Fran, a law enforcement officer, shares her journey from low AMH diagnosis and recurrent miscarriage to naturally conceiving her daughter Gianna. Despite doctors telling her she'd need IVF, she used mindset work to overcome the fear and negativity that was blocking her fertility, ultimately getting pregnant naturally twice after her diagnosis.
FranAge 31· natural· Baby girlBefore
Negative, stressed, forcing sex, fighting with husband, devastated after seeing drug overdose case with baby
Key Shift
Stopped treatments, worked on mindset, reconnected with faith, focused on joy and positivity
After
Positive, trusting, enjoying life and marriage, believing in her fertility
Fran's fertility journey began with what seemed like a simple plan—get married and have a baby. After six months of trying and a devastating first miscarriage, she was thrust into the medical system and diagnosed with low AMH. The cascade of failed treatments and a second miscarriage left her forcing intimacy with her husband and spiraling into negativity that affected every aspect of her life, including her demanding career in law enforcement.
In her darkest moment, Fran stumbled upon Rosanne's book on Facebook—a discovery she still calls divine intervention. Reading about other women's stories and learning about the mind-body connection opened her eyes to how deeply her negative mindset was sabotaging her fertility. Despite working in a male-dominated, facts-only profession, Fran recognized she needed to heal her emotional wounds before her body could successfully carry a baby.
After completing the Fearlessly Fertile Method program, Fran experienced a complete mindset shift from defeated and controlling to positive and trusting. Just one week after finishing the program, she discovered she was pregnant naturally—the same body doctors said would need IVF to conceive. Her transformation was so complete that even her colleagues noticed she was no longer the sad, angry woman they'd known.
Fran's pregnancy journey tested every tool she'd learned, from bleeding scares requiring ER visits in uniform to warnings about possible stillbirth due to growth restriction. Throughout each crisis, she held onto her new mindset training, refusing to return to the fear-based thinking that had kept her stuck. Her daughter Gianna arrived healthy at 5 pounds 14 ounces, proving that sometimes the medical predictions are wrong and the mother's intuition is right.
“Low AMH doesn't determine your fertility potential—mindset and belief do”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:36
Yes, you can get pregnant naturally with low AMH. Fran was diagnosed with low AMH and told she'd need IVF, but she conceived naturally twice after her diagnosis and carried her daughter Gianna to term.
“I needed to fix myself. So I think once I finally stopped the fertility journey of, like, doing IUI, getting treatment, and just focusing on being happy with my marriage, happy with my family, happy with my job, all the positives I had, that's when it happened”
— Fran▶ 33:34
Focus on healing your mindset and emotional state before trying again. Fran experienced two miscarriages but realized she needed to work on her mental health and negativity before she was truly ready to be a mother.
“I just stopped being so negative. And it was like it's different too in, like, my line of work because you're you are around a bunch of males, and they're like, hey. You're fine. Brush it off. Like, that sucks, but you'll get pregnant again. Or look. You want a baby? Look what's happening out here. Look at this world. And I'm like, if I keep listening to you guys, I'm gonna be digging a hole for myself”
— Fran▶ 28:48
Stop forcing outcomes and focus on healing your mindset first. Fran transformed from being negative and stressed to positive and trusting, which is when she naturally conceived after failed IUI treatments.
“I read Gwen Stefani who's pregnant at fifty four. I was like, why the hell am I even carrying what number my age is? Like, who cares? No one in this day and age is popping on kids like my grandma was at sixteen years old. I mean, it's a whole new generation. Why am I focusing on that?”
— Fran▶ 32:03
No, your 30s is not too old to get pregnant naturally. Fran was told at 31 she was 'too old' but rejected this belief and went on to naturally conceive her daughter.
“When you're in survival mode from trauma, your body isn't in a receptive state for conception”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:05
Stress and negativity can block your body's ability to conceive and stay pregnant. Fran noticed her fertility struggles affected her work performance and relationship until she addressed her mindset.
“I joined your program, and I realized how bad my mindset really was. Like, whoo. I was blocked up there. Did your program, and I think it was a week after I finished, I was going over to my cousin's house because we do cousin's night with all my, like, little cousins and just play video games. And I was feeling off that weekend... Took a pregnancy test and boom, positive.”
— Fran▶ 12:33
It's a mindset-based approach that teaches women to overcome fear, negativity and limiting beliefs that block fertility. Fran used this method to naturally conceive after being told she'd need IVF.
Low AMH doesn't determine your fertility potential—mindset and belief do
Fran was told she had low AMH and would need IVF, but conceived naturally twice after her diagnosis, ultimately carrying baby Gianna to term at 31 years old.
