Rosanne teaches how to access intuition and wisdom through the power of silence, inspired by Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard's insights on prayer and listening. She provides a practical 7-day exercise to develop deeper listening skills both in solitude and with others.
Rosanne debunks the complex mythology around accessing intuition and wisdom, sharing insights from Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard about prayer being about listening rather than speaking. She reveals how our betrayal of inner knowing creates disconnection and suspicion on the fertility journey.
The discussion explores how we distract ourselves from pain and truth with noise and endless to-dos, then blame God/universe for not helping when guidance was available all along. Rosanne identifies the parts of us that live with chips on our shoulders and distrust those trying to help.
Rosanne provides a practical framework starting with 2 minutes of daily silence, progressing to deep listening with others, and sharing the knowledge. She emphasizes sipping silence like fine scotch and using her courtroom-honed listening skills to pick up truth and nuance in relationships.
The episode concludes with a powerful reminder about the inner knowing regarding desires to be mothers and how belief systems determine whether we live as creative, resourceful beings or succumb to fear. Rosanne contrasts trusting inner wisdom versus decades of programming about statistics and medical authority.
“Starting today, set the timer on your phone for two minutes, and for that two minutes, sit in silence. No distractions from your phone. It is just there to time you. Turn it over when the clock starts and just sit.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:32
Start with just 2 minutes of daily silence practice. Set a timer, sit without distractions, and simply be with the silence. Your brain will not be silent and that's fine - this is a feeling exercise. Do this daily for 7 days to begin connecting with your inner wisdom.
“It is our betrayal of that still small voice of God universe source that causes us to distrust, to feel disconnected, and live in suspicion.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:47
We betray our inner knowing by distrusting the still small voice of God/universe/source. We distract ourselves from pain and truth with noise, endless to-dos, and shoulds. This causes us to live with suspicion, thinking others are trying to take advantage of us, and focusing on what we stand to lose rather than gain.
“When you shut your mouth and get present in order to truly hear someone, it's crazy the level of nuance you pick up.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:36
Keep your mouth shut during conversations and really connect energetically with the person speaking. Don't waste time thinking of what to say next - just be with them. When you get present to truly hear someone, you'll pick up incredible nuance and truth that your ego normally blinds you to.
“There is a knowing within you right now. There is a part of you that knows that your desire to be a mom is valid, righteous, and true.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:21
Your belief system determines whether you live this journey as a creative, resourceful, whole being or succumb to fear. There's a knowing within you that your desire to be a mom is valid and true. The question is whether you'll trust that inner knowing or decades of programming that says only statistics matter.
“Like a fine single malt scotch, sip the silence. Starting today, set the timer on your phone for two minutes, and for that two minutes, sit in silence.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:32
Start with 2 minutes daily for 7 days. Think of silence like sipping fine single malt scotch rather than drinking from a fire hose. For those who find it easy, the challenge is to go deeper into the silence during those 2 minutes, as the silence is infinite like the divine intelligence within it.
A 3-step process to boost intuition and wisdom through daily silence practice and deep listening skills
Get Your Ass Some Silence ASAP
Set a timer for 2 minutes daily and sit in silence with no distractions. Turn your phone over and just sit - no need to close eyes or meditate. Your brain won't be silent and that's fine. Notice what it feels like to be in your body. Do this for 7 consecutive days, and if it feels easy, challenge yourself to go deeper into the infinite silence.
Practice Deep Listening with Others
Keep your mouth shut during conversations and connect energetically with the person speaking. Don't think about what to say next - just be with them. This works even with difficult people at work. When you get present to truly hear someone, you'll pick up incredible nuance and truth you normally miss.
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Intuition, wisdom, and discernment come from within through connection to divine silence, not external rituals or complicated practices
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure by learning to trust her inner wisdom and divine guidance over external statistics and medical limitations.
We betray our inner knowing by distrusting the still small voice of God/universe/source, which causes disconnection and suspicion
Rosanne identified that living with a chip on your shoulder, thinking helpers only want money, and focusing on what you stand to lose versus gain are signs of betraying your inner wisdom.
The road back to intuition and wisdom is paved with silence - turning down external noise to be receptive to the sound of silence
Rosanne's 10 years in the courtroom as a prosecutor honed her listening skills, teaching her that truth is everywhere when you shut your mouth and truly listen.
