Rosanne teaches how to transform Mother's Day from a painful reminder into a powerful declaration of what you're calling in. She provides a 3-step framework called the Mother's Day Promise (MDP) to help women focus on their future rather than what they don't have yet.
Rosanne opens by acknowledging how difficult Mother's Day week can be for women on the fertility journey, but immediately reframes it as an opportunity. She challenges women to stop staying stuck in pain and instead use this day to take control of their mindset and create something powerful.
The core teaching centers on a three-part declaration system: making a bold declaration of what you desire, identifying compelling reasons to believe in your dream, and committing to specific right action. Each component is essential for creating a complete and effective promise to yourself and your future child.
Rosanne emphasizes that dreams are your responsibility and challenges women to identify where they're holding back. She provides examples of finding your new edge, whether in mindset work, medical decisions, or relationship communication, and stresses that continuing the same actions yields the same results.
“I wanna help you approach Mother's Day the fearless way because, look, the shit going on in your head is the one thing you can control on this journey, and it's time to get it together, mama.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 1:33
Transform Mother's Day from a painful reminder into a powerful declaration day. Create a Mother's Day Promise with three parts: declare what you desire, write your reasons to believe, and commit to specific action. Focus on what you're calling in rather than what you don't have yet.
“Your Mother's Day promise is an anthem. It's a celebration of what you know to be true regardless of your current outside circumstances.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:36
A Mother's Day Promise (MDP) is a three-part declaration framework: 1) Declare what you desire specifically, 2) Write your compelling reasons to believe in this dream, and 3) Commit to the next right action you'll take. It's designed to shift focus from what you lack to what you're creating.
“Not doing this step is why many women on this journey will quit. They will flat out quit and go self righteously, quote, unquote, child free in forums acting as if there was no other choice.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:14
Many women quit because they don't have compelling enough reasons to believe in their dream. Without a strong why that's uniquely theirs, they won't do what needs to be done when the journey gets challenging. They give up and seek excuses rather than taking responsibility for their choices.
“Where is the new edge that you can find on this journey? What is the thing that you're putting off? What's the thing that scares you?”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:58
Look for where you're holding back or what you've been putting off. Find your new edge - the thing that scares you or feels like a leap. It could be working on mindset more seriously, getting medical evaluation, having honest conversations with your partner, or being more open to receiving support.
“Two things can be true at the same time. You can have your pain and be in the faith filled expectation of the good to come.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:22
Yes, two things can be true simultaneously - you can have your pain and be in faith-filled expectation of good to come. This isn't about denying your feelings but about not getting stuck in one emotional gear. Feel your emotions and move forward with intention.
A 3-step framework to transform Mother's Day from painful to powerful by creating a declaration of what you're calling in
Make Your Declaration
Write down what you desire on your fertility journey. Be specific about how you want to conceive, timeframe, and other life aspects like work arrangements and relationship goals. Declare it like you're calling it in with complete confidence.
Identify Your Reasons to Believe
Get clear on your individual motivating factors. Write down why you believe in this dream and what drives you to get up every day and take action. Include 'I'm so fucking worth it' on your list of reasons.
Commit to Right Action
Identify where you've been holding back and choose your next bold step. Look for your new edge - what you've been putting off or what scares you. Commit to specific action that will move you forward significantly, not just inches.
Mother's Day can be transformed from a painful reminder into a powerful declaration of what you're calling in through conscious choice and focused intention
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure by applying these same mindset principles of focusing on what she desired rather than what she lacked.
What you give your attention to grows - focusing on what you don't have only makes that lack bigger and more present in your life
Rosanne has helped a 52-year-old woman beat the odds on her terms by teaching this principle of directing attention toward desired outcomes rather than current limitations.
Your circumstances are temporary and transitory at best - they are not a predictor of what is to come unless you make the decision to stay stuck there
Through 12+ years of coaching women ages 28-54 across six continents, Rosanne has seen that current circumstances don't determine outcomes when women shift their mindset and take right action.
