Rosanne explores how women can unknowingly sabotage their fertility success through low-vibrational energy, even while doing all the right actions. She provides a powerful exercise to assess the energy behind your fertility behaviors and explains how fear-based actions repel what you're trying to attract.
Rosanne reveals how women can sabotage their fertility success by doing all the right things with the wrong energy. She explains that while actions matter, the energy fueling those actions determines whether you attract or repel your desired outcome.
Using the science of emotional frequencies, Rosanne teaches how babies exist at high vibrational states of love while fear-based approaches create energetic mismatches. She provides examples of how two people can approach identical treatments with vastly different energetic signatures.
Rosanne provides a powerful assessment tool where you list all fertility actions and identify the 'why' behind each one. This exercise reveals whether you're operating from fear-based scarcity or empowered choice, giving you the awareness needed to shift your energetic approach.
The episode concludes with guidance on cleaning up your fertility energy - stopping resentful actions, choosing empowering approaches, and disciplining yourself to maintain high-vibrational energy that matches your baby's frequency of love and possibility.
“Your baby is all about love. It's super high vibrational. So if you're way down here and your baby is up here, there is a mismatch, and you will create results at the level of your frequency.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:34
You can repel your baby by doing all the right fertility actions but with the wrong energy. If you're approaching treatments, supplements, or protocols from fear, resentment, lack, or scarcity, that low-vibrational energy creates a mismatch with your baby, who exists at a high frequency of love.
“You can have two different people approach IVF in two completely different ways. One person is going to approach it as, hey. This is another opportunity for me to have my baby.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:21
Approach treatments with excitement, curiosity, openness, and expectation rather than fear, resentment, or financial stress. Two people can do IVF with completely different energy - one seeing it as an opportunity to harvest multiple eggs and speed up conception, another resenting the cost and feeling like less of a woman for needing help.
“For everything that you put on your list of things that you're doing in the name of having your baby, for each one of those things, I want you to write down why you are doing that particular action or behavior or thing.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:48
Make a detailed list of everything you're doing for fertility, then write why you're doing each thing. This reveals whether you're acting from fear (taking 110 supplements because you're afraid to miss one) or from empowerment (choosing treatments that excite you and align with your goals).
“This is why mindset takes women beyond the limits of fertility medicine. Women who are far worse off than you right now are creating incredible results at a time when medicine has probably given up on them.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 16:00
Yes, mindset takes women beyond the limits of fertility medicine. Women with worse medical prognoses, older ages, and terrible diagnoses often get pregnant naturally when they shift their energy from fear to faith, while those with better numbers but fear-based energy create disappointing results.
“Your baby is all about love. It's super high vibrational. So if you're way down here and your baby is up here, there is a mismatch, and you will create results at the level of your frequency.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:34
Your baby exists at a high vibrational frequency associated with love, joy, and excitement. When you operate from low frequencies like fear, anxiety, lack, and scarcity, you create an energetic mismatch. Like tuning a radio to the right station, you need to match your energy to your baby's frequency to attract conception.
“If you're begrudging this journey, you're sending the message, baby, I don't actually want you. You are making me, a grown woman, work way too hard for you.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 15:48
Begrudging your fertility journey sends a double-binding message to your baby - your actions say you want them, but your energy communicates resentment about the work required. This tells your baby 'I don't actually want you, you're making me work too hard,' creating energetic repulsion rather than attraction.
A powerful exercise to identify the energy behind your fertility actions and shift from repelling to attracting your baby
Create Your Fertility Action List
Get a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle. On one side, write everything you're currently doing for fertility - tracking BBT, IVF treatments, coaching, yoga, supplements, etc. Be thorough and include habits you do automatically.
Identify Your Why for Each Action
For every item on your list, write why you're doing that particular thing. This reveals the belief and energy fueling each behavior - are you supplementing from fear of missing something or from excitement about optimization?
Assess the Energy Pattern
Look for patterns in your whys. Are you acting from fear, lack, scarcity, and resentment? Or from curiosity, excitement, expectation, and empowerment? Notice which energy dominates your fertility approach.
Clean Up Your Energy
Stop doing things you resent or that drain you. For actions you continue, discipline yourself to approach them with positive energy. If you can't shift the energy, consider whether that action serves your highest good.
Align with Your Baby's Frequency
Consciously choose to operate from love, gratitude, excitement, and expectation - the high vibrational frequency where your baby resides - rather than fear, anxiety, and lack.
The energy behind your fertility actions matters more than the actions themselves - you can do all the right things but with fear-based energy that repels your baby
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by shifting her energy, noting she was more fertile in her 40s naturally with the right mindset than in her 30s with treatments.
