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Teaching2021-12-06·16 min

EP145 Smart Mama Move: Learn HOW To Think

EP145 Smart Mama Move: Learn HOW To Think

Rosanne teaches the crucial distinction between learning HOW to think versus WHAT to think. She reveals how most people operate from limiting thought patterns learned in childhood and provides a framework for evaluating and transforming your thinking paradigm to create fertility success.

The Critical Distinction: How to Think vs What to Think

Rosanne opens with the foundational concept that most people learn what to think but never how to think. She explains how your thinking framework determines whether you see yourself as empowered or victimized, and how this directly creates your fertility journey experience.

Questioning the Lies We've Been Told

A powerful segment on how repeated beliefs don't become true just because many people say them. Rosanne challenges listeners to question generational conditioning and fertility limitations that disconnect us from our true power and possibility.

Moving Beyond Five-Sense Limitations

Rosanne teaches that humans only perceive 0.005% of reality yet operate as if their five senses show everything. She discusses how childhood conditioning often disconnects us from intuition, imagination, and connection to something higher.

The Three-Step Framework for Transformation

A practical exercise to evaluate your thinking patterns, assess your follow-through on fertility education, and take concrete action steps. Rosanne emphasizes the importance of implementation over information consumption.

Questions This Episode Answers

What's the difference between learning how to think vs what to think?

Most of us have been taught a lot about what to think, but a seldom few have been taught how to think.

Rosanne Austin2:34

Learning WHAT to think gives you specific beliefs, while learning HOW to think teaches you the process and framework for evaluating information. Most people learn what to think but never examine their thinking patterns.

How does your thinking pattern affect fertility success?

Woman, you've got to understand that how you think is creating the experience that you have not only on this journey, but in your life. It has the power to change everything.

Rosanne Austin11:14

Your thinking framework determines whether you see yourself as empowered or victimized, operate from scarcity or abundance, and make decisions from fear or possibility. This directly creates your experience on the fertility journey.

Why should I question commonly accepted beliefs about fertility?

Just because a lot of people say it, your family says it, and generations past have said it, doesn't make shit true. The number of times a lie is repeated doesn't somehow increase its veracity.

Rosanne Austin5:29

Just because many people repeat something doesn't make it true. Commonly accepted limitations about age, statistics, and fertility are often lies that keep women disconnected from their true power and possibility.

How can I evaluate my own thinking patterns?

Do you see yourself as empowered, or do you see yourself as a victim of a mean cruel world that's just out to get you?

Rosanne Austin3:14

Ask yourself: Do you see yourself as empowered or victimized? Do you operate from scarcity or abundance? Are your decisions based on fear or possibility? Do others' opinions heavily influence your choices?

What role does humility play in changing how you think?

It takes humility to evaluate how you think. It takes your commitment to whole truth over the need to be right.

Rosanne Austin11:24

It takes humility to honestly evaluate your thinking patterns and commitment to whole truth over being right. Many people miss wisdom because they're too committed to being right rather than seeing the whole truth.

Why do people stay stuck in limiting thinking patterns?

Think about how when we were children, so many of us got dumbed down, ushered away from our intuition, connection to God, universe, source, and shamed for our wild imaginations.

Rosanne Austin8:47

Most people are taught to think within artificial limitations from childhood, shamed away from intuition and big thinking, and conditioned to accept what's 'reasonable' rather than following their hearts.

How to Evaluate Your Thinking Patterns

A three-step process to honestly assess and transform how you think on your fertility journey

  1. 1

    Take an honest inventory of how you think

    Examine whether you use standards that don't apply to this journey, compare your progress with others, look solely to visible evidence to determine what's possible, or let others' opinions skew your decision making. Be honest about janky thinking patterns with love, not condemnation.

  2. 2

    Come clean about your efforts to change this

    Assess how many books you've read or free content you've consumed but never implemented. Take an honest look at whether you've actually followed through with information you've been given or if it's time to up your game.

  3. 3

    Take action and share the message

    Share this content with someone who could benefit, screenshot and tag on social media, and leave a review. Use this as practice for taking action rather than just consuming information.

