Rosanne AustinDiscovery Hub
Teaching2020-01-06·11 min

EP45 Be The Bawse of 2020

EP45 Be The Bawse of 2020

Rosanne teaches how to approach 2020 with boss-level conviction by understanding the sacred context of your fertility journey. She reframes the journey from a personal struggle to a powerful contribution to your family lineage and humanity.

The Power of Context in Your Fertility Journey

Rosanne opens by emphasizing how a new decade offers perspective and clean slate energy. She teaches that the key to boss-level conviction is understanding the proper context of your fertility journey - you're not pursuing a vanity project, you're answering a sacred calling to shape your family tree.

Sacred Stewardship vs Personal Struggle

When you recognize yourself as the steward of something truly sacred, everything changes. Rosanne explains how this context shift makes you immune to statistics, external opinions, and setbacks because you understand the enormity of your contribution to humanity and your family's lineage.

The Transformation That Creates Legacy

The fertility journey transforms you into a woman with titanium ovaries who took a stand for her dreams. Rosanne teaches how this creates your ability to model authentic dream pursuit for your children, giving them an origin story of courage and conviction rather than compromise.

Questions This Episode Answers

How do I stop caring about fertility statistics and other people's opinions

When you put your desire to be a mom in its proper context, which I respectfully submit is this, you won't give a fuck about statistics, what other people say, low vibe judgments about your journey

Rosanne Austin4:58

Put your fertility journey in proper context. You're not pursuing a vanity project - you're answering a sacred calling to shape your family tree and contribute to humanity. When you truly understand the enormity of what you're doing, statistics and other people's opinions become irrelevant.

How to have conviction on your fertility journey

Being the boss of twenty twenty and your journey is stepping into a new level of conviction on this journey and in your life

Rosanne Austin5:49

Understand that your desire to be a mom is your contribution to humanity and your family's history. This isn't about wanting something for yourself - it's about answering a sacred calling. When you see yourself as the steward of something truly sacred, you develop unstoppable conviction.

Why do I keep belittling my desire to have a baby

You cannot have a situation where you're treating the desires of your heart like the spurious aspirations of a woman who wants too much

Rosanne Austin8:02

Many women treat their heart's desires like spurious aspirations of someone who wants too much. Stop doing that. Your desire to be a mom is your mission, not a selfish want. When you honor it as such, you stop undermining yourself.

What does it mean to be the boss of your fertility journey

You are literally saying, look motherfuckers, I have a job to do. No negative thought, naysaying, or lack of faith is going to get in my way

Rosanne Austin5:39

Being the boss means stepping into conviction about your sacred calling to motherhood. It's saying 'I have a job to do' and not letting negative thoughts, naysaying, or lack of faith get in your way. You become the steward of something sacred and own challenges like fuel for your fire.

How fertility journey changes you as a person

You become the woman who had the titanium ovaries to fucking take a stand for her dreams and can teach her children to do the same

Rosanne Austin8:52

The fertility journey transforms you into a woman with titanium ovaries who took a stand for her dreams. You become someone who can teach your children with authority what it means to live on purpose, face adversity, and make dreams come true - because you lived it yourself.

How to Be the Boss of Your Fertility Journey

A framework for stepping into unshakeable conviction about your path to motherhood

  1. 1

    Put your journey in proper context

    Understand that you're not pursuing a vanity project - you're answering a sacred calling to shape your family tree and contribute to humanity

  2. 2

    Stop belittling your desires

    Treat your desire to be a mom like your mission, not like the spurious aspirations of a woman who wants too much

  3. 3

    Embrace any path to motherhood

    Whether through natural conception, IVF, donor eggs, surrogacy, or adoption - you are still that baby's mama answering the call

  4. 4

    Use challenges as fuel

    When you see yourself as the steward of something sacred, challenges, disappointments, and haters just fuel the fire

  5. 5

    Focus on who you become

    Remember you're becoming the woman with titanium ovaries who can teach her children what it means to make dreams come true

All Teachings 6

ReframeEmpowering2:56

Put your fertility journey in proper context - you're not pursuing a vanity project, you're shaping your family tree and contributing to humanity

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by shifting her perspective from personal struggle to sacred calling, and now teaches this context shift to women across six continents.

TeachingFierce4:58

When you understand the enormity of what you're doing - answering a sacred calling to motherhood - you won't give a fuck about statistics, what other people say, or low vibe judgments

Rosanne's own experience overcoming years of fertility treatment failure at 43 demonstrates how this context shift eliminates fear of statistics and external negativity.

TeachingComforting4:17

It doesn't matter how you become a mother - naturally, IVF, donor eggs, surrogacy, adoption - you are still that baby's mama and answering the call

Rosanne emphasizes this inclusive approach based on her 12+ years coaching women across different paths to motherhood, recognizing all routes as equally valid.

TeachingEmpowering8:52

You become the woman who had the titanium ovaries to take a stand for her dreams and can teach her children to do the same - you won't have to guess at what it's like to make dreams come true

Rosanne models this herself, having taken a stand for her own fertility dreams at 43 and now teaching her son Asher what it means to pursue dreams with conviction.

TeachingChallenging8:02

We often belittle our own desires, treating them like spurious aspirations of a woman who wants too much - quit doing that and treat your desire to be a mom like your fucking mission

Rosanne observes this pattern consistently in her 12+ years coaching women on fertility, noting how self-belittlement undermines success more than external obstacles.

TeachingEmpowering7:21

When you see yourself as the steward of something truly sacred, you own challenges like Wonder Woman on crack - challenges, disappointments, and haters just fuel the fire

This mirrors Rosanne's own journey through years of fertility treatment failure, where she developed the resilience that led to natural conception at 43.

Episode Tone
3 empowering1 fierce1 comforting1 challenging

Key Teachings 6

Put your fertility journey in proper context - you're not pursuing a vanity project, you're shaping your family tree and contributing to humanity

2:56

When you understand the enormity of what you're doing - answering a sacred calling to motherhood - you won't give a fuck about statistics, what other people say, or low vibe judgments

4:58

It doesn't matter how you become a mother - naturally, IVF, donor eggs, surrogacy, adoption - you are still that baby's mama and answering the call

4:17

You become the woman who had the titanium ovaries to take a stand for her dreams and can teach her children to do the same - you won't have to guess at what it's like to make dreams come true

8:52

We often belittle our own desires, treating them like spurious aspirations of a woman who wants too much - quit doing that and treat your desire to be a mom like your fucking mission

8:02

When you see yourself as the steward of something truly sacred, you own challenges like Wonder Woman on crack - challenges, disappointments, and haters just fuel the fire

7:21

Perspectives 2

Your fertility journey is a personal struggle or vanity project

CONSIDER: Your fertility journey is a sacred calling to shape your family tree and contribute to humanity

Statistics and other people's opinions should influence your fertility decisions

CONSIDER: When you understand the sacred context of your calling, you won't give a fuck about statistics or what other people say

Quotable Moments

You are literally saying, look motherfuckers, I have a job to do. No negative thought, naysaying, or lack of faith is going to get in my way.

Rosanne Austin5:39

You become the woman who had the titanium ovaries to fucking take a stand for her dreams and can teach her children to do the same.

Rosanne Austin8:52

When you put your desire to be a mom in its proper context, you won't give a fuck about statistics, what other people say, low vibe judgments about your journey.

Rosanne Austin4:58

Not stepping up and providing yourself with the circumstances and the opportunity to have those things is like watching someone else win your fucking gold medal.

Rosanne Austin7:00

You cannot have a situation where you're treating the desires of your heart like the spurious aspirations of a woman who wants too much.

Rosanne Austin8:02

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