Two people can approach IVF with completely different energy - one with excitement and opportunity, another with resentment and financial stress - creating vastly different results
Rosanne explains women with worse numbers, older age, and terrible diagnoses get pregnant naturally when their energy matches excitement and anticipation, while those in fear create fear-based results.
Your baby resides at a high vibrational frequency of love, and if you're operating from fear, anxiety, lack and scarcity, there's an energetic mismatch preventing conception
Rosanne references Dr. David Hawkins' map of consciousness showing emotions have measurable energy frequencies, with resentment being one of the lowest vibrational emotions.
Make a detailed list of everything you're doing for fertility and write why you're doing each thing - this reveals the belief and energy fueling each behavior
This exercise helps identify if you're taking supplements from fear of missing something or doing IVF from desperation versus excitement, showing how the same action can have completely different energetic signatures.
Begrudging your fertility journey sends the message to your baby that you don't actually want them - you're making yourself work too hard for something you claim to want
Rosanne explains this creates a double-binding message where your actions say you want a baby but your energy communicates resentment about the process required.
Stop doing fertility-related things you don't want to do, but know the energy behind what you choose to continue and discipline yourself to have an amazing attitude about it
Rosanne teaches that when you have clean energy and know why you're doing what you're doing, you begin attracting opportunities, healing, people and your baby because your energy shapes your perception.
Mindset work takes women beyond the limits of fertility medicine - women far worse off than you are creating incredible results when medicine has given up on them
Rosanne's programs consistently help women go from years of struggle to pregnant within 12 months by shifting from low vibrational fear-based energy to high vibrational attraction energy.
The energy behind your fertility actions matters more than the actions themselves - you can do all the right things but with fear-based energy that repels your baby
▶ 3:46Two people can approach IVF with completely different energy - one with excitement and opportunity, another with resentment and financial stress - creating vastly different results
▶ 11:21Your baby resides at a high vibrational frequency of love, and if you're operating from fear, anxiety, lack and scarcity, there's an energetic mismatch preventing conception
▶ 12:34Make a detailed list of everything you're doing for fertility and write why you're doing each thing - this reveals the belief and energy fueling each behavior
▶ 8:06Begrudging your fertility journey sends the message to your baby that you don't actually want them - you're making yourself work too hard for something you claim to want
▶ 15:48Stop doing fertility-related things you don't want to do, but know the energy behind what you choose to continue and discipline yourself to have an amazing attitude about it
▶ 18:03Mindset work takes women beyond the limits of fertility medicine - women far worse off than you are creating incredible results when medicine has given up on them
▶ 16:00“If you're doing all the fertility treatments and protocols correctly, that's enough to get pregnant”
CONSIDER: The energy behind your actions matters more than the actions themselves - fear-based doing repels while love-based doing attracts
“Being frustrated or resentful about fertility costs and challenges is a normal reaction”
CONSIDER: Begrudging your fertility journey sends your baby the message that you don't actually want them - you're communicating that they're making you work too hard
“Your baby is all about love. It's super high vibrational. So if you're way down here and your baby is up here, there is a mismatch, and you will create results at the level of your frequency.”
“If you're begrudging this journey, you're sending the message, baby, I don't actually want you. You are making me, a grown woman, work way too hard for you.”
“This is why mindset takes women beyond the limits of fertility medicine. Women who are far worse off than you right now are creating incredible results at a time when medicine has probably given up on them.”
“You get what you expect and you get what you have the discipline to show up for every fucking day.”
“We can, despite our best efforts, quite literally repel the good that we think we are calling in by bringing the kind of energy that is a mismatch to the thing that we are trying to call in.”
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EP211 The Fearlessly Fertile Mindset Assessment: Get Real About Where You Are Today
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Common Beliefs
The fertility journey can be a catalyst for complete life transformation if you allow it to wake you up to an entirely different way of living
Lavinia spent 10 years on her fertility journey from age 33-43, transforming from someone living in victim mentality to an empowered woman who now coaches other women through fertility struggles.
You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in worst-case scenario thinking, meditation alone won't create the transformation you need
Lavinia tried meditation and felt better physically but still had racing thoughts about 'what if I transfer and it doesn't work' until she addressed her limiting beliefs through mindset work.
Jealousy manifests in sneaky ways like explaining away others' success with thoughts like 'she was just lucky' or 'she must be better than me'
Rosanne identifies specific jealousy patterns that emerged as listeners heard success stories from Elise, Fran, Linda, and Lizzie over the past five weeks of episodes.
At its core, jealousy is an outward focus where you're looking at what other people have and saying 'why not me?' - making yourself separate from their success
Every successful woman featured over the past five weeks found a way to move past jealousy and focus inward on their vision rather than being carried off course by comparison.
