Rosanne shares her personal journey from skepticism to faith, revealing how rebuilding her relationship with God transformed her fertility journey. She explains how hitting rock bottom as a prosecutor led to a spiritual awakening that changed everything about how she approached getting pregnant.
Rosanne shares her transformation from a faith-skeptical prosecutor who relied only on science to someone who discovered the power of spiritual connection. Her rock bottom moment in her office after a career victory coincided with another treatment failure, setting the stage for her spiritual awakening.
A unexpected encounter with Darius Rucker's 'True Believers' during a shower became Rosanne's lightning strike moment of divine connection. This experience of peace and love marked the beginning of her journey back to faith and trust in something greater than herself.
Rosanne developed a practice of simple, humble communication with God, asking for signs and to be kept in mind. This led to synchronicities and guidance appearing everywhere, helping her reframe her fertility failures as divine redirection rather than punishment.
The episode culminates in Rosanne's teaching that faith enables the kind of surrender necessary for fertility success. When women can trust divine timing and let go of controlling the when and how, they create space for their babies to come to them.
“Faith isn't just important because it's going to change your perspective. It's critical because faith is the cornerstone of surrender.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 14:44
Faith helps by shifting your perspective from seeing fertility challenges as punishment to seeing them as guidance. It enables surrender, which means letting go of agonizing about timing while staying open to receive your baby.
“You are trying to have a baby. The most important shit you need for that is found from the neck down.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:07
Neck down fertility means accessing intuition, faith, and mind-body connection rather than relying solely on logic and medical facts. It's about trusting your body's wisdom and spiritual guidance in addition to medical support.
“My prayer every single day and frankly, sometimes minute by minute, my prayer was simple. Please just give me some signs and keep me in mind.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:01
Start with gratitude for past blessings, begin each day saying 'thank you,' and maintain ongoing conversation with your higher power asking for signs and guidance rather than making demands.
“Divine intelligence, the exact divine intelligence behind the big bang isn't worried about what day it is and certainly doesn't give a fuck about your age. It will find a way to deliver.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 17:18
While age affects fertility medically, divine intelligence doesn't operate by human timelines or age limitations. Focus on spiritual alignment and trust rather than being limited by statistics.
“When I allowed myself to see those things instead as gifts from something wiser than me, I could see that instead of them just being punches to the gut, they were actually nudges in the right direction.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:34
Ask 'How is this happening for me?' instead of 'Why is this happening to me?' Look for the gifts and redirection in each setback, seeing them as nudges toward what's truly meant for you.
A practical approach for reconnecting with spiritual support on your fertility journey
Exit 'what have you done for me lately' mode
Make a list of 25 holy shit blessings you've had in your life - car accidents avoided, healings, professional achievements, meeting your partner. Acknowledge how you've been supported throughout your lifetime.
Start each morning with gratitude
For the next seven days, before your feet hit the floor, connect with your higher power and say 'Thank you.' This is a complete prayer that opens you to receiving more blessings.
Maintain ongoing conversation
Move through your day in constant internal conversation with your higher power, asking for guidance and signs. Use simple prayers like 'Please give me some signs and keep me in mind' rather than making demands.
Faith is the cornerstone of surrender, which allows you to let go of agonizing about when and how so you can allow your baby to come instead of blocking it with fear
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after rebuilding her relationship with faith, despite years of fertility treatment failures as a former skeptic who relied only on science and logic.
Your fertility failures aren't punitive evidence that you're not enough - they're actually nudges in the right direction from something wiser than you
Rosanne reframed her years of fertility treatment failures as guidance that led her away from clinics that didn't care about her to ones that did, ultimately leading to natural conception at 43.
The most important elements for having a baby are found from the neck down, not from cold logic, reason, statistics and medicine alone
Rosanne's approach of 'neck up' thinking - relying only on logic and medicine - resulted in years of fertility treatment failures, while incorporating faith and intuition led to natural conception at 43.
