Recurrent Miscarriage

Running to medical intervention first without checking in with yourself often stems from a foundation of feeling inadequate.

Liz immediately went to IVF after one miscarriage at 41, despite having perfect labs and ovarian reserve of a 30-year-old. Her husband wisely suggested trying naturally first, but she refused because she was convinced she 'couldn't do this on my own.'

The difference between struggle pregnancies and peaceful pregnancies is the mindset you bring to them.

Liz had the exact opposite reaction to her third pregnancy at 42 - instead of doom and panic like her previous pregnancies, she felt immediate peace and knew they would be okay. She had the 'easiest, greatest pregnancy' and perfect baby Betty.

When you can accept that you're on this journey and stop making it wrong, you can actually enjoy the process and see the gifts it brings

Jennifer went from seeing her fertility journey as a curse to genuinely viewing it as a gift that made her a better person. She was able to find peace with her situation while still maintaining her determination to keep going for as long as it took.

Guilt and self-blame after miscarriage can block you from conceiving again

After their miscarriage of a chromosomally perfect baby, Lizzie blamed herself saying 'I killed a perfectly healthy child' and couldn't get pregnant again until she worked through the guilt and self-doubt with mindset coaching.

Sometimes miscarriages happen because you're not mentally ready to be a mother, even when you think you are

Fran reflected that her early miscarriages happened because her mentality wasn't ready, and if she had stayed pregnant right after the first loss, 'there's no way my baby and I would be okay' given her broken mental state.

Your body knows what she's doing - trust her even through loss

Caroline reframed three miscarriages as evidence her body was working, not broken. She told herself 'my body is doing what it knows how to do' and conceived naturally on her fourth pregnancy, now 24 weeks pregnant.

Your desire speaking louder than fear in pivotal moments reveals your inner truth

When told 'this might be your only chance' after Katie's second trimester loss, her immediate internal response was 'fuck that' - her desire refusing to accept limitation

Don't feel bad about getting second, third, or even eleventh opinions - if a doctor doesn't feel right for you, keep searching

Jo changed doctors 11 times before finding the right team. Her final specialist found a genetic incompatibility and treated it with immune protocols, while Dr. Murhy in New York discovered the uterine septum that was causing her losses.

Motherhood and parenting does not have to be a product of your childhood environment - you get to be the mom you needed

Theresa had four miscarriages due to fear about parenting based on her childhood, but this realization allowed her to keep her pregnancy and bring her baby earthside.

Taking time off from fertility pressure at 45+ can actually increase your chances rather than decrease them

Carolyn took an entire summer off from fertility tracking at 45, went dancing, traveled to Mexico, and conceived naturally after being told she had less than 5% chance with her own eggs.

When you've had recurrent miscarriage, trusting your body during early pregnancy requires active mindset work to avoid fear patterns.

Mette had two prior miscarriages at seven weeks but used mindset tools to take only one blood test during early pregnancy instead of constant monitoring, trusting her body to sustain the pregnancy.

Secondary infertility creates unique isolation because you don't fit into either the 'can't conceive' club or the 'conceive easily' club, leading to shame and guilt about wanting more

Somaya experienced secondary infertility after her first son, enduring three ectopic pregnancies and multiple miscarriages while feeling guilty about not being grateful for her existing child.

You cannot settle if that's not what your heart is calling for—toxic positivity of 'be grateful for what you have' keeps women from pursuing their true desires

Somaya refused to listen to people saying 'be grateful, you have a son' and instead pursued her dream of a second child through three ectopic pregnancies and multiple miscarriages.

Cultural programming about women's roles can create unconscious blocks to fertility success

Ellie discovered she had internalized messages from her Greek family that she would be a 'terrible mother' because she pursued ambitious career goals. Once she identified and rejected these beliefs, she conceived twins naturally.