We distract ourselves from pain and truth with noise, procrastinating from hearing what's in the silence with endless to-dos and shoulds
Rosanne observed that women on fertility journeys often fill their lives with distractions to avoid sitting with difficult emotions, then get angry at God/universe for not helping when the guidance was there all along.
Starting with just 2 minutes of daily silence practice is more effective than trying to drink from the fire hose - sip silence like fine single malt scotch
Rosanne developed this approach after 12+ years coaching women across six continents, finding that small consistent practices create deeper transformation than overwhelming meditation attempts.
When you shut your mouth and get present to truly hear someone, you pick up incredible nuance - maybe that person you want to strangle isn't such an asshole
Rosanne's 10 years as a California prosecutor taught her that deep listening reveals truth everywhere, including picking up on insecurity and fear that ego tries to blind you to.
When comfortable in silence, you become an exceptional listener who hears both the truth people speak and the truth in your own heart
Rosanne's courtroom experience demonstrated that exceptional listening skills reveal truth on multiple levels, which she now applies to help women trust their inner knowing about their fertility journeys.
Your belief system determines whether you live this journey as the creative, resourceful, whole being you were created to be or succumb to the paper tiger of fear
Rosanne has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true by teaching them to see past distractions and focus on the truth that they were meant to be mothers.
Intuition, wisdom, and discernment come from within through connection to divine silence, not external rituals or complicated practices
▶ 2:26We betray our inner knowing by distrusting the still small voice of God/universe/source, which causes disconnection and suspicion
▶ 3:47The road back to intuition and wisdom is paved with silence - turning down external noise to be receptive to the sound of silence
▶ 4:39We distract ourselves from pain and truth with noise, procrastinating from hearing what's in the silence with endless to-dos and shoulds
▶ 4:49Starting with just 2 minutes of daily silence practice is more effective than trying to drink from the fire hose - sip silence like fine single malt scotch
▶ 6:32When you shut your mouth and get present to truly hear someone, you pick up incredible nuance - maybe that person you want to strangle isn't such an asshole
▶ 8:36When comfortable in silence, you become an exceptional listener who hears both the truth people speak and the truth in your own heart
▶ 9:19Your belief system determines whether you live this journey as the creative, resourceful, whole being you were created to be or succumb to the paper tiger of fear
▶ 10:42“Intuition and wisdom require complex spiritual practices, candles, or levitation to access”
CONSIDER: Intuition and wisdom are simply available through silence and listening - the process is far simpler than mythology suggests
“Prayer and connection to the divine means speaking and asking for things”
CONSIDER: Prayer involves becoming silent, listening, and waiting until God/universe/source is heard - it's about receiving rather than speaking
“It is our betrayal of that still small voice of God universe source that causes us to distrust, to feel disconnected, and live in suspicion.”
“The road back to intuition, wisdom, and discernment is paved with silence.”
“Like a fine single malt scotch, sip the silence.”
“When you shut your mouth and get present in order to truly hear someone, it's crazy the level of nuance you pick up.”
“There is a knowing within you right now. There is a part of you that knows that your desire to be a mom is valid, righteous, and true.”
“Your belief system will determine whether you live this journey as the creative, resourceful, and whole being you were created to be or whether you will succumb to the paper tiger of fear.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
A fertility doctor can sense whether an embryo will implant with nearly 100% certainty before leaving the operating room
Dr. Erica Bove states she can tell 'with almost a hundred percent certainty' if an embryo will take before leaving the OR, even though embryos shouldn't implant for 24-48 hours minimum.
If a woman is not in a receptive state to receive an embryo, the transfer should be stopped for prayer and meditation
Dr. Bove explains 'if I sense that a woman is really not in a receptive state to receive an embryo, I'm not gonna put that embryo in. I stop the show. We're praying. We're meditating.'
The desire in your heart to be a mom exists because it was meant for you, regardless of external circumstances or uncertainty
Rosanne emphasizes this core truth that has guided her work with women across six continents, including her own natural conception at 43 after years of treatment failure.
Staying connected to your inner truth serves as an anchor in the storm and provides certainty when everything else is changing
This principle underlies Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program, where she reports experiencing 'a fucking baby boom' with unprecedented success rates among her clients.
