Rosanne delivers a Q1 reality check for women who want a baby by Christmas 2024. With 11 women in her practice already pregnant by late February, she challenges listeners to honestly assess their journey and make the changes needed to succeed.
Mama A· natural· Baby girlBefore
Trying to conceive for years with uterus riddled with fibroids, told it would never happen
Key Shift
Made a decision to not keep being the same person and committed to doing something completely different
After
Holding her baby girl
Rosanne opens with the stunning news that 11 women in her practice are already pregnant by February 2024, numbers comparable to fertility clinics. She shares the story of 'Mama A,' who overcame years of trying with a fibroid-riddled uterus to have her baby girl after committing to change.
With Q1 nearly over, Rosanne provides three essential questions for women who want different results: What's the truth about how you're living your journey? How can you think differently about your situation? And how can you make this journey easier through clarity of mind and purpose?
The core teaching reveals why most fertility treatments fail: women seek external solutions while running internal dialogues of being 'broken.' Rosanne explains how this affects physiology and treatment outcomes, emphasizing that the way you think literally changes your body's response.
Rosanne reframes the fertility journey as becoming easy when you get clear about what you want and commit fully. She challenges the idea that you can succeed without real investment and teaches the power of adopting the successful woman's mantra: 'I'm not leaving without my baby.'
“at the time of this recording, we are in the final hours of February twenty twenty four, and we already have eleven women in my coaching practice pregnant”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 1:22
Eleven women in Rosanne's coaching practice were pregnant by the end of February 2024, which means they'll all have babies by Christmas.
“what is the truth about what is going on with your journey... how can I think about this differently... how can you make this easy”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:53
The three questions are: What's the truth about how you're living your journey? How can I think differently about this? And how can I make this journey easier?
“Most people make the mistake of looking for an external fix for an internal problem”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:07
Most people look for external fixes for internal problems. They focus on treatments, diets, and protocols while running around with an internal belief that they're broken, which affects their physiology and how they show up to treatment.
“You can have whatever diagnosis people wanna give you and still have a baby. Everyone knows someone that had some janky fertility history who has a baby now”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:47
Yes, you can have any fertility diagnosis and still have a baby. The key is how you think about yourself within the context of that diagnosis rather than seeing yourself as broken.
“This journey gets very easy when you are clear in your mind and clear in your purpose... I'm clear that I'm having this baby, and I am clear that I'm going to do whatever the fuck it takes”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 16:36
The journey becomes easy when you're clear in your mind and clear in your purpose. When you decide 'I'm having this baby and I'll do whatever it takes,' decisions become simple because you're not wasting time on doubt.
A three-step process to assess where you are on your fertility journey and position yourself for success
Ask: What's the truth?
Honestly evaluate how you're living your journey from a place of love, not criticism. Are you taking opportunities presented to you? Doing the same things expecting different results? Holding back in some areas while doing well in others? Your heart will tell you where you're not being honest with yourself.
Ask: How can I think differently?
Examine if you're looking for external fixes for internal problems. While you may have a real diagnosis, assess how you think about yourself within that context. Stop running around with 'broken' as your internal monologue and recognize that women with all conditions have babies.
Ask: How can I make this easier?
Get clear in your mind and clear in your purpose. When you decide 'I'm having this baby and will do whatever it takes' like a determined child, decisions become simple. Stop playing games with your commitment and adopt the mantra: 'I'm not leaving without my baby.'
Eleven women in Rosanne's coaching practice were pregnant by the end of February 2024 - numbers comparable to fertility clinics
At the time of this recording in late February 2024, 11 women in Rosanne's practice were pregnant and would have babies by Christmas. One woman, 'Mama A', had been trying for years with a uterus riddled with fibroids and was told it would never happen, but started Rosanne's program less than a year ago and gave birth to her baby girl.
Most people look for an external fix for an internal problem on their fertility journey
Rosanne emphasizes that while women may have diagnoses like PCOS, endometriosis, low AMH, the real issue is how they think about themselves within that diagnosis. Women with all these conditions have babies when they address the internal work first.
