Fertility Success Story: 10 Years to Baby Girl
Levvenia from Romania shares her 10-year fertility journey from victim mentality to mother at 43, including IVF failures, pregnancy loss, and the mindset transformation that led to success.
Teachings 4
You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in 'what if' limited thinking and worst case scenarios, meditation alone won't create change.
Levvenia meditated for years but remained stuck in negative thinking patterns until she addressed her limiting beliefs through mindset work
Making the shift from 'this is happening TO me' to 'this is happening FOR me' is crucial for success on the fertility journey.
Levvenia identified this mindset shift as key to her transformation, moving from feeling punished to seeing her journey as growth and preparation
You can tell when somebody is going to be successful based on the way they think - if you're stuck focusing on how many times you've tried and failed, it's over.
Levvenia broke free from counting failures (multiple IVF cycles, pregnancy loss) and instead focused on evidence she could get pregnant
Working on yourself isn't just good for you - it's good for your baby. You don't want your baby swimming around in cortisol.
Levvenia's mindset transformation not only helped her conceive but made her a better mother, appreciating contact sleeping and every moment with her daughter
Perspectives 2
Owning that you are behaving like a victim is not an accusation - it's an invitation to start creating a different experience.
Levvenia recognized her victim mentality after years of thinking 'it doesn't happen to me, everybody else is getting pregnant' and transformed into an empowered creator
The fertility journey is an incredible catalyst that can lead you to a life beyond your expectations if you allow it - it's a wakeup call to an entirely different life.
Levvenia's 10-year journey transformed her completely, making her a different mother than she would have been 10 years earlier, appreciating every moment including contact sleeping
Quotable Moments 4
“You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in what if limited thinking the worst case scenarios, the meditation is not going to change that on its own.”
— Rosanne Austin“Owning that you are behaving like a victim is not an accusation. It is an invitation for us to start creating a different experience.”
— Rosanne Austin“The fertility journey is an incredible catalyst. Your fertility journey is a wakeup call to an entirely different life.”
— Rosanne Austin“You don't want your baby swimming around in cortisol. What you did to get better wasn't just good for you, Levvenia, and your experience. It was good for your baby.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
Can you get pregnant naturally at 43 after years of IVF failures?
“I was 43 when I had her. I'm 44 now.”
— Rosanne Austin
Yes, it's possible to conceive naturally at 43 even after multiple IVF failures. The key is addressing both physical health and mindset blocks that may be preventing success.
How do you overcome victim mentality on the fertility journey?
“Owning that you are behaving like a victim is not an accusation. It is an invitation for us to start creating a different experience.”
— Rosanne Austin
Recognize that victim thinking patterns like 'everyone else gets pregnant but me' are limiting beliefs that can be changed. Shift from 'this is happening TO me' to 'this is happening FOR me.'
What should you do after a positive pregnancy test following previous loss?
“I'm not the same person that I was at that moment and this is not every pregnancy is different. So this is now and this is going to work.”
— Rosanne Austin
Focus on the present pregnancy rather than past outcomes. Recognize that you're not the same person who experienced the previous loss, and every pregnancy is different.
Is being a mom in your 40s really that difficult?
“I think that you appreciate things a lot more or differently now especially after having a journey that was so long you see things differently.”
— Rosanne Austin
Being a mother in your 40s can actually be advantageous because you appreciate motherhood more deeply and have greater emotional maturity from life experience.
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Key Points 6
You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in 'what if' limited thinking and worst case scenarios, meditation alone won't create change.
Owning that you are behaving like a victim is not an accusation - it's an invitation to start creating a different experience.
The fertility journey is an incredible catalyst that can lead you to a life beyond your expectations if you allow it - it's a wakeup call to an entirely different life.
Making the shift from 'this is happening TO me' to 'this is happening FOR me' is crucial for success on the fertility journey.
You can tell when somebody is going to be successful based on the way they think - if you're stuck focusing on how many times you've tried and failed, it's over.
Working on yourself isn't just good for you - it's good for your baby. You don't want your baby swimming around in cortisol.
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