When you see all the good things you already have, you stop focusing on what you lack and your baby comes when they're ready

Dr. Mariève's main goal was becoming more grateful. Even after her miscarriage, she was happier than she'd been in two years because she could see her great life again, then conceived shortly after.

Fear-based saboteur messages about motherhood can physically block conception and pregnancy success, even when you're doing all the physical healing work

Teresa was a yoga therapist doing acupuncture, psychotherapy, diet changes, and Arvigo therapy but still had four miscarriages until she addressed her core fears that motherhood would destroy her marriage and that she wasn't capable of being a good mother.

Treatment shame blocks your ability to receive help and conceive your baby

Anne spent years hiding from being seen at fertility clinics, feeling like she didn't belong there, which blocked her from being open to treatment. Only when she released this shame and became an engaged participant did she conceive and reach 21 weeks pregnant.

You have a choice after miscarriage - stay in misery or take action toward your dream

Yulia experienced a silent miscarriage at 38 but refused to become 'the woman who can't get pregnant.' She enrolled in coaching within weeks to avoid falling into a spiral of self-blame and fertility trauma.

When you address the emotional trauma from pregnancy loss, you can take action toward future pregnancy without fear

Diana couldn't look at baby clothes after her miscarriage, but through mindset work, she was able to go to Target with her husband, buy baby items, and take down the locked box of previous baby clothes without crying.

Stop being a passenger on your fertility journey and take control by building your own treatment team

Suzanne went from passively accepting doctor recommendations to researching recurrent loss treatments, bringing a list to her new doctor, and collaborating on her own treatment plan. Her doctor told her at delivery: 'This baby is here because of you. You came up with your own treatment plan.'

Taking a break from trying to conceive to heal your body can be the breakthrough you need, even at advanced maternal age

Sarah took 8 months off from trying at age 39 to heal endometriosis after two miscarriages, then conceived naturally 5 cycles after resuming trying at nearly 40.

The mindset work needed for fertility success extends beyond just getting to a positive pregnancy test - you need mental strength for the full 40 weeks

Lavinia experienced fear creeping back in after her positive test, remembering her previous loss, but was able to use her mindset tools to stay grounded throughout pregnancy.

Working through emergency situations while trying to maintain normalcy is what high-achieving women do - but it's also what keeps us stuck on this journey

Jennifer tried to work through her ectopic pregnancy emergency, taking meetings between lying down from pain, just as Rosanne made court appearances during her own miscarriage. This pattern of pushing through is common among driven women but counterproductive on the fertility journey.

Women with recurrent miscarriages who can make embryos naturally often can't even create one embryo after high-dose IVF because the medications damage egg quality

Dr. Merhi sees daily examples of women who conceive naturally but miscarry, then after IVF with high doses can't even make blastocysts - proving their issue wasn't egg quality but uterine receptivity.

Out of 100 hysteroscopies performed on women who already had previous hysteroscopy, 99 reveal missed issues that could cause miscarriages or failed implantation

Dr. Merhi's OCD approach to examining the uterus finds problems in 99% of cases that other doctors missed, emphasizing that microscopic uterine issues are huge deals for embryo implantation.

PRP injection into the uterine lining activates stem cells to create fresh, sticky lining that can better hold pregnancies

Dr. Merhi pioneered PRP treatment 8 years ago and explains how platelet-rich plasma injected during hysteroscopy activates menstrual-derived stem cells to regenerate damaged uterine lining.

Statistics don't matter when you learn from other people's experiences and decide to believe in your own success

Yasmine overcame 7 years of fertility struggles, 7 miscarriages, and 7 failed IVF cycles to conceive naturally at 43 after hearing other women's success stories on the podcast.

You can communicate with your baby's spirit during pregnancy to encourage them to stay

Yasmine talked to Mia whenever she felt familiar cramping that had preceded her 7 previous miscarriages. Each time she communicated with the baby, the pain would subside and the pregnancy continued.

