Rosanne guides listeners through a powerful year-end reflection exercise using gratitude, growth, and decision to close out 2021 and prepare for fertility success in the new year. She provides a specific three-column worksheet to help women identify what they're grateful for, the growth each experience offered, and decisive actions moving forward.
Rosanne teaches that true gratitude extends beyond easily identifiable good things to include devastating experiences. This comprehensive gratitude practice serves as an expression of faith and becomes a golden ticket to freedom from paralyzing fear. The key is developing capacity to find gratitude even in the depths of fertility despair.
Moving beyond basic gratitude, Rosanne guides listeners to specifically identify how each experience supported their growth. This involves asking not just what you're grateful for, but how each circumstance made you better or stronger. The growth identification process transforms experiences into stepping stones for personal development.
The final step separates mediocre from extraordinary women - making decisions based on gratitude and growth. Rosanne emphasizes that many women suffer because they haven't decided who they will be or how they will respond. Success becomes non-negotiable when you make decisive commitments rather than tolerating wishy-washy indecision.
Rosanne provides a specific exercise using a downloadable worksheet with three columns for gratitude, growth, and decisions. She emphasizes the importance of writing by hand to engage different brain mechanisms and setting aside dedicated time for deep reflection. The completed worksheet becomes a daily reminder of commitments made.
“Thinking like a woman who succeeds on this journey requires that you put yourself in a position to tell the whole truth about shit, not just wallowing in the negative.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 1:23
Use gratitude, growth, and decision reflection. List what you're grateful for, identify specific growth from each experience, and make decisive commitments moving forward. This approach tells the whole truth about your year while positioning you for success.
“Something truly extraordinary happens when a woman makes a decision to be successful. Suddenly, the seemingly impossible becomes possible.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:34
Women who succeed make decisive commitments about who they will be and how they will respond, making success non-negotiable regardless of how their journey unfolds. Those who struggle often remain in wishy-washy indecision, which is a form of self-sabotage.
“Developing the capacity to have gratitude for all that shit as well, even in the midst of devastation, is your golden ticket to freedom from the hairy hands of paralyzing fear and terror that comes from uncertainty.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:45
Develop gratitude for both good and devastating experiences, seeing gratitude as an expression of faith. This becomes your golden ticket to freedom from paralyzing fear and uncertainty that comes from not knowing when your baby will arrive.
“You may say you want a baby, but have you decided that you would be successful? Have you decided that you will be successful?”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 4:08
Wanting is passive while deciding involves active commitment to success as non-negotiable. Decision means committing to do whatever it takes with an open heart to how the experience unfolds, regardless of when or how your baby arrives.
“Have you ever taken the time to specifically ask how what you are grateful for has supported your growth? How are you better for the thing?”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:27
For each experience you're grateful for, specifically ask how it supported your growth and made you better - not just for having the experience, but for the personal development it offered. Then make decisions based on that growth.
A three-step worksheet exercise to reflect on your fertility year and position yourself for success in the new year
Download and Print the Worksheet
Set aside minimum 30 minutes and print the three-column worksheet to engage different brain mechanisms through writing
List 15 Gratitudes
In the first column, list the top 15 things you're grateful for this year, including small things like having your limbs and five senses
Identify Specific Growth
In the second column, for each gratitude item, list the specific growth that thing offered you - how it made you better or stronger
Make Decisive Commitments
In the third column, name a decision you will make moving forward based on your gratitude and growth - decisions you will honor and stick to
Display and Review
Put the completed worksheet somewhere you can see it daily as a reminder of life's gifts and your commitments to success
Gratitude is an expression of faith that becomes a golden ticket to freedom from paralyzing fear and uncertainty when applied to both good and devastating experiences
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by developing gratitude practices that helped her navigate fertility setbacks without being paralyzed by fear.
The master stroke that separates mediocre from extraordinary is making decisions as a result of gratitude and growth reflection
Women in Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program are now pregnant or holding babies because they dared to make decisive commitments rather than staying in wishy-washy indecision.
Success becomes non-negotiable when you decide who you will be and how you will respond, regardless of how your fertility journey unfolds
Rosanne's methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true by teaching them to make success a non-negotiable through decisive commitment.
Tolerance of wishy-washy indecision is a mechanism of self-sabotage that keeps women small and spinning for no reason
Rosanne observed that women who damn themselves to mediocrity have indecision smeared all over their fertility journey, while her successful clients made decisive commitments to their success.
Something extraordinary happens when a woman makes a decision to be successful - suddenly the seemingly impossible becomes possible
Proof exists across Rosanne's Instagram, YouTube, and podcast of women who have overcome seemingly impossible fertility odds after making decisive commitments through her program.
Gratitude is an expression of faith that becomes a golden ticket to freedom from paralyzing fear and uncertainty when applied to both good and devastating experiences
▶ 2:45The master stroke that separates mediocre from extraordinary is making decisions as a result of gratitude and growth reflection
▶ 3:48Success becomes non-negotiable when you decide who you will be and how you will respond, regardless of how your fertility journey unfolds
▶ 4:08Tolerance of wishy-washy indecision is a mechanism of self-sabotage that keeps women small and spinning for no reason
▶ 9:48Something extraordinary happens when a woman makes a decision to be successful - suddenly the seemingly impossible becomes possible
▶ 12:34“Year-end reflection should focus on analyzing what went wrong and dwelling on fertility failures”
CONSIDER: Mature women with perspective reflect on the whole truth - both challenges and growth - using gratitude, growth identification, and decisive action planning
“This bitch isn't going anywhere, and she doesn't give two shits what anyone else thinks.”
“Tolerance of wishy washy indecision is a mechanism of self sabotage.”
“Something truly extraordinary happens when a woman makes a decision to be successful. Suddenly, the seemingly impossible becomes possible.”
“The desire in your heart to be a mom is not only valid, it's a critical part of your life's purpose.”
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