The Mother's Day Promise must include three critical parts: declaring what is yours, your reasons to believe in the dream, and the specific action you will take
This 3-step framework has been developed through Rosanne's experience helping hundreds of thousands of women listening to the podcast create their own versions of success declarations.
You must declare what you desire like you're calling it in, like you know it's coming, and you're ordering all the bells and whistles to go with it
Rosanne teaches this bold declaration approach based on her own experience conceiving naturally at 43 and helping women like the 52-year-old who beat the odds through decisive intention.
Not knowing your compelling why is why many women on this journey will quit and go self-righteously child-free, when there were plenty of other choices
Rosanne has observed this pattern through 12+ years of coaching and contrasts it with helping a 52-year-old woman succeed, proving that age and circumstances don't determine outcomes when motivation is clear.
You must identify where you're holding back and find your new edge - the thing you've been putting off or that scares you
Rosanne teaches this from experience helping thousands of women who have been listening to the podcast for a year or more but lurking without taking bolder action steps toward their goals.
Two things can be true at the same time: you can have your pain and be in faith-filled expectation of the good to come
This principle guided Rosanne through her own years of fertility treatment failure before conceiving naturally at 43, demonstrating that acknowledging pain doesn't negate hope.
Mother's Day can be transformed from a painful reminder into a powerful declaration of what you're calling in through conscious choice and focused intention
▶ 1:33What you give your attention to grows - focusing on what you don't have only makes that lack bigger and more present in your life
▶ 3:15Your circumstances are temporary and transitory at best - they are not a predictor of what is to come unless you make the decision to stay stuck there
▶ 3:56The Mother's Day Promise must include three critical parts: declaring what is yours, your reasons to believe in the dream, and the specific action you will take
▶ 4:37You must declare what you desire like you're calling it in, like you know it's coming, and you're ordering all the bells and whistles to go with it
▶ 5:38Not knowing your compelling why is why many women on this journey will quit and go self-righteously child-free, when there were plenty of other choices
▶ 10:14You must identify where you're holding back and find your new edge - the thing you've been putting off or that scares you
▶ 11:58Two things can be true at the same time: you can have your pain and be in faith-filled expectation of the good to come
▶ 2:22“Mother's Day is inherently painful when you're trying to conceive and should be endured or avoided”
CONSIDER: Mother's Day can be reclaimed as a powerful declaration day where you celebrate what you're creating rather than focusing on what you don't have yet
“Current circumstances are predictors of future outcomes”
CONSIDER: Your circumstances are temporary and transitory at best - they only predict your future if you decide to stay stuck there
“Life is too fucking precious and short for you to squander your time in woe and misery.”
“Feel your shit and move the fuck on.”
“What you give your attention to grows. If you focus on what you don't have, that shit only gets bigger.”
“This is not some twisted delusion. It's a fucking decision.”
“Your life is your responsibility and your dreams are your responsibility. No excuse will change those facts.”
“We all hold back somewhere, doll. The question is, are you aware of it?”
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Statistics don't define your fertility destiny - you can refuse to let numbers become your truth and still conceive naturally against all odds
Dr. Lucy had an FSH over 100 and undetectable AMH at age 31, was told she was in menopause with less than 10% chance of natural conception, but conceived naturally and is now 37+ weeks pregnant with her baby boy.
Stepping into your feminine power and releasing control is essential for conception - you can't masculine your way to a baby
Dr. Lucy, an emergency medicine physician, had to learn to step out of her masculine survival mode and into her feminine by giving up leadership roles, incorporating massage and acupuncture, and making space for the baby in her life.
Doing all the treatments doesn't mean you're all in—you can be doing everything physically while being mentally checked out, which explains why treatments aren't working
Over 39 published peer-reviewed studies demonstrate the mind-body connection in fertility, with women in Rosanne's programs ages 28-54 achieving success in 12 months or less through mindset work alongside medical treatment.
Having a clear vision for your fertility journey—beyond just 'I want a baby'—provides the clarity and discernment needed to make smart decisions instead of being pulled in fifty directions
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