IVF does not prevent miscarriage, even with PGS testing, contrary to what many couples believe

Dr. Jenny Mercier explains that embryos can come back as mosaic or undetermined and get discarded when they might be viable, and that forcing sperm into eggs through ICSI removes natural selection processes.

Many women going through fertility journeys come from a place of grief and fear, having lost babies or gotten their hopes up repeatedly while spending tons of money

Katie Beecher works with fertility clients who often present with grief from pregnancy losses and fear from the biological clock, having tried multiple times and invested significant financial resources.

The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you - when there's a will, you will find a way

Kristen overcame 4 consecutive miscarriages in 9 months, low ovarian reserve, and a cancer scare to conceive naturally at 37 and carry her daughter to term after doing mindset work.

Your children demand growth from you so you can step into the role of being their mother

Kristen realized her 4 miscarriages were her daughter saying 'mom, get it together. I'm ready to be there for you, but I need you to be at your best for me.'

IVF is not automatically the solution when the issue is staying pregnant, not getting pregnant

Kristen was able to get pregnant naturally but couldn't stay pregnant, yet fertility specialists recommended skipping IUI and going straight to IVF, which she rejected as not addressing her actual problem.

Week 7-8 of pregnancy is placentification - the hardest part to get through if you have immune issues, which is why many losses happen then

Caryn Johnson lost multiple pregnancies around weeks 7-8, and explains this timing correlates with placentification when the immune system is most challenged. Her daughter's heart rate slowed at 7 weeks due to immune dysfunction.

High inflammation breaks your water early - your body has to go through an inflammatory flow during pregnancy and if it doesn't regulate down in second trimester, things like water breaking happen

Caryn Johnson's water broke at 35 weeks with her son due to inflammation, and again at 13 weeks with her daughter, causing pregnancy loss. Both instances were caused by her immune system creating too much inflammation.

Mindset is healthcare - it brings your body and mind into harmony and empowers you to see new opportunities and think strategically

Linda was told she was 'too old' at 39 and again at 42, had 4 miscarriages, but through mindset work conceived via donor egg at 45 and naturally at 47

Health testing is crucial even if you've had success before - your body changes over time

Linda discovered she had MTHFR gene mutation and a blood clotting disorder after 4 miscarriages, despite having conceived easily at 34 with her first child

When you're in survival mode from trauma, your body isn't in a receptive state for conception

After Fran's first miscarriage, she was forcing sex, fighting with her husband, and in a constant state of stress and negativity until she shifted her mindset and naturally conceived.

Fifty percent of all fertility issues, including recurrent miscarriage, are male factor related

Marc Sklar emphasizes that male factor isn't just about basic semen analysis passing minimum thresholds - sperm fragmentation and other issues need investigation even when standard tests appear normal.

Fertility treatments cause disconnection from your body through constant poking and prodding - yoga helps rebuild a loving relationship with your physical self

Kerry offers specific programs for different fertility phases including frozen embryo transfer, pregnancy loss, and early pregnancy anxiety based on 8+ years teaching fertility yoga exclusively

For recurrent miscarriage, you need to build trust in yourself, your body, and this baby - not let residue from past losses cloud your judgment

Even when pursuing treatment for pregnancy loss, women need to examine what they're saying to themselves about those losses so heavy feelings don't distract them from knowing they're meant to be a mom

Focusing on losses, failures, and what's missing creates an identity around lack that becomes self-perpetuating

Austin observes women who open fertility conversations with years trying, number of miscarriages, and failures - creating a 'sick girl' identity that keeps them stuck in low-frequency energy patterns.

Extended progesterone support can help overcome recurrent miscarriage patterns

Heather was kept on progesterone shots for 20 weeks instead of the typical 12 weeks due to her history of recurrent miscarriage, which helped her maintain the pregnancy that became Emily.

Fear-based choices prevent you from making grounded decisions that serve your highest good

Nancy Mae emphasizes that choices made from fear are not grounded or centered and don't serve your best interests long-term, while spirit babies need grounded mamas to prevent miscarriage.

