Rosanne AustinDiscovery Hub
Teaching2021-04-05·13 min

EP110 Not “Seeing” Results? Know This.

EP110 Not “Seeing” Results? Know This.

Rosanne teaches that not seeing immediate results doesn't mean nothing is happening. Using the principle 'absence of evidence is not evidence of absence,' she helps women recognize the unseen forces working in their favor and develop the mindset to persist through challenging times.

When Results Feel Absent, Remember This Truth

Rosanne opens with her son Asher's voice to illustrate her main point - during her darkest fertility moments, she couldn't see that this little boy was coming. The disconnect between desire and manifestation in our instant-gratification culture leads to giving up too soon, but absence of evidence is not evidence of absence.

The Gestation Period Between Desire and Reality

Using Price Pritchett's wisdom, Rosanne teaches that unseen forces are always conspiring in your favor. Her own journey from chaotic basal body temperature charts and treatment failures to holding her son proves that current circumstances never predict future outcomes on the fertility journey.

Detective Work - Finding the Evidence You're Missing

Drawing on her prosecutor background, Rosanne guides women to look for trace evidence like DNA - invisible but powerful. Fear and negativity patterns block recognition of evidence that's often right in front of you, requiring the humility to ask 'What am I not seeing?'

Questions This Episode Answers

What does absence of evidence is not evidence of absence mean for fertility

Just because you can't see the thing right now doesn't mean it isn't happening nor that it isn't going to happen.

Rosanne Austin4:49

This means just because you can't see progress toward pregnancy doesn't mean nothing is happening. There's often a lot working in your favor behind the scenes that you simply can't see yet.

Why am I not seeing results from my fertility efforts

Chances are there's evidence right in front of you now that because you are stuck in a pattern of fear and negativity, you just can't see.

Rosanne Austin9:39

Not seeing immediate results is normal - there's an inherent gestation period between desire and manifestation. Fear and negativity patterns can also block you from seeing evidence that's actually right in front of you.

How do I find evidence that my baby is coming when I can't see any

Some of the most persuasive evidence is not visible to the naked eye. DNA is not visible, but it is used to catch and convict suspects daily.

Rosanne Austin9:07

Look for trace evidence like a detective - even DNA is invisible but solves cases daily. Take a step back with humility and ask 'What am I not seeing?' Focus on any evidence, no matter how small, and put that list where you can see it daily.

What should I do when fertility treatments aren't working

So often, things look darkest and most bleak right before a massive breakthrough.

Rosanne Austin4:50

Remember that things often look darkest right before a breakthrough. Focus on strengthening your mindset, getting clear on what you want, and recognizing that current circumstances don't predict future outcomes.

How long does it take to see fertility results

That exact timing, nobody knows. But so often, things look darkest and most bleak right before a massive breakthrough.

Rosanne Austin4:50

There's no set timeline - there's an inherent gestation period between desire and manifestation that varies for everyone. The key is maintaining faith and strong mindset regardless of timing, since breakthrough can happen at any moment.

How to Find Evidence Your Baby is Coming When You Can't See Any

A detective-like approach to uncovering trace evidence that your fertility journey is progressing

  1. 1

    Ask what you're not seeing

    Step back with humility and ask 'What evidence that my baby is coming am I not seeing?' Look for trace evidence like a CSI investigator - even DNA is invisible but solves cases daily.

  2. 2

    Make your evidence list

    Write down any evidence, no matter how small - even a single piece counts. Don't be lazy and say there's none; fear patterns often block us from seeing what's there.

  3. 3

    Post your list visibly

    Put that evidence list somewhere you can see it daily. Focus on what you know and what you see - it doesn't matter if anyone else can see it, just like great inventors who saw things others couldn't.

All Teachings 8

TeachingReframing3:56

Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence - just because you can't see progress doesn't mean nothing is happening toward your baby

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failures and irregular cycles, despite not seeing evidence during her darkest moments that her son would arrive on June 30, 2017.

TeachingReframing2:55

There is an inherent gestation period between desire and manifestation that our instant-gratification culture makes us forget

Rosanne's own journey from years of treatment failures with irregular basal body temperature charts to holding her son in her arms demonstrates the unseen process between desire and manifestation.

TeachingEmpowering4:17

Forces are always conspiring in your favor, even when you can't see them - this is why mindset strength is critical

During Rosanne's darkest periods with failed treatments and chaotic basal body temperature charts, unseen forces were working toward her June 30, 2017 conception despite no visible evidence at the time.

TeachingEmpowering4:50

Things often look darkest right before a massive breakthrough - that breakthrough could be pregnancy or new perspective

Rosanne experienced her darkest moments with failed treatments and irregular cycles before her natural conception at 43, demonstrating how breakthroughs often come when things seem most hopeless.

TeachingChallenging6:53

What's happening in your life right now is no predictor of what's to come - you need humility about what you think you know

Despite years of fertility treatment failures and doctors running away from her case, Rosanne couldn't predict she would hold her son on June 30, 2017, proving current circumstances don't predict future outcomes.

TeachingEmpowering9:07

You must look for trace evidence that your baby is coming - even DNA is invisible but used to solve cases daily

As a former prosecutor, Rosanne knows that some of the most persuasive evidence in criminal cases is invisible to the naked eye, like DNA, yet it convicts suspects daily.

TeachingChallenging9:49

Fear and negativity patterns block you from seeing evidence that's right in front of you

Rosanne teaches that women stuck in fear patterns miss evidence because of their perspective, not because evidence doesn't exist - the same way she couldn't see her future success during her own darkest moments.

TeachingEmpowering11:13

The greatest inventors and innovators saw things others couldn't because they held the line on their beliefs without visible evidence

Like great inventors who persisted without seeing progress, Rosanne held onto her belief despite years of failed treatments and irregular cycles, ultimately conceiving naturally at 43.

Episode Tone
2 reframing4 empowering2 challenging

Key Teachings 8

Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence - just because you can't see progress doesn't mean nothing is happening toward your baby

3:56

There is an inherent gestation period between desire and manifestation that our instant-gratification culture makes us forget

2:55

Forces are always conspiring in your favor, even when you can't see them - this is why mindset strength is critical

4:17

Things often look darkest right before a massive breakthrough - that breakthrough could be pregnancy or new perspective

4:50

What's happening in your life right now is no predictor of what's to come - you need humility about what you think you know

6:53

You must look for trace evidence that your baby is coming - even DNA is invisible but used to solve cases daily

9:07

Fear and negativity patterns block you from seeing evidence that's right in front of you

9:49

The greatest inventors and innovators saw things others couldn't because they held the line on their beliefs without visible evidence

11:13

Perspectives 2

If you're not seeing results from fertility efforts, nothing is working

CONSIDER: Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence - there's always more happening than you can see

Current circumstances predict future fertility outcomes

CONSIDER: What's happening right now is no predictor of what's to come - you need humility about what you think you know

Quotable Moments

Absence of evidence is not evidence of its absence.

Rosanne Austin3:56

Just because you can't see the thing right now doesn't mean it isn't happening nor that it isn't going to happen.

Rosanne Austin4:49

Things are always conspiring in your favor, doll, always.

Rosanne Austin5:20

What's happening in your life right now is no predictor of what is to come, mama.

Rosanne Austin6:53

Some of the most persuasive evidence is not visible to the naked eye.

Rosanne Austin9:07

Chances are there's evidence right in front of you now that because you are stuck in a pattern of fear and negativity, you just can't see.

Rosanne Austin9:39

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