“Being easygoing is always good”

Being 'nice' is a massive con job that keeps women trapped with weak boundaries and benefits others at their expense

The nicest people typically have the weakest boundaries, and those calling you nice often benefit from your misery and lack of boundaries on the fertility journey.

You cannot abandon yourself during fertility treatment decisions - backing down from your truth leads to blame and relationship destruction

Sharon Pope emphasizes that if a woman wants to 'go to the mat' for fertility treatment but backs down due to partner pressure, she will regret it and blame him, causing the relationship to fail anyway. She stresses that he's going to find out who you really are regardless.

Not diving into difficult conversations with your partner is based purely on fear

Rosanne connects the podcast title 'Fearlessly Fertile' to relationship communication, pointing out that when partners avoid exploring difficult perspectives or decisions, fear is the only reason they don't investigate further.

Holding back on the fertility journey comes down to good old fashioned societal misogyny - good girls are supposed to be polite and consider other people's feelings

When a man wants something, he fucking goes and gets it and we applaud him as a go getter. It's 2019 - time to put on your big girl panties and rock your fertility journey by asking for and getting what you want.