The way you think affects your physiology - this has been measured through cortisol and other biomarkers
Based on research for Rosanne's fourth book, PubMed contains numerous articles about the mind-body connection showing IVF patients legitimately believe something internal is creating their situation. Cortisol levels and other physiological markers change based on thinking patterns.
Running around with 'broken' on your internal playlist prevents you from bringing full energy to treatment
Rosanne explains that when you see yourself as broken due to a diagnosis, you don't bring full enthusiasm to everything because the underlying message is 'I am broken.' This affects how you show up to fertility clinics and treatments.
The fertility journey becomes easy when you're clear in your mind and clear in your purpose
Rosanne teaches that successful people don't waste time worrying about failure - they just do what needs to be done. The journey gets simple when you decide 'I'm not stopping, I'm not leaving without my baby' like the women who succeed on this journey.
You can tell how serious someone is about success based on their level of investment - time, money, and effort
Rosanne observes that people trying to get through the journey completely unscathed with no investment, wanting others to pay and do the work, rarely succeed. Committed women are 'ovaries deep' in doing what it takes.
Three reality check questions: What's the truth? How can I think differently? How can I make this easier?
Rosanne provides a framework for Q1 assessment: honestly evaluate where you're holding back versus doing well, examine if you're seeking external fixes for internal problems, and determine how to approach the journey with clarity of mind and purpose.
Eleven women in Rosanne's coaching practice were pregnant by the end of February 2024 - numbers comparable to fertility clinics
▶ 1:32Most people look for an external fix for an internal problem on their fertility journey
▶ 11:07The way you think affects your physiology - this has been measured through cortisol and other biomarkers
▶ 14:11Running around with 'broken' on your internal playlist prevents you from bringing full energy to treatment
▶ 13:09The fertility journey becomes easy when you're clear in your mind and clear in your purpose
▶ 16:36You can tell how serious someone is about success based on their level of investment - time, money, and effort
▶ 18:30Three reality check questions: What's the truth? How can I think differently? How can I make this easier?
▶ 7:53“Having a fertility diagnosis means you're broken and have no hope”
CONSIDER: You can have any diagnosis and still have a baby - it's about how you think about yourself within that context
“The fertility journey has to be difficult and painful”
CONSIDER: This journey gets easy when you're clear in your mind and purpose - like a determined child who knows exactly what they want
“Those are the kind of numbers you see coming out of fucking fertility clinics. And, you know, but this is all about woo woo mindset shit. Well, it ain't so woo woo with all these ladies got boo boos on board.”
“Most people make the mistake of looking for an external fix for an internal problem.”
“I am not leaving without my baby. I am an intelligent, resourceful woman who is going to figure this out.”
“You can always tell how serious somebody is about creating success based on how invested they are in it.”
“If you think of yourself as broken and you're running around with the internal monologue of broken, you're not gonna bring your full energy to your treatment.”
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Conditions
Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Toxic behavior patterns from childhood can block fertility by creating an emotional state that repels what you want most
Alina called herself 'toxic' - judgmental, criticizing, demanding perfection - patterns learned from parents who fought constantly. After healing these patterns through mindset work, she conceived naturally at 40 despite PCOS, endometriosis, and being told IVF was her only option.
What you learn about motherhood from your mother's experience becomes your unconscious blueprint for fertility
When Alina wrote down what she learned about motherhood from her mother, it was three pages of nothing positive - only stories of painful labor, suffering, and struggle. This created an unconscious equation of motherhood with suffering that blocked her fertility until she rewrote her story.
You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in 'what if' limited thinking and worst case scenarios, meditation alone won't create change.
Levvenia meditated for years but remained stuck in negative thinking patterns until she addressed her limiting beliefs through mindset work
Owning that you are behaving like a victim is not an accusation - it's an invitation to start creating a different experience.
Levvenia recognized her victim mentality after years of thinking 'it doesn't happen to me, everybody else is getting pregnant' and transformed into an empowered creator