All Teachings 8

TeachingEmpowering2:34

Most people have been taught WHAT to think, but rarely HOW to think - and this distinction is critical for fertility success

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by changing how she thought through problems and challenges, not just what she believed.

TeachingEmpowering11:14

How you think is creating the experience you have not only on this journey, but in your life - it has the power to change everything

Rosanne's clients around the world consistently report that changing their thinking framework led to pregnancy success after previous failures.

TeachingChallenging3:04

Your thinking process and framework determines whether you see yourself as empowered or as a victim of a cruel world

Women in Rosanne's program learn to shift from victim thinking to empowered thinking, leading to pregnancy success where previous approaches failed.

TeachingReframing8:17

Humans only perceive 0.005% of what actually exists in the universe, yet we think our five senses show us everything

Rosanne teaches women to move beyond five-sense dominant thinking, which allowed her to conceive naturally at 43 despite medical limitations.

TeachingFierce7:13

Every time you bet on yourself and follow your heart, even when it scares you, it pays off like a motherfucker

Rosanne's pattern of taking scared leaps led to success in business, faith, love, and bringing her baby boy here at 43.

TeachingChallenging8:47

Children are often dumbed down and shamed away from their intuition, connection to God, and wild imaginations

Rosanne overcame years of conditioning that disconnected her from intuition, which was essential for her natural conception at 43.

TeachingChallenging11:24

It takes humility to evaluate how you think and commitment to whole truth over the need to be right

Women in Rosanne's program who embrace humility over hubris consistently achieve fertility success after previous failures.

TeachingFierce5:40

The number of times a lie is repeated doesn't increase its veracity - it's still a fucking lie

Rosanne rejected repeated medical pronouncements about her fertility limitations at 43 and conceived naturally by questioning accepted 'truths'.

Episode Tone
2 empowering3 challenging1 reframing2 fierce

Key Teachings 8

Most people have been taught WHAT to think, but rarely HOW to think - and this distinction is critical for fertility success

2:34

How you think is creating the experience you have not only on this journey, but in your life - it has the power to change everything

11:14

Your thinking process and framework determines whether you see yourself as empowered or as a victim of a cruel world

3:04

Humans only perceive 0.005% of what actually exists in the universe, yet we think our five senses show us everything

8:17

Every time you bet on yourself and follow your heart, even when it scares you, it pays off like a motherfucker

7:13

Children are often dumbed down and shamed away from their intuition, connection to God, and wild imaginations

8:47

It takes humility to evaluate how you think and commitment to whole truth over the need to be right

11:24

The number of times a lie is repeated doesn't increase its veracity - it's still a fucking lie

5:40

Perspectives 3

You need to accept the statistical limitations and 'realistic' expectations for your fertility

CONSIDER: Just because generations say something doesn't make it true - question the lies repeated as truth

You should make decisions based only on what you can see and prove with your five senses

CONSIDER: We only perceive 0.005% of reality - there's vastly more possibility than what appears directly in front of you

Being practical and reasonable is the smart way to approach your fertility journey

CONSIDER: Every time you follow your heart beyond 'reasonable' limits, it pays off majorly

Quotable Moments

Most of us have been taught a lot about what to think, but a seldom few have been taught how to think.

Rosanne Austin2:34

Just because a lot of people say it, your family says it, and generations past have said it, doesn't make shit true. The number of times a lie is repeated doesn't somehow increase its veracity.

Rosanne Austin5:29

Woman, you've got to understand that how you think is creating the experience that you have not only on this journey, but in your life. It has the power to change everything.

Rosanne Austin11:14

Every time you bet on you, even if shit gets rocky, you know you will be so glad you did as you lay dying at a hundred and thirty thinking, damn, I lived one hell of a life.

Rosanne Austin7:24

It takes humility to evaluate how you think. It takes your commitment to whole truth over the need to be right.

Rosanne Austin11:24

What we as humans perceive is only point zero zero five percent of what actually exists in the universe. But through our hubris and self righteous bullshit as humans, we think that our five senses show us all.

Rosanne Austin8:27

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