This fertility journey is an invitation to step into being the mother you want to be before you have the baby

Caroline went from calling herself 'I am death' to becoming a woman who could see past three losses and trust her body completely. This transformation prepared her to be a stronger mother to the baby she's now carrying at 24 weeks.

Secondary infertility pain is as real and valid as primary infertility - when your family isn't complete, that suffering matters

Kara struggled with PCOS and miscarriage while trying for baby #2, going through a year of darkness before finding success through mindset work at age 26 weeks pregnant during recording.

Women can go from recurrent fertility failure to pregnancy within months using the mind-body connection

Rosanne states her clients go from 'recurrent failure, recurrent miscarriage, IVF failure, natural pregnancies not happening' to 'getting and staying pregnant, and some of them within months' with some getting pregnant during her programs before completion.

Your baby is in new territory that you don't know - getting to the place where you get and stay pregnant is new ground you've never been there before

Even women who've been pregnant before but couldn't hold pregnancies need to reach new territory of getting and staying pregnant, which requires embracing the discomfort of unfamiliar experiences.

Nobody wants your baby more than you do - trust your instincts over medical authority when something doesn't feel right

Jo saw 11 different specialists before finding Dr. Murhy in New York who discovered a uterine septum that Australian doctors had missed despite multiple laparoscopies. Her persistence led to finding the root cause after years of 'unexplained' losses.

Leaky gut allows food particles into the bloodstream, triggering immune system attacks that can prevent implantation or cause early pregnancy loss

Monica Cox experienced recurrent pregnancy loss due to high natural killer cells from leaky gut, which caused her immune system to attack embryos as foreign agents.

Following your joy creates heart rate variability and higher vibrational frequencies that improve immune, brain, and reproductive functioning

Rosanne conceived naturally after she and her husband said their biggest yeses to joy, returning from an incredible European vacation. A sports medicine physician she coached conceived after going skiing two days post-transfer despite being told not to, and her son is now 18 months old.

Medical panic becomes your panic when you're not grounded in your own truth

Carolyn noticed her doctor's panic voice 'was now becoming my panic' when she was told they needed to speed up testing after her second miscarriage, shifting her from confidence to fear.

The grit required to overcome three ectopic pregnancies, repeated miscarriage, and self-doubt while being a top professional demonstrates the power of commitment to growth

Somaya endured three ectopic pregnancies, multiple miscarriages, and 20 months of trying while running a successful executive search firm, ultimately conceiving naturally at 38.

Taking full responsibility is solution-oriented and opens your field of vision to see opportunities, abundance, and support everywhere

Women who had failed IVF start getting pregnant naturally, women with recurrent miscarriage conceived twins naturally, and women with repeated IVF cycles finally have cycles that work when they make this shift.

The desire in your heart to be a mother is meant to be there, and when you own that truth, you can overcome any physical challenge by upgrading your mental game

Tania had 9 surgeries, repeated IVF failures, and recurrent miscarriage, but conceived naturally at 42 after doing mindset work and crossing the bridge to unwavering belief in her dream.

Getting a positive pregnancy test is just the beginning, not the end goal — you must think strategically about carrying to full term

Ellie had three positive pregnancy tests but lost each baby, demonstrating that conception alone isn't enough. She learned to prepare mentally for a full 40-week pregnancy.

Wearing your trauma as an identity keeps you stuck — identify with your vision instead

Rosanne called out Ellie for introducing herself as someone who had three miscarriages. After shifting to 'I'm a woman on a journey to meet her children,' Ellie conceived twins naturally.

The timeline doesn't matter—only that you keep going until you reach your dream

Agata tried for almost 4 years, through two failed IVFs and four IUI attempts including a chemical pregnancy, but never doubted she would become a mom—she's now 26 weeks pregnant.

