics and other people's opinions

Desperate women can't think straight, don't want to ruffle feathers, and let fear and negativity knock them off course

TeachingEmpowering9:06

When you make the decision about who you're going to be on this journey, resources and blessings show up at lightning speed

Rosanne shares how making clear decisions led to her own rapid expansion with audiobook production, retreat planning, and program growth for 2020

TeachingEmpowering9:06

You can turn on a dime on this fertility journey and completely change your trajectory

Women who have been trying for years are getting pregnant through the 8-week Fearlessly Fertile Method program by shifting from desperate to determined energy

Episode Tone
4 empowering1 fierce1 challenging

Key Teachings 6

There's a critical energetic difference between being determined versus desperate on your fertility journey

4:27

Determined women know what they want and go for it with power, while desperate women are all over the place and not in their power

5:27

It's never too late to dig in your heels and take control back on this journey, regardless of how your year has gone

2:34

Desperate energy is repulsive and fear-based, involving subordinating yourself to statistics and other people's opinions

5:48

When you make the decision about who you're going to be on this journey, resources and blessings show up at lightning speed

9:06

You can turn on a dime on this fertility journey and completely change your trajectory

9:06

Perspectives 2

Being desperate for a baby is normal and acceptable on the fertility journey

CONSIDER: Desperate energy is repulsive and powerless - determined energy is what creates success

It's too late in the year to make meaningful changes or progress

CONSIDER: You can turn on a dime and create incredible results even with limited time remaining

Quotable Moments

It is never too late to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and say, fuck that shit. I am getting back in the ring.

Rosanne Austin2:55

Determined is in your power. Determined knows what she wants, and she's going for it. Desperate is all over the place, can't think straight, not in her power.

Rosanne Austin5:27

Desperate is repulsive.

Rosanne Austin6:29

You can turn on a dime on this journey.

Rosanne Austin9:06

The lightning speed with which the resources, people, all kinds of blessings, and just incredible things show up when you make that decision.

Rosanne Austin9:26

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