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Teaching2020-03-23·13 min

EP56 The Secret To “Unexpected” Success

EP56 The Secret To “Unexpected” Success

During uncertain times, Rosanne teaches that advancing confidently toward your dreams and living as you imagine leads to unexpected fertility success. She shares a Henry David Thoreau quote about meeting success 'unexpected in common hours' and guides listeners through grounding exercises to stay connected to their truth.

Grounding in Truth During Uncertain Times

Rosanne opens by acknowledging global uncertainty while redirecting focus to inner truth and basics. She emphasizes that the desire to be a mom exists for a reason and external chaos doesn't change what you know about yourself. This grounding becomes an anchor in the storm.

Heart-Centered Breathing and Visualization

A guided exercise helps listeners connect to their core truth through belly breathing and imagining holding their baby. This visualization demonstrates how truth feels different from media-driven fear and provides access to inner wisdom and certainty.

The Secret to Unexpected Success

Using Henry David Thoreau's wisdom, Rosanne reveals that unexpected success comes from advancing confidently toward dreams regardless of circumstances. She distinguishes between living by vision and faith versus being trapped by common expectations and fear.

Three Steps to Confident Advancement

A practical exercise asks listeners to evaluate whether they're advancing confidently toward their dreams and living as they've imagined. Rosanne emphasizes using this time of social distancing wisely to align more closely with their vision and values.

Questions This Episode Answers

How do you stay positive about fertility during uncertain times

My darling woman, you are here on this planet for a reason. The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

Rosanne Austin2:24

Stay grounded in your inner truth rather than external chaos. Use belly breathing and heart-centered visualization to connect with your dream. Choose to advance confidently toward your goals regardless of circumstances.

What is the secret to unexpected fertility success

The secret to unexpected success is to keep moving in the direction of your dreams and to live life as you imagine it regardless of what is going on around you.

Rosanne Austin7:06

Keep moving in the direction of your dreams and live life as you imagine it, regardless of what's happening around you. This means advancing confidently toward your goals and choosing faith over fear.

How do you advance confidently toward your fertility goals

Ask yourself, are you even in this time of hunkering down, are you advancing confidently in the direction of your mom dream?

Rosanne Austin8:59

Ask yourself if you're truly advancing confidently toward your mom dream, then map out what that looks like and commit to it. Also evaluate how close your current life is to how you've imagined living.

Why does visualizing holding your baby feel so good

The reason why this feels so good, my love, is because it is truth. It is the core of your truth.

Rosanne Austin5:43

It feels good because it connects you to your core truth. That feeling is your inner wisdom recognizing what's meant for you, which feels completely different from fear-based media messaging.

How do you choose faith over fear on fertility journey

You choose where you put your attention, baby.

Rosanne Austin6:14

Recognize that you have the power to choose where you put your attention. Ground yourself in your dreams and inner truth rather than constantly changing external circumstances and worst-case scenarios.

How to Advance Confidently Toward Your Fertility Dreams During Uncertain Times

A three-step exercise to stay grounded in your truth and keep moving toward your goals regardless of external circumstances

  1. 1

    Assess Your Confidence

    Ask yourself honestly: Are you advancing confidently in the direction of your mom dream? Map out exactly what that looks like and commit to it.

  2. 2

    Evaluate Your Alignment

    Determine how close the life you are living today is to the life you have imagined. Look for ways to get closer to alignment with your values and vision.

  3. 3

    Ground in Your Truth

    Use belly breathing and heart-centered visualization to connect with your core truth. Put your hands on your heart, breathe deeply, and imagine holding your baby to anchor yourself in what's real.

All Teachings 6

TeachingEmpowering2:24

The desire in your heart to be a mom exists because it was meant for you, regardless of external circumstances or uncertainty

Rosanne emphasizes this core truth that has guided her work with women across six continents, including her own natural conception at 43 after years of treatment failure.

TeachingEmpowering3:06

Staying connected to your inner truth serves as an anchor in the storm and provides certainty when everything else is changing

This principle underlies Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program, where she reports experiencing 'a fucking baby boom' with unprecedented success rates among her clients.

TeachingEmpowering7:06

The secret to unexpected success is to keep moving in the direction of your dreams and live life as you imagine it, regardless of external circumstances

This principle, quoted from Henry David Thoreau, is embodied by every woman who has shared her success story on the podcast, demonstrating how vision and faith triumph over circumstances.

TeachingEmpowering10:00

When you are in alignment - living by your values, vision, and faith - you can make seemingly impossible things possible

Rosanne reports seeing this daily in her practice, specifically noting 'we are amidst a fucking baby boom in my Fearlessly Fertile Method program' with unprecedented success rates.

TeachingChallenging8:07

Choosing faith over fear is the fundamental choice that separates successful women from those who remain stuck in circumstances

This principle differentiates Rosanne's approach from 'what sheep commonly expect' and has been demonstrated by every successful woman featured on her 56+ episodes.

TeachingComforting3:17

Belly breathing and heart-centered visualization connects you to the truth of your dream and feels different than media-driven fear

Rosanne guides listeners through this specific technique, noting that imagining holding your baby 'feels so fucking different than what is being slung at you by the media, worry warts, and doomsday masochist.'

Episode Tone
4 empowering1 challenging1 comforting

Key Teachings 6

The desire in your heart to be a mom exists because it was meant for you, regardless of external circumstances or uncertainty

2:24

Staying connected to your inner truth serves as an anchor in the storm and provides certainty when everything else is changing

3:06

The secret to unexpected success is to keep moving in the direction of your dreams and live life as you imagine it, regardless of external circumstances

7:06

When you are in alignment - living by your values, vision, and faith - you can make seemingly impossible things possible

10:00

Choosing faith over fear is the fundamental choice that separates successful women from those who remain stuck in circumstances

8:07

Belly breathing and heart-centered visualization connects you to the truth of your dream and feels different than media-driven fear

3:17

Perspectives 2

Uncertain times and external chaos should dictate your sense of well-being and belief in what's possible

CONSIDER: External circumstances are constantly changing, but your inner truth and dream remain constant - hitch your wagon to what you know in your heart rather than what changes every 30 minutes

Success comes through common expectations and living solely by circumstances

CONSIDER: Unexpected success comes from advancing confidently toward your dreams regardless of what others commonly believe is possible

Quotable Moments

My darling woman, you are here on this planet for a reason. The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

Rosanne Austin2:24

The secret to unexpected success is to keep moving in the direction of your dreams and to live life as you imagine it regardless of what is going on around you.

Rosanne Austin7:06

The reason why this feels so good, my love, is because it is truth. It is the core of your truth.

Rosanne Austin5:43

You choose where you put your attention, baby.

Rosanne Austin6:14

When you are in alignment, when you are living by your values, vision, and faith, you can make the most seemingly impossible things possible.

Rosanne Austin10:10

It's all about choosing faith, not fear. Faith, not fear. Faith, not fear.

Rosanne Austin8:07

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