Divine intelligence behind the big bang doesn't worry about what day it is and certainly doesn't give a fuck about your age - it will find a way to deliver
Despite all the statistics about age and her fertility past, Rosanne conceived naturally at 43, proving that divine timing transcends human constructs of time and age limitations.
Start each day with a simple two-word prayer: 'Thank you' - this is actually a complete prayer that connects you to your higher power
This practice was part of Rosanne's faith rebuilding process that shifted her from despair to trust, ultimately supporting her journey to natural conception at 43.
Make Gus your first resort, not your last - start moving through your day in constant internal conversation asking for guidance and what is true
When Rosanne shifted from relying on old patterns to making faith her first resort through daily conversation with God, she found the guidance that led to natural conception at 43 after years of treatment failure.
Faith is the cornerstone of surrender, which allows you to let go of agonizing about when and how so you can allow your baby to come instead of blocking it with fear
▶ 14:44Your fertility failures aren't punitive evidence that you're not enough - they're actually nudges in the right direction from something wiser than you
▶ 7:34The most important elements for having a baby are found from the neck down, not from cold logic, reason, statistics and medicine alone
▶ 9:07Divine intelligence behind the big bang doesn't worry about what day it is and certainly doesn't give a fuck about your age - it will find a way to deliver
▶ 17:18Start each day with a simple two-word prayer: 'Thank you' - this is actually a complete prayer that connects you to your higher power
▶ 19:02Make Gus your first resort, not your last - start moving through your day in constant internal conversation asking for guidance and what is true
▶ 13:02“Fertility failures are evidence you're being punished or asking for too much”
CONSIDER: Fertility setbacks are actually nudges in the right direction from divine wisdom, guiding you toward what's meant for you
“Logic, statistics, and medical science alone are sufficient to achieve pregnancy”
CONSIDER: The most important elements for conception come from the neck down - intuition, faith, and mind-body connection are essential
“Age and time are limiting factors that determine fertility outcomes”
CONSIDER: Divine intelligence doesn't care about human constructs like age or timelines - it will find a way to deliver your baby
“Faith isn't just important because it's going to change your perspective. It's critical because faith is the cornerstone of surrender.”
“You are trying to have a baby. The most important shit you need for that is found from the neck down.”
“Divine intelligence, the exact divine intelligence behind the big bang isn't worried about what day it is and certainly doesn't give a fuck about your age.”
“You have this desire in your heart because it was meant for you, but the only thing that is gonna get in the way is you not seeing that.”
“Gus had my back the whole fucking time, and Gus has your back too.”
250th Episode Celebration!
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EP222 The Power of Mind-Body Medicine with Dr. Kim D’Eramo, DO
A board-certified physician reveals how she reversed severe autoimmune disease in weeks—and why your subconscious programming might be the missing piece in your fertility journey.
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A medical doctor who tried everything science had to offer discovers the one thing that changed her fertility story forever.
The pain and struggle of your fertility journey disappears once you have your baby in your arms - nothing else matters
Trish, who struggled for years before conceiving her daughter Geordie and is now pregnant again, shares that the relief and magnitude of love outweighs all the grief, sadness and disappointment from the journey.
You are the absolute boss and decision maker of your fertility journey - not the doctors
Diana applied this mindset shift to conceive her son and now has two daughters, ages 2 and 2 months. She uses these same techniques for career decisions and all life choices.
Your subconscious programming creates hormonal signals that directly affect your endocrine and immune systems, influencing fertility without your conscious awareness
Dr. Kim D'Eramo explains how psychoneuroimmunology shows our beliefs and thoughts transmit neurologic signals to the immune and endocrine systems. She conceived naturally at almost 45 despite being told she had only a 13% chance of natural conception.
Fertility requires embracing feminine energy of receiving rather than masculine energy of achieving and controlling
Dr. D'Eramo conceived twice naturally, including at almost 45, after letting go of white-knuckling her way through fertility. Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after 7 years of struggle when she stopped trying to out-medicate and out-diet her internal state.
