Fertilty Mindset: Be Willing to Break the Rules
Rosanne Austin teaches women to break societal rules about when things should happen, how they should happen, what they deserve, and who they should be to create fertility success on their own terms.
Teachings 4
Rules about how things should happen keep women trapped in linear thinking that doesn't apply to fertility journeys
Austin explains how education system logic (do homework, get grade, pass class) doesn't work for fertility - you can follow all rules and not have a baby
Beliefs about what you deserve directly impact your ability to receive, and conceiving is all about receiving
Austin connects poverty mindset from previous episodes, explaining that people with scarcity thinking tend to be the worst receivers
Being 'nice' is a massive con job that keeps women trapped in weak boundaries and others' expectations
Austin explains that people who call you nice often benefit from your lack of boundaries and misery, especially during fertility struggles
You can't beat the odds by staying in the same place - breaking rules is required for fertility success
Austin emphasizes becoming an outlier and weirdo who does what everyone says can't be done, referencing her Fearlessly Fertile Method success stories
Perspectives 2
All rules about when things are supposed to happen in life are completely made up and can be changed
Austin references career-driven women who focused on success in their thirties and found love later, challenging societal timelines about marriage and babies
Rules about what's 'too much' to want often come from others' judgments, not your own truth
Austin challenges the idea that wanting career, love, achievements, baby, wealth, and vacations is too much, questioning who gets to decide this
Quotable Moments 4
“Your rules are one hundred percent made up.”
— Rosanne Austin“You can't beat the odds by finding yourself in the same place you were last year. If you want to beat the odds, you have to be willing to break the fucking rules.”
— Rosanne Austin“Being nice is a massive con job that has been perpetrated upon women all over the world regardless of language and culture.”
— Rosanne Austin“The best question ever is what do I want here? What are the rules that I choose to live by? That is when your baby can really hear you.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
Why don't fertility rules work for everyone
“You could follow all the rules and not have a baby in your arms. So this is exactly why smart women are going to be exploring this topic because you have to change the rules.”
— Rosanne Austin
Traditional fertility rules follow linear logic like the education system, but fertility doesn't work that way. You can follow every rule and still not get pregnant, which is why smart women need to create their own rules based on their unique situation.
What rules should women break during fertility struggles
“Being nice is a con job that has been perpetrated upon women all over the world regardless of language and culture.”
— Rosanne Austin
Women should challenge rules about when things should happen, how they should happen, what they deserve, what's too much to want, and who they need to be for others. This includes breaking the rule that they must be 'nice' and accommodate everyone's expectations.
How do made up rules affect fertility success
“Conceiving is all about receiving. People who have a poverty mindset tend to be the worst receivers.”
— Rosanne Austin
Made up rules create limitations that prevent women from receiving what they want. Since conceiving is about receiving and people with poverty mindset are poor receivers, restrictive rules about deserving and timing directly sabotage fertility outcomes.
What happens when you challenge fertility timing rules
“What if you are at the perfect time in your life to have a baby? How it's supposed to happen is exactly as it is unfolding right now.”
— Rosanne Austin
When you stop believing in arbitrary timing rules, you can embrace that right now might be the perfect time to have a baby, regardless of what others think about your age, career stage, or life circumstances.
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Key Points 6
All rules about when things are supposed to happen in life are completely made up and can be changed
Rules about how things should happen keep women trapped in linear thinking that doesn't apply to fertility journeys
Beliefs about what you deserve directly impact your ability to receive, and conceiving is all about receiving
Being 'nice' is a massive con job that keeps women trapped in weak boundaries and others' expectations
Rules about what's 'too much' to want often come from others' judgments, not your own truth
You can't beat the odds by staying in the same place - breaking rules is required for fertility success
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