In the first of a three-part series, Rosanne challenges listeners with a hard question: How bad do you want it? She explores the difference between saying you want a baby and being willing to do the uncomfortable work required to succeed, including addressing stopping strategies around money, time, and other excuses.
Rosanne welcomes listeners to 2024 with powerful energy and shares two major announcements: her goal to have 100,000 Fearlessly Fertile babies born over the next 10 years, and the upcoming Fearlessly Fertile world tour visiting the US, Europe, Australia, New Zealand, and Canada.
Rosanne introduces the first question in her three-part series, challenging listeners to examine their true commitment level. She warns that everyone has stopping strategies that cause them to give up when things get uncomfortable, and most revolve around money, time, or other people's opinions.
Rosanne directly confronts the excuses around money and entitlement, explaining how victim mindset creates artificial stops. She shares her own experience of overcoming these patterns and emphasizes that nobody owes you anything - your happiness is your responsibility.
Rosanne explains why fertility treatment alone isn't enough, emphasizing that you can't out-supplement or out-treat a poor mindset. She references expert validation from Dr. Zaire Murhi and challenges listeners to address the gaping hole in their strategy if they're not getting results despite doing all the physical things.
“How bad do you want it? How bad do you want this baby? The only person that is gonna stop you from having this baby is you.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:09
Ask yourself if you're willing to get uncomfortable and grow, or if you have stopping strategies around money, time, or other people's opinions that cause you to give up when things get challenging.
“lurking in the dark reaches of your subconscious mind is a stopping strategy. A stopping strategy, a sabotage pattern that will cause you to give up on your dream.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:51
Stopping strategies are subconscious sabotage patterns that cause you to give up on your fertility dreams when you get uncomfortable. Common ones include money excuses, time constraints, and waiting for other people's permission.
“You can't out supplement or out treat a shitty mindset. It's gonna bite your ass.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:59
You can't out-supplement or out-treat a shitty mindset because the mind and body work together. If you're doing all the physical things but not getting results, there's a gaping hole in your strategy.
“if you are still stuck in the fucking nonsense of complaining and bitching about money and what it takes to get the treatment, do the diets, get the acupuncture, get the coaching...you have got to ask yourself this simple question. How bad do you want it?”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:22
Recognize that money excuses come from victim mindset and entitlement - the belief that you shouldn't have to invest in what you want. Ask yourself how bad you really want a baby and whether you're willing to get uncomfortable to succeed.
“nobody is responsible for your happiness but you. It's on you. You are the one that's following that nonsense. You are the one that's allowing that to control your life”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:37
Taking responsibility means recognizing that you have free will to change how you think, believe, and take action. It means not blaming others and understanding that your happiness depends on your willingness to go get what makes you happy.
Every woman has a stopping strategy - a subconscious sabotage pattern that causes her to give up on her fertility dreams when she gets uncomfortable
Rosanne has helped women ages 28-52 get pregnant by identifying these patterns, including her own experience with victim mindset and excuses before conceiving naturally at 43.
Money, time, and partner permission are artificial stops that keep you in victimhood rather than taking responsibility for your fertility journey
Rosanne overcame her own victim mindset around insurance coverage and excuses before conceiving naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure.
You can't out-supplement or out-treat a shitty mindset - the mind and body work together
Dr. Zaire Murhi, one of the best fertility doctors in the business, confirms that mindset is half the battle in fertility treatment success.
If you're doing all the physical things but not getting results, there's a gaping hole in your strategy - you need to address mindset
Rosanne has coached women for almost 10 years, thousands of women deep, and consistently sees this pattern in women who struggle versus those who succeed.
The only person who will stop you from having this baby is you - and you've got to want it bad enough to get over whatever nonsense is in your way
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after overcoming her own excuses and victim mindset, and has helped women across six continents achieve similar success by taking responsibility.
Nobody is responsible for your happiness but you - if you're allowing other people to control your fertility decisions, that's on you
Throughout 250+ podcast episodes featuring Miracle Mama success stories, the consistent pattern is women who took responsibility rather than waiting for permission or perfect circumstances.
Every woman has a stopping strategy - a subconscious sabotage pattern that causes her to give up on her fertility dreams when she gets uncomfortable
▶ 5:51Money, time, and partner permission are artificial stops that keep you in victimhood rather than taking responsibility for your fertility journey
▶ 8:34You can't out-supplement or out-treat a shitty mindset - the mind and body work together
▶ 10:59If you're doing all the physical things but not getting results, there's a gaping hole in your strategy - you need to address mindset
▶ 10:49The only person who will stop you from having this baby is you - and you've got to want it bad enough to get over whatever nonsense is in your way
▶ 10:29Nobody is responsible for your happiness but you - if you're allowing other people to control your fertility decisions, that's on you
▶ 9:37“If you want something badly enough, you should be willing to sacrifice and suffer for it without question”
CONSIDER: Wanting something badly means being willing to grow and get uncomfortable, not suffer - it means taking responsibility instead of making excuses
“It shouldn't cost anything to have the life you want, especially when dealing with fertility challenges”
CONSIDER: The belief that having what you want shouldn't cost you anything comes from entitlement and victim mindset that will sabotage your success
“How bad do you want it? The only person that is gonna stop you from having this baby is you.”
“You can't out supplement or out treat a shitty mindset. It's gonna bite your ass.”
“If you're serious about success in this journey, you can't afford to be a fucking snowflake.”
“It shouldn't cost me anything to have the life that I want. How fucking entitled is that?”
“I'm so glad I didn't give up.”
EP350: Unknowingly Repelling Your Baby?
Are you doing all the fertility things but with the wrong energy, actually repelling the baby you're trying to attract?
EP327: Mid-Year No Baby Freakout?
If you're hitting June with no baby in sight and starting to panic, this episode will transform your mid-year freak-out into your fertility breakthrough moment.
EP300: Fertility Success Secret #11: Understanding the Inconvenient Truth About Jealousy
What if your jealousy of other women's pregnancy announcements is actually showing you exactly what you're denying yourself?
Frameworks & Methods
The energy behind your fertility actions matters more than the actions themselves - you can do all the right things but with fear-based energy that repels your baby
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by shifting her energy, noting she was more fertile in her 40s naturally with the right mindset than in her 30s with treatments.
Two people can approach IVF with completely different energy - one with excitement and opportunity, another with resentment and financial stress - creating vastly different results
Rosanne explains women with worse numbers, older age, and terrible diagnoses get pregnant naturally when their energy matches excitement and anticipation, while those in fear create fear-based results.
The mid-year 'no baby freak-out' is a predictable pattern that keeps women stuck in fear instead of taking strategic action
After 11+ years helping thousands of women, Rosanne observes this exact pattern every June when women realize they're at the midpoint with no baby and begin questioning everything about their fertility journey.
Taking responsibility for your fertility results doesn't mean blame - it means acting like a grown woman and consciously controlling what you can control
Rosanne distinguishes between fear-based control (trying to control everything) and strategic responsibility, emphasizing the cause-and-effect relationship of thoughts, beliefs, actions, and results.
