Yasmine shares her incredible journey from 7 years of fertility struggles, 7 miscarriages, and 7 failed IVF cycles to conceiving naturally at 43. After discovering the Fearlessly Fertile podcast in Bali, she transformed her mindset and learned to communicate with her daughter before conception.
YasmineAge 43· natural· Baby girlBefore
Ready to give up after 7 years of failures, husband had emotionally checked out
Key Shift
Experienced a literal mental light switch flip and decided she could do it, began communicating with baby's spirit
After
Calmer than ever before, completely confident, connected to her daughter before birth
Yasmine discovered the Fearlessly Fertile podcast while in Bali after 7 years of fertility struggles including 7 miscarriages and 7 failed IVF cycles. She felt an immediate connection and transformation, describing how her mindset completely changed within minutes of listening. This moment marked the beginning of her journey from despair to triumph.
During a phone conversation while taking out the garbage, Yasmine experienced a literal mental shift she described as a light switch flipping in her brain. This profound moment led her to immediately invite her husband to try conceiving that night. She visualized being completely open and receptive, and for the first time in years, her body responded differently during conception.
Yasmine knew her baby was a girl named Mia before 12 weeks of pregnancy and wrote 'I'm pregnant' in a journal immediately after conception. When she experienced familiar cramping that had preceded her previous miscarriages, she would talk directly to Mia with a hot water bottle, asking her to stay. Each time she communicated this way, the concerning symptoms would subside.
Despite being told by doctors not to try again because she 'didn't have what it takes,' Yasmine conceived naturally and had a smooth pregnancy. At 37 weeks, she reflected on how the timing was perfect - if Mia had come earlier, her husband's near-death experience would have created trauma during the baby's early life. She realized she wasn't late to motherhood; she was exactly on time.
“You can think and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey. You make time, your diagnosis, the statistics, and your past, fucking irrelevant.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:15
Yes, it's absolutely possible. Yasmine conceived naturally at 43 after 7 failed IVF cycles and 7 miscarriages over 7 years. The key was shifting her mindset and learning to communicate with her baby's spirit.
“I would take a hot water bottle and I'd climb into bed and I'd start talking to the baby and I'd be like, Hey, we want you here. Like, you've gotta stay.”
— Yasmine▶ 13:14
Yasmine successfully prevented miscarriage by talking to her baby whenever she felt cramping. She would lie down with a hot water bottle and communicate that they wanted the baby to stay, and the pain would subside each time.
“I always come late to the table. And so this is like fully what I'm supposed to this time is when it was supposed to happen.”
— Yasmine▶ 23:13
No, it's not too late. Yasmine conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failures. She learned that having a baby later in life isn't being late - it's perfect timing when you're truly ready.
“Can you imagine the hubris? Well, that's actually what happened. And so you're gonna hear how Yasmin went from a place of just pretty much being ready to give up to standing firm for her daughter.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 1:43
Don't accept their verdict as final. Yasmine was told by a doctor not to try again because she 'didn't have what it takes,' but she went on to conceive naturally at 43. Doctors practice statistics, not certainties.
“I went to my room and I don't journal. I'm not a journaler. And I wrote in the book of this and this journal still to this day only has one page. And the one page says I'm pregnant and I am pregnant this time.”
— Yasmine▶ 12:21
Trust your inner knowing and intuition. Yasmine knew her daughter was a girl named Mia before conception and wrote in a journal immediately after conceiving that she was pregnant. The desire itself is evidence you're meant to be a mother.
“I could see this light switch and I turned it on and all of a sudden my, I just went, I can totally do this. I can do this.”
— Yasmine▶ 10:37
Yes, dramatically. Yasmine experienced an immediate mental shift while listening to the podcast in Bali, describing it as a light switch flipping in her brain. That night she conceived naturally after 7 years of failures.
Yasmine's method for maintaining pregnancy after recurrent miscarriage by talking to her baby
Recognize the signs
When you feel familiar cramping or signs that previously indicated miscarriage, don't panic
Create comfort
Get a hot water bottle and climb into bed to create a safe, comfortable space
Start talking
Speak directly to your baby, telling them you want them here and asking what you can do to help them stay
Express your commitment
Make it clear that leaving is not an option and that you and your partner are ready for them
Continue the conversation
Repeat this process whenever concerning symptoms arise, maintaining the dialogue throughout pregnancy
Statistics don't matter when you learn from other people's experiences and decide to believe in your own success
Yasmine overcame 7 years of fertility struggles, 7 miscarriages, and 7 failed IVF cycles to conceive naturally at 43 after hearing other women's success stories on the podcast.
