With approximately 109 days left in 2020, Rosanne teaches that pivoting in the final quarter can create the most profound changes. She provides a two-step framework for ending the year with purpose instead of regret.
Rosanne challenges the common tendency to write off difficult years, using sports metaphors to illustrate how the most profound victories often happen in the final moments. She encourages listeners to embrace the remaining 109 days of 2020 as an opportunity for transformation rather than just survival.
A practical two-step process for creating direction and purpose: defining what you want to say to yourself on December 31st, then identifying three specific actions required to achieve that outcome. This framework transforms overwhelm into purposeful action.
Rosanne describes the thinking patterns of women who succeed on their fertility journeys - they refuse to accept statistical limitations, take full responsibility for their outcomes, and maintain unwavering commitment to their goal of becoming mothers.
“With a hundred nine days left in the year approximately, you just never know what's possible. So I really wanna encourage you that now is the time to pivot.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:05
Focus on what you want to say to yourself on December 31st, then identify the three specific things you must do to get there. This creates direction and purpose instead of just surviving until year-end.
“Sometimes it's the last few minutes of the game that matter, whether you're watching football, American football, the patriots a few years back, like, turned shit around in, like, the last few minutes of the game.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:34
Instead of writing off the year, use the remaining time wisely. The final quarter can bring the most profound changes, just like the final minutes of a game can determine victory.
“What is it that you want to be able to say to yourself on December thirty first twenty twenty? The second step is now that we've identified what you wanna be able to say to yourself, I want you to identify three specific things that you must do.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:50
Write down what you want to say to yourself on December 31st, then identify three specific things you must do to be able to say that. This moves you from overwhelm to action with clear direction.
“They may have all kinds of evidence and all kinds of statistics giving them the finger, but they give those statistics and the circumstances the finger back and say, nope. I'm not leaving without my baby.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:15
Successful women refuse to accept statistical limitations and commit to not leaving without their baby. They think, believe, and take action differently than women who accept defeat.
“The changes that can be made that can literally shift the trajectory of your journey can be made like that, like that. You just have to decide to be the woman that gets that.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 4:38
Yes, changes that shift your entire fertility journey trajectory can happen instantly when you decide to be the woman who gets different results and take different actions.
A two-step framework for creating purposeful direction and transformation in the remaining months of the year
Define Your December 31st Statement
Get out a clean sheet of paper and write what you want to be able to say to yourself on December 31st at 11:59 PM. Focus on who you want to become and what you want to accomplish, not just surviving until year-end.
Identify Three Required Actions
Based on what you want to say to yourself on December 31st, identify the three specific things you must do to be able to say that. This creates a clear action plan and moves you from overwhelm into purposeful direction.
The final quarter of the year offers the greatest potential for profound transformation, just like the final minutes of a game can determine victory
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by making dramatic mindset shifts. Tom Brady and the Patriots turned around seemingly impossible games in the final minutes.
If you want different results, you have to be different - think different things and take different action
Rosanne's clients who succeed make dramatic identity shifts and mindset changes that create seemingly impossible results, like natural conception against statistical odds.
Changes that can literally shift the trajectory of your journey can be made instantly - you just have to decide to be the woman that gets that
Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true through rapid mindset transformations and identity shifts.
Women who succeed on this journey give statistics and circumstances the finger back and say 'I'm not leaving without my baby'
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure by refusing to accept statistical limitations and maintaining an unwavering commitment to her goal.
You get to decide what 2020 was about for you as an individual thinking woman, instead of joining the sheep and saying this year was terrible
Rosanne teaches women to take responsibility for their experience and outcomes rather than being victims of circumstances, which is how she overcame her own fertility challenges.
The final quarter of the year offers the greatest potential for profound transformation, just like the final minutes of a game can determine victory
▶ 2:24If you want different results, you have to be different - think different things and take different action
▶ 3:57Changes that can literally shift the trajectory of your journey can be made instantly - you just have to decide to be the woman that gets that
▶ 4:38Women who succeed on this journey give statistics and circumstances the finger back and say 'I'm not leaving without my baby'
▶ 9:15You get to decide what 2020 was about for you as an individual thinking woman, instead of joining the sheep and saying this year was terrible
▶ 9:04“When a year has been difficult, it's best to just survive until it's over and write it off”
CONSIDER: The final quarter offers the greatest opportunity for transformation - now is the time to pivot, not give up
“External circumstances and statistics determine your fertility outcomes”
CONSIDER: You get to decide how your journey goes by refusing to accept limitations and committing to not leaving without your baby
“I'm not leaving without my baby. I get to decide how this goes. I'm gonna show up, and I ain't gonna give up.”
“The changes that can be made that can literally shift the trajectory of your journey can be made like that, like that. You just have to decide to be the woman that gets that.”
“If you want different results, you have to be different. You have to think different things, and you have to take different action.”
“You get to decide what twenty twenty was about for you. Instead of joining the sheep and saying this year was, was so terrible, you get to decide for you as an individual thinking woman who's smart.”
“Sometimes some of the most insane victories are pulled out in the very last minutes of the game.”
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Successful women allow themselves to be the woman who beats the odds before it actually happens - they live their journey now in the way a woman who has beaten the odds would
Women traveling from the UK and across the US to attend Rosanne's Boise retreat exemplify this by investing in themselves, taking time off work, and prioritizing their fertility goals despite potential excuses about timing or money.
When a woman allows herself to be the woman that beats the odds, she empowers herself to transform her results through thinking differently, showing up differently, and creating new outcomes
This follows Newton's third law of motion - for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Women who booked flights and committed to the retreat had to be that woman when they said yes, which guaranteed they would actually get to Boise.
The old rules of fertility are rooted in a masculine paradigm of limitation that focuses on what can't be done rather than possibility
Rosanne has coached women for 12+ years across six continents, observing that traditional fertility approaches emphasize statistics, age limitations, and failure histories rather than individual potential and heart-based knowing.
The new rules of fertility respect the mind-body connection and reject the lie that stress has nothing to do with fertility
Over 364 previous podcast episodes feature stories of women who beat fertility odds through mindset work, including women who conceived naturally after years of treatment failure by believing bigger than medical limitations.
