Rosanne challenges you to ask a higher-level question on your fertility journey: What do you have to let go of to receive your baby? This isn't about cutting things out of your diet, but about releasing lower vibrational beliefs and patterns that block your baby.
Instead of asking what to cut out of your diet or lifestyle, Rosanne challenges you to ask what you need to let go of mentally and emotionally. This shifts you from deprivation thinking to ascension thinking. The question 'What do I have to let go of to have this baby?' opens up entirely different possibilities than the typical fertility restrictions.
Babies exist at a higher vibrational frequency than fear, doubt, and scarcity. To receive your baby, you must match that higher vibration by releasing lower nature thoughts and beliefs. This isn't just spiritual theory - it's the practical pattern Rosanne has observed across hundreds of successful clients and 348+ podcast episodes.
Rosanne provides a powerful journaling exercise to identify what you're holding onto that blocks your baby. She challenges you to face the dragon of your limiting stories and recognize that you may be gripping your victim narratives more tightly than your baby dreams. Every successful woman featured on the podcast had to release these lower vibrational patterns.
“you have to let go of something of a lower nature in order for you to receive something of a higher nature. Fear, lower nature. Baby, higher nature.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:29
You need to let go of lower vibrational thoughts and beliefs like fear, doubt, self-blame, obsession with age or statistics, and limiting stories about your body being broken. Focus on releasing what blocks you rather than just cutting things from your diet.
“Fear based thinking equals fear based action which leads to shitty results. Time and again, just look back at your personal history on this journey to know that's true.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:31
Recognize that fear-based thinking leads to fear-based actions and poor results. Ask yourself what you need to release rather than focusing on restrictions. Bring your thinking up to align with your baby's higher vibration instead of staying stuck in low-level concerns.
“You have to get to the point where you're asking smarter questions other than why me, when is it gonna happen, how long is it gonna take, what's it gonna cost. Like, those questions when you're truly invested in having this baby, they actually become irrelevant.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:18
Instead of asking 'why me, when will it happen, how long will it take,' ask 'what do I need to let go of to receive this baby?' Focus on higher-frequency questions about alignment and growth rather than logistics and timing.
“If you want to be in alignment, you have to bring yourself up to this level of your baby, to a level of receptivity where you're not so bogged down with all of that negative shit”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:11
Bring yourself up to your baby's level by releasing lower vibrational thoughts like fear, scarcity, and self-blame. Your baby operates at a higher frequency, so you need to match that vibration through mindset work rather than staying bogged down in negativity.
“Maybe you need to let go of the idea that your body is fucking broken. Maybe you wanna let go of the fact that you're over forty and wanna have a baby. Maybe you need to let go of all of your self judgment.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:03
Common blocks include believing your body is broken, obsessing over age, self-judgment about past choices, fear of what others think, arbitrary timelines, and holding onto victim stories. These lower vibrational thoughts prevent alignment with your baby.
A journaling exercise to uncover the limiting beliefs and lower vibrational thoughts blocking your baby
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Get out a piece of paper or open your journal
Write the question
At the top write: 'What do I have to let go of in order to have this baby?'
Free write
Allow yourself to write freely without censoring - let whatever comes up flow onto the page
Face the dragon
Do the courageous thing and face what comes up - this isn't academic, it's about opening your eyes to a different reality
Examine patterns
Look for patterns of fear, doubt, self-judgment, age obsession, or victim stories that keep you vibrating lower than your baby
You must let go of something of a lower nature to receive something of a higher nature - fear blocks babies, which are of higher nature
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by applying this principle. Every woman featured on 348+ podcast episodes brought her thinking up to align with her baby's higher vibration.
Fear-based thinking equals fear-based action which leads to shitty results - your personal fertility history proves this pattern
Rosanne instructs women to examine their personal fertility journey history to see how fear-driven decisions led to poor outcomes, while her clients who broke through fear created new results.
Most women obsess over low-level details like LH surges and statistics instead of asking smarter, higher-frequency questions
Through 12+ years of coaching women across six continents, Rosanne has observed that successful women shift from asking 'why me, when, how long' to asking what needs to be released for alignment.
The courageous gangster women on this podcast let go of their stories to line up with their baby - the question is will you
Every successful woman featured across 348 podcast episodes released limiting beliefs to align with their baby, demonstrating this principle works across different ages and conditions.
You are holding on more tightly to your limiting stories than you are to your dream of having this baby
Rosanne's observation from coaching hundreds of women shows that those who succeed release their attachment to victim stories and age-related fears to make space for their baby.
You must let go of something of a lower nature to receive something of a higher nature - fear blocks babies, which are of higher nature
▶ 5:29Fear-based thinking equals fear-based action which leads to shitty results - your personal fertility history proves this pattern
▶ 6:31Most women obsess over low-level details like LH surges and statistics instead of asking smarter, higher-frequency questions
▶ 6:58The courageous gangster women on this podcast let go of their stories to line up with their baby - the question is will you
▶ 9:47You are holding on more tightly to your limiting stories than you are to your dream of having this baby
▶ 9:27“Focus on cutting things out of your diet and lifestyle to improve fertility”
CONSIDER: Ask what you need to let go of mentally and emotionally to align with your baby's higher vibration
“Ask detailed questions about timing, costs, and medical specifics on your fertility journey”
CONSIDER: When truly invested in having your baby, questions about when, how long, and what it costs become irrelevant
“you have to let go of something of a lower nature in order for you to receive something of a higher nature. Fear, lower nature. Baby, higher nature.”
“Fear based thinking equals fear based action which leads to shitty results.”
“You are holding on more tightly to those stories than you are your dream of this baby.”
“The really courageous gangster women that you've heard on this podcast, they let go of the stories so that they could line up with their baby. The question is, will you?”
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