A physical mindset shift can happen in minutes when you're ready to receive it
Yasmine described feeling a literal light switch flip in her brain during a phone call, immediately knowing she could conceive. That same night she conceived Mia naturally after 7 years of trying.
You can communicate with your baby's spirit during pregnancy to encourage them to stay
Yasmine talked to Mia whenever she felt familiar cramping that had preceded her 7 previous miscarriages. Each time she communicated with the baby, the pain would subside and the pregnancy continued.
Opening your body and being receptive during conception creates a different physical experience
Yasmine visualized being completely open and receptive during conception, and for the first time in 7 years, her body retained the sperm instead of releasing it immediately afterward.
You may need to continue trying even when your partner has emotionally checked out
Yasmine's husband Tom had emotionally checked out years before her successful conception, but she continued believing for their family. He later admitted he had given up but she persevered alone.
Doctors telling you not to try again based on statistics are practicing hubris, not medicine
Yasmine was told by a doctor 'don't try again, you don't have what it takes' but went on to conceive naturally at 43 and carry to term successfully.
Knowing your baby before conception includes knowing their gender and name
Yasmine knew her baby was a girl named Mia before 12 weeks of pregnancy, and this intuitive knowing was confirmed throughout her pregnancy.
Having a baby later in life isn't being late to the party - it's perfect timing
Yasmine realized that if Mia had come earlier, her husband nearly dying two years prior would have created trauma during the baby's early life. The timing was protective.
Miracles exist to make us fall back in love with faith
Yasmine, who had a tumultuous relationship with religion, found her faith completely restored through conceiving Mia naturally at 43 after 7 years of failures.
You can will a baby into existence through conscious intention and invitation
Yasmine learned to see conception as signing a contract with a being not yet in existence, consciously inviting Mia to come into their lives and change everything.
Statistics don't matter when you learn from other people's experiences and decide to believe in your own success
▶ 1:12A physical mindset shift can happen in minutes when you're ready to receive it
▶ 10:27You can communicate with your baby's spirit during pregnancy to encourage them to stay
▶ 13:14Opening your body and being receptive during conception creates a different physical experience
▶ 11:29You may need to continue trying even when your partner has emotionally checked out
▶ 18:58Doctors telling you not to try again based on statistics are practicing hubris, not medicine
▶ 21:24Knowing your baby before conception includes knowing their gender and name
▶ 16:20Having a baby later in life isn't being late to the party - it's perfect timing
▶ 26:04Miracles exist to make us fall back in love with faith
▶ 28:46You can will a baby into existence through conscious intention and invitation
▶ 18:05“If you've had multiple miscarriages and failed IVFs, you should give up trying naturally”
CONSIDER: Your past does not determine your future - even the most challenging fertility history can end in natural conception success
“Having a baby in your 40s means you're late to motherhood”
CONSIDER: Perfect timing means having developed yourself, found the right partner, and being truly ready - which often happens later in life
“When doctors say you can't conceive based on your history, you should accept their verdict”
CONSIDER: No doctor can tell you definitively that you can't have a child - their statistics don't apply to your individual journey
“You make time, your diagnosis, the statistics, and your past, fucking irrelevant.”
“I could see this light switch and I turned it on and all of a sudden my, I just went, I can totally do this. I can do this.”
“Hey, we want you here. Like, you've gotta stay. Like you don't have an option, please, please. What can I do to make you stay?”
“Miracles exist to make somebody fall back in love with faith.”
“Your mind is everything. The way you think the positivity, what you tell it, what you feed it, what you read, what you watch. You really can do anything.”
“I wanted to join the program for was to keep it. And I never was able to do that over the seven times that I had fallen pregnant.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Money and scarcity mindset can be the biggest obstacle to fertility success, even more than medical conditions
Tracy delayed IVF for years due to scarcity beliefs rooted in childhood, asking 'why pay for something my body should do naturally?' This mindset kept her stuck until she learned to pivot and invest in her dream.
You must be the woman who succeeded before you actually see tangible success
Tracy bought baby girl outfits months before conceiving naturally at 42, and wore a 'mother of two' necklace while still trying for her second child. She trusted her vision despite having no evidence.
The pain and struggle of your fertility journey disappears once you have your baby in your arms - nothing else matters
Trish, who struggled for years before conceiving her daughter Geordie and is now pregnant again, shares that the relief and magnitude of love outweighs all the grief, sadness and disappointment from the journey.
You are the absolute boss and decision maker of your fertility journey - not the doctors
Diana applied this mindset shift to conceive her son and now has two daughters, ages 2 and 2 months. She uses these same techniques for career decisions and all life choices.