When you're in survival mode from trauma, your body isn't in a receptive state for conception
After Fran's first miscarriage, she was forcing sex, fighting with her husband, and in a constant state of stress and negativity until she shifted her mindset and naturally conceived.
First responders are trained to do the opposite of most people in emergencies—they run into burning buildings while we run out
Fran worked in law enforcement, a largely male-dominated profession requiring her to keep walls up and maintain composure, yet had to access her feminine receptivity to conceive.
Negative mindset during fertility struggles affects every area of your life, including work performance
Fran noticed she stopped putting forth full effort at her law enforcement job and was just going through the motions when she was in the depths of fertility struggles.
Fertility treatments can become a chore that destroys intimacy and joy in your relationship
Fran described forcing her husband to have sex, fighting about it constantly, and her husband saying 'this is no longer fun' during their fertility journey.
Sometimes miscarriages happen because you're not mentally ready to be a mother, even when you think you are
Fran reflected that her early miscarriages happened because her mentality wasn't ready, and if she had stayed pregnant right after the first loss, 'there's no way my baby and I would be okay' given her broken mental state.
When you hit rock bottom on your fertility journey, the only way left to go is up
Fran reached her lowest point after recurrent losses and IUI failures, but this became the catalyst for her transformation that led to naturally conceiving Gianna.
Age-related fertility decline is largely a mental construct that doesn't determine individual outcomes
At 31, Fran was already being told she was 'too old' to have a baby, but she rejected this limiting belief after reading about women like Gwen Stefani getting pregnant at 54.
Reconnecting with your spiritual practice can be a powerful tool for fertility healing
Fran credits returning to church every Sunday and reconnecting with her faith as a significant part of her healing process that led to conceiving Gianna naturally.
Doctors can be wrong about your fertility prognosis—trust your body over their statistics
Fran was told she would likely need IVF due to low AMH and poor egg quality, yet conceived naturally twice after this diagnosis, ultimately carrying baby Gianna to term.
Low AMH doesn't determine your fertility potential—mindset and belief do
▶ 8:36When you're in survival mode from trauma, your body isn't in a receptive state for conception
▶ 8:05First responders are trained to do the opposite of most people in emergencies—they run into burning buildings while we run out
▶ 3:16Negative mindset during fertility struggles affects every area of your life, including work performance
▶ 28:08Fertility treatments can become a chore that destroys intimacy and joy in your relationship
▶ 7:55Sometimes miscarriages happen because you're not mentally ready to be a mother, even when you think you are
▶ 32:33When you hit rock bottom on your fertility journey, the only way left to go is up
▶ 39:36Age-related fertility decline is largely a mental construct that doesn't determine individual outcomes
▶ 32:03Reconnecting with your spiritual practice can be a powerful tool for fertility healing
▶ 33:14Doctors can be wrong about your fertility prognosis—trust your body over their statistics
▶ 25:00“Low AMH means you'll need IVF to get pregnant”
CONSIDER: Low AMH is just a number that doesn't determine your individual fertility potential
“Being in your thirties means you're too old to have a baby”
CONSIDER: Age is largely a mental construct that doesn't determine individual outcomes
“You need to try harder and do more treatments to get pregnant”
CONSIDER: Sometimes you need to step back, heal your mindset, and let your body naturally conceive
“You're fertile AF, girl. It blows my mind how we as women get so easily dismissed.”
“There's no way I made it this far for you to tell me this crap, and I'm not gonna get to meet my daughter. That's not happening.”
“Your life throws so many curveballs at you, and it's so challenging. And it's easy to dig yourself into that hole. But something that kept resonating with me is there's only one way up or one way left to go when you're at rock bottom, and that's up.”
“I joined your program, and I realized how bad my mindset really was. Like, whoo. I was blocked up there.”
“Doctors only know so much. They can tell you all these things, but you know your body. Don't stop listening to your body.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Statistics are not your destiny - you can choose to be an outlier rather than a statistic
Erika overcame stage 4 endometriosis, multiple failed IVF cycles, and a 0% chance of natural conception to conceive naturally at 31 after 9 years of trying.
Fertility challenges transcend age - you can have the diagnosis of someone in their fifties while in your twenties
Erika was told at 29 that her AMH and egg counts were like those of a 50-year-old, yet she still conceived naturally at 31.
The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you - when there's a will, you will find a way
Kristen overcame 4 consecutive miscarriages in 9 months, low ovarian reserve, and a cancer scare to conceive naturally at 37 and carry her daughter to term after doing mindset work.
Medical tests will never find that mindset is the root cause - there's no test that could have diagnosed that
Kristen had every fertility test run and all came back perfectly healthy, yet she continued miscarrying until she addressed her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method.