You must refuse to wait for external markers and choose to believe in your baby from conception, not after reaching 'safe' milestones

Dr. Nisha deliberately refused to wait for first trimester markers, blood tests, or anatomy scans to believe in her pregnancy after experiencing a previous miscarriage. She chose to believe her daughter was there for a reason from the beginning.

Once you get pregnant, you've never needed mindset more - positive tests lead to new fears about miscarriage, viability, and parenting

Rosanne describes how women move the goalpost from positive test to 12 weeks, anatomical scan, 24 weeks viability, then worry about SIDS, accidents, and other parenting fears.

An early miscarriage can actually be a sign that conception is possible rather than evidence of failure

When Samana experienced an early miscarriage after her first positive test, Rosanne reframed it as 'a huge sign' from her baby rather than a failure, helping Samana see it as progress toward her goal.

Women overcome impossible odds every day - miscarriage, stillbirth, repeated IVF failure, natural conception after treatment failure

Rosanne is living proof, having conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure, and her clients across 6 continents demonstrate these outcomes

When you lose your joy on the fertility journey, you need mindset support to start living again

Jessica had lost her joy after three consecutive miscarriages and felt stuck, unable to fully live. Through the Fearlessly Fertile Method, she regained her joy and went on to conceive her daughter via IVF at 44.

You have a choice on your fertility journey - victim or empowered creator

Jessica transformed from feeling like a victim after three miscarriages to recognizing her power to choose. She used tools like 'changing the channel' to shift her mindset and conceived her daughter through IVF.

Expecting your partner to fix your emotional wounds from fertility struggles creates destructive pressure in your relationship

Diana realized she was putting pressure on her husband to fix her feelings of being 'broken' after miscarriage. Her husband told her directly: 'if you can't fix yourself, we're gonna have problems.'

When you're clear about your vision and open to different paths, you naturally relax because you know you'll figure it out

Suzanne and Bevan explored surrogacy and adoption as backup plans, which allowed them to go into their fifth transfer relaxed, saying 'this is it, and that's okay if it's it.' That transfer resulted in their baby boy after 4+ years of trying.

Sometimes changing doctors isn't about medical competence - it's about what works for your mental state

Suzanne's first doctor helped them conceive their daughter but their relationship broke down after repeated losses. She said 'every time I step foot in that clinic, my heart sank' and they 'hated going' because it became 'the place where we got bad news.'

Don't wait years to address mindset - be proactive about covering your bases before you're in crisis

Genevieve approached her 40th birthday and proactively sought mindset coaching after one miscarriage, conceiving naturally the very next cycle rather than enduring years of failed attempts.

Faith must precede the miracle, not follow it - you can't wait to see results before believing

Rosanne maintained faith through miscarriage on Christmas Day in ER room 13 with her last embryo, then conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure

Faith allows you to not be limited by your physical senses - it's about being expansive

After miscarriage on Christmas Day, Rosanne maintained faith her son was still coming and conceived naturally months later at 43

When you have setbacks, double down on faith instead of abandoning it

After miscarriage with last embryo, Rosanne doubled down on mindset work, kept teaching women, and conceived naturally at 43

Be in agreement with your potential, not your limitations - this is game changing

Helen from Rosanne's book had repeated miscarriages and went on to carry full term healthy babies, showing what's possible when you focus on potential.

Fear is what stops women from doing what they know to do, and most of that fear isn't even theirs - it's the fear of parents, friends, doctors, and what other people think

Caroline was reeling from a miscarriage and preparing for another transfer, but she took action despite her fears and conceived naturally.

Unhealed miscarriage trauma creates fear that haunts future conception attempts, shutting down hormones and affecting the body's ability to relax and conceive

Ben Schwartz explains that miscarriages are traumas that nobody recovers from without emotional healing, and unresolved trauma creates stress that affects fertility physiology

The playground bully in your head can be more destructive than any medical diagnosis

Beth called herself a 'loser' for years after multiple losses, which affected her work performance, friendships, and overall confidence until she learned to silence those thoughts

Family constellation work can identify and heal inherited patterns even when you don't know your family history

Hemla worked with a client who had 8 failed IVFs and discovered through constellation work that a famine 7 generations back in Poland created patterns of not bringing children into scarcity, which manifested as miscarriages in her mother, grandmother, and herself.

