Rosanne teaches that successful women on fertility journeys allow themselves to be the woman who beats the odds before it actually happens. She shares insights from studying women attending her retreat and explains how embodying these qualities now transforms your results through Newton's third law of motion.
Rosanne shares how studying the women attending her Boise retreat revealed the qualities of those who beat the odds. These women traveled internationally, took time off work, and invested in themselves despite potential excuses about timing or money.
Successful women allow themselves to be the woman who beats the odds before it actually happens. They don't wait for pregnancy to embody confidence - they give themselves permission to be that woman now.
When you show up differently, your results must be different by natural law. This isn't magic but logical cause and effect - changing your thoughts and actions creates new outcomes through Newton's third law of motion.
Rosanne challenges listeners to honestly assess whether they're being the woman who beats the odds or tolerating excuses, playing small, and letting setbacks dictate their journey instead of finding solutions.
“Successful women allow themselves to be the woman that beats the odds before it actually happens. This means they live their journey now in the way a woman who has beaten the odds would.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:29
Allow yourself to be that woman before it actually happens. Live your fertility journey now the way a woman who has beaten the odds would - confident, solution-focused, and unwilling to let obstacles stop her.
“When a woman allows herself to do this, she learns to think differently so she can show up differently, therefore create new results. It's basically Newton's third law of motion.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:32
When you show up differently, your results must be different by natural law. It's Newton's third law of motion - for every action there's an equal and opposite reaction. Changing how you think and show up literally transforms your outcomes.
“Think about how instead of trapping themselves in someone else's treatment timeline, they said, fuck it. I'm doing this for me. My next cycle or whatever else is going on in my life can wait.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:45
Common excuses include timing ('it's not practical right now'), money ('I can't afford this'), and treatment schedules ('I can't interrupt my cycle'). Successful women reject these excuses and prioritize their goals instead.
“You must surround yourself with people who lift you up on this journey because so much of the world outside doesn't get it, and whether they intend to or not, they they often try to bring you down by tamping down your expectations.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:46
Critical. You must surround yourself with people who lift you up because the outside world often tries to bring you down by lowering your expectations. Choose high-vibrational women over those who just want to feel sorry for themselves.
“Being the woman that beats the odds means she is focused on how this can work for her. She's not getting stuck in the weeds over the shit that isn't working.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:20
They focus on how things can work for them rather than what isn't working. They don't back down - they double down. They pick themselves up, dust off, and keep moving forward without settling for mediocrity.
A framework for embodying fertility success before achieving pregnancy
Ask yourself honestly
Are you being the woman that beats the odds? Are you tolerating your own bullshit excuses? Are you letting temporary setbacks dictate your journey?
Stop playing small
Refuse to wallow in mediocrity and complaining. Instead, be the woman who finds solutions and doesn't let blocks run her.
Give yourself permission
Allow yourself to be confident now rather than waiting for doctors or experts to give their blessing about your prospects.
Show up as the badass
Be the one woman in the room who knows exactly where she's headed and isn't going to let anyone get in her way.
Focus on solutions
Concentrate on how this can work for you instead of getting stuck in what isn't working.
Successful women allow themselves to be the woman who beats the odds before it actually happens - they live their journey now in the way a woman who has beaten the odds would
Women traveling from the UK and across the US to attend Rosanne's Boise retreat exemplify this by investing in themselves, taking time off work, and prioritizing their fertility goals despite potential excuses about timing or money.
When a woman allows herself to be the woman that beats the odds, she empowers herself to transform her results through thinking differently, showing up differently, and creating new outcomes
This follows Newton's third law of motion - for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Women who booked flights and committed to the retreat had to be that woman when they said yes, which guaranteed they would actually get to Boise.
Women who beat the odds don't get immobilized by excuses about timing, money, or practicality - they say 'fuck it, I'm doing this for me' and prioritize their fertility journey
Retreat attendees could have made excuses about leaving during treatment cycles, traveling to Boise, or financial concerns, but instead chose to interrupt their predictable patterns and invest in themselves.
Being the woman who beats the odds means focusing on how this can work for her, not getting stuck in the weeds over what isn't working
The retreat attendees demonstrate this by being solution-oriented women who don't back down but double down, picking themselves up and straightening their crowns to keep moving forward on their journey.
You must surround yourself with people who lift you up on this journey because so much of the world tries to bring you down by tamping down your expectations
The retreat attendees purposely chose a group of high vibrational women rather than a sewing circle of people who just want to feel bad for themselves, understanding that community matters for success.
The qualities that make women beat the odds exist in you already - you simply have to drag them out, sometimes kicking and screaming
Rosanne's work focuses on breaking down barriers to these qualities so women have full access to these gems, making them unstoppable in knowing they're doing everything possible mind and body.
Successful women allow themselves to be the woman who beats the odds before it actually happens - they live their journey now in the way a woman who has beaten the odds would
▶ 5:29When a woman allows herself to be the woman that beats the odds, she empowers herself to transform her results through thinking differently, showing up differently, and creating new outcomes
▶ 7:22Women who beat the odds don't get immobilized by excuses about timing, money, or practicality - they say 'fuck it, I'm doing this for me' and prioritize their fertility journey
▶ 2:15Being the woman who beats the odds means focusing on how this can work for her, not getting stuck in the weeds over what isn't working
▶ 6:20You must surround yourself with people who lift you up on this journey because so much of the world tries to bring you down by tamping down your expectations
▶ 3:46The qualities that make women beat the odds exist in you already - you simply have to drag them out, sometimes kicking and screaming
▶ 9:04“Don't get your hopes up or count your eggs before they hatch - wait until you're holding your baby to be confident”
CONSIDER: Successful women give themselves permission to be confident now and show up as the woman who knows exactly where she's headed
“It's impractical to invest in fertility coaching during active treatment cycles”
CONSIDER: Instead of trapping themselves in someone else's treatment timeline, successful women say 'my next cycle can wait, I matter, I want this, I'm doing it'
“Successful women allow themselves to be the woman that beats the odds before it actually happens.”
“You show up differently. Your results, by law, must be different. It's a law of nature, not some hocus pocus airy fairy self held bullshit.”
“They said, fuck it. I'm doing this for me. My next cycle or whatever else is going on in my life can wait. I matter.”
“These are the kind of women who may be scared shitless, but they find it within themselves to do it anyway.”
“Tolerating mediocrity on this journey is bullshit. You and your dreams are better than that.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was fucking meant for you - this desire is your divine assignment
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by following this principle. Recent podcast guests Elise and Mikayla both held babies after choosing belief over their circumstances.
Belief always precedes the miracle - you must believe even in the darkest moments, not just when things feel good
All of the recent podcast success stories featured women who believed bigger than their current circumstances. A fertility expert interviewed confirmed that most fertility challenges are figureoutable.
There's a fundamental difference between wanting a baby from lack versus being ready to receive one - wanting comes from what isn't here, while readiness focuses on preparing for what's to come
Rosanne observed this shift in all successful clients featured on her podcast over 200+ episodes, noting when 'the switch flips' from chasing energy to confident readiness
Being ready to receive has an innate emotional maturity, confidence, peace and calm that is decidedly different from the desperate energy of 'when is my baby gonna get here?'
Rosanne describes recognizing this shift in all women who achieved success on her podcast, noting it's 'truly a beautiful thing' to observe when the transformation happens