Unacknowledged souls in the family system, including miscarriages, abortions, and stillbirths, need recognition for healing to occur

In constellation work, Hemla brings in all souls that belong to the family system, including lost pregnancies. When these are acknowledged, 'suddenly the whole energy shifted' for the client who had multiple IVF failures.

You can maintain pleasure in your fertility diet without sabotaging your hormone health

Jennifer McAleer continued drinking wine and coffee while following a fertility-friendly diet and successfully conceived at 43 after recurrent miscarriage

Taking your fertility future into your own hands is a gangster move that leads to success

Jennifer McAleer refused to accept her 0.05 AMH diagnosis and instead pursued acupuncture, meditation, and nutrition changes, resulting in natural conception at 43

You can communicate with your uterus through guided imagery to stop miscarriage, as demonstrated when a woman's labor stopped after meditation

Dr. Siegel describes helping a woman experiencing miscarriage by clearing negative energy from her hospital room and guiding her through meditation to communicate with her uterus. The labor stopped, and months later she gave birth to a healthy boy named Brady.

A positive pregnancy test followed by loss is actually proof that you CAN get pregnant - it's evidence of your body's ability, not failure

Lavinia had a positive pregnancy test that ended in loss, which she initially saw as her 'rock bottom.' Through mindset work, she reframed it as proof she could get pregnant and just needed to find the way to stay pregnant.

Stop trying to make your baby come in the way you want - you don't know how the baby's gonna come, it might be better than what you've imagined

Linda opened her heart to donor eggs after 4 miscarriages with her own eggs, which led not only to her son but also created a community of support for other women and ultimately a natural pregnancy at 47

Your baby is trying so hard to come to you - miscarriages can be signs that your baby wants to come but not in that particular way

After Linda's 4th miscarriage, this reframe helped her feel gratitude and see it as a message to pivot to donor eggs rather than falling into despair

There's always a reason for unexplained infertility - it's just unexplored, not truly unexplained

Jo was told she had 'unexplained' recurrent loss, but persistent investigation revealed both a genetic incompatibility with her husband and a uterine septum that was blocking blood flow to half her uterus.

Past treatment failures don't predict future success - your history is not your destiny

Dr. Kathy had AMH of 0.23, failed IUIs, miscarriage, and failed IVF that produced only one egg, yet conceived naturally at 37 and is now 34 weeks pregnant with her son.

Miscarriage can be reframed as your body's enthusiasm for pregnancy rather than failure

Yulia learned to see her silent miscarriage as her body being so excited to get pregnant that it was 'pretending to be pregnant' rather than viewing it as a sign something was wrong with her fertility.

Ask yourself: if this was your existing child's health, would you sit quietly and nod, or would you research every angle?

This analogy helped Suzanne realize she'd been treating fertility like a passenger instead of an advocate. She then researched recurrent loss treatments and brought a comprehensive list to discuss with her new doctor.

Miscarriage doesn't mean you're too old - it means you need to change your approach

Genevieve miscarried at 39 and initially thought everyone was right about her being too old, but conceived naturally at 40 the next cycle after changing her mindset rather than her age.

Multiple losses don't make you a loser - they make you a warrior who keeps showing up

Beth experienced losses at natural miscarriage, twins at 25 weeks, 13 weeks, and 12 weeks but reframed from 'loser' to 'someone who doesn't give up' and conceived successfully

Failed transfers or miscarriages don't mean your dream is over—they can be preparation for success

Tracy had two failed IVF transfers and a miscarriage after natural conception, but got pregnant naturally again within months and is now 27 weeks with her daughter.