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Teaching2021-01-04·16 min

EP97 2021: Hello, Lover!

EP97 2021: Hello, Lover!

Rosanne guides listeners through a powerful exercise to create their vision for 2021 by feeling what they truly want instead of thinking through it. She emphasizes tapping into feminine power and desire to fuel unstoppable action on the fertility journey.

Why Most Fertility Goals Fail by February

Rosanne explains that typical New Year's resolutions fail within 10-20 days because they're based on what you think you can get rather than what you actually want. She emphasizes that this year needs to be different for women on the fertility journey.

The Power of Feminine-Centered Goal Setting

Teaching that conceiving is about receiving, Rosanne guides listeners to answer goal-setting questions with their heart rather than their brain. She emphasizes engaging creative feminine faculties instead of controlling masculine energy.

The Revolutionary Goal-Setting Exercise

Rosanne provides a step-by-step process for connecting to authentic desires without considering limitations. She teaches listeners to feel their answers and get emotionally attached to their written goals for 70% better success rates.

Overcoming Internal Battles and Limitations

Addressing that the real battle is with ourselves and limiting beliefs, Rosanne encourages fierce commitment to motherhood. She shares how a woman conceived naturally at 50 by engaging extraordinary fire and refusing to accept limitations.

Questions This Episode Answers

How do I set fertility goals that actually work

Answer the question 'What do I want this year?' with your heart, not your brain. Feel the answer rather than thinking it through.

Rosanne Austin6:21

Answer the question 'What do I want this year?' with your heart, not your brain. Feel the answer rather than thinking it through, and write it down to be 70% more likely to achieve it.

Why do fertility goals and resolutions fail

It's really easy to figure out that pretty much by February, maybe the first week in February, any resolution that you make is fucked.

Rosanne Austin1:33

Most resolutions fail by February because they're based on what you think you can get rather than what you actually want. Without emotional connection to your desires, you'll abandon goals within 10-20 days.

What does conceiving is about receiving mean

Conceiving is all about receiving. If you wanna conceive, you've got to be engaged in your feminine. If you wanna receive, you've gotta be engaged in your feminine.

Rosanne Austin4:58

Conceiving is about receiving means you must be in your feminine power rather than your controlling masculine energy. To receive a baby, you need to engage your creative, receptive feminine faculties.

How to overcome fertility journey limitations and negative thoughts

The only real thing that we're battling on this journey truly is ourselves. Bottom line is ourselves and the negative bullshit stories that we tell about what we can and can't do.

Rosanne Austin9:26

Recognize that the only real battle on the fertility journey is with yourself and your limiting beliefs. Push aside stories about what you can't have and focus on what you actually want, even if others would laugh at you.

How to stay motivated on fertility journey when things get hard

You have to have that level of ferocity over being a mom. You gotta have that in your soul, and you've gotta be willing to go for that.

Rosanne Austin10:28

You need ferocity over being a mom and willingness to get extremely uncomfortable. When you're driven by your actual desire rather than what you think you can get, you'll have the fire to keep going.

How to Create Heart-Centered Fertility Goals That Actually Work

A revolutionary approach to goal setting that taps into feminine power and authentic desire rather than limitations

  1. 1

    Get materials

    Get a piece of paper or fresh journal page and something to write with

  2. 2

    Close your eyes and connect

    Close your eyes and ask yourself 'What do I really want this year?' - but only when safe to do so

  3. 3

    Feel the answer

    Answer with your heart, not your brain. Feel the answer rather than thinking it through

  4. 4

    Eliminate limitations

    Totally eliminate consideration of how, cost, or any distractions from what you actually want

  5. 5

    Write expansively

    Write out what you want to create this year in an expansive way, trusting your gut

  6. 6

    Get emotionally attached

    Feel the excitement of what you wrote and make a commitment to yourself that you're going to do this

  7. 7

    Make it visible

    Put what you wrote somewhere you can see it every single day and let it fire you up

All Teachings 7

TeachingChallenging1:33

Most New Year's resolutions fail by February because they're based on what you think you can get rather than what you actually want

Studies show you're 70% more likely to accomplish goals when they're written down, but most people abandon resolutions within 10-20 days because they lack emotional connection to their desires.

TeachingEmpowering4:46

Conceiving is all about receiving, and to receive you must be in your feminine power, not your controlling masculine energy

A miracle mama conceived naturally at 50 by engaging her feminine power and igniting the fire needed to stay committed despite impossible odds.

TeachingEmpowering6:21

Answer the question 'What do I want this year?' with your heart, not your brain, and feel the answer rather than thinking it through

Women who engage their creative feminine faculties and connect emotionally to their desires create the white hot fire that keeps them taking action when others give up.

ReframeEmpowering3:15

Your baby is not in your past - your baby is present in spirit and you will be holding them in the future

Women across six continents at all different ages, including those with less than 1% chances, have made their mom dreams come true by believing their baby exists and taking action from that reality.

TeachingChallenging9:26

The only real thing we're battling on this fertility journey is ourselves and the negative stories we tell about our limitations

Every woman who has reached the other side of her journey, including a recent natural pregnancy at 50, had to overcome self-limiting beliefs rather than just medical challenges.

TeachingFierce10:28

You must have ferocity over being a mom and be willing to get extremely uncomfortable to achieve what you want

The miracle mama who conceived at 50 had to engage extraordinary fire and commitment that most people would never believe possible, proving that fierce desire creates unstoppable action.

TeachingEmpowering9:06

When you're driven by your actual desire rather than what you think you can get, you have white hot fire that keeps you moving forward

Women in the Fearlessly Fertile community who connect to their true desires rather than settling create masterful transformations and make their dreams come true against incredible odds.

Episode Tone
2 challenging4 empowering1 fierce

Key Teachings 7

Most New Year's resolutions fail by February because they're based on what you think you can get rather than what you actually want

1:33

Conceiving is all about receiving, and to receive you must be in your feminine power, not your controlling masculine energy

4:46

Answer the question 'What do I want this year?' with your heart, not your brain, and feel the answer rather than thinking it through

6:21

Your baby is not in your past - your baby is present in spirit and you will be holding them in the future

3:15

The only real thing we're battling on this fertility journey is ourselves and the negative stories we tell about our limitations

9:26

You must have ferocity over being a mom and be willing to get extremely uncomfortable to achieve what you want

10:28

When you're driven by your actual desire rather than what you think you can get, you have white hot fire that keeps you moving forward

9:06

Perspectives 2

Set realistic, achievable goals based on what you think is possible given your circumstances

CONSIDER: Connect to what you actually want and feel it deeply, regardless of how impossible it seems, because that desire will fuel the action needed to succeed

Use your mind and logic to plan and control your fertility journey

CONSIDER: Conceiving is about receiving, which requires being in your feminine power and creative faculties rather than masculine control

Quotable Moments

Your baby is not in your past. Your baby is present, and in your future, you will be holding them.

Rosanne Austin3:15

Conceiving is all about receiving. If you wanna conceive, you've got to be engaged in your feminine.

Rosanne Austin4:58

The only real thing that we're battling on this journey truly is ourselves and the negative bullshit stories that we tell about what we can and can't do.

Rosanne Austin9:26

You have to have that level of ferocity over being a mom. You gotta have that in your soul, and you've gotta be willing to go for that.

Rosanne Austin10:28

When you're driven by your desire, when you're driven by what you actually want, not what you think you can get, you are gonna have that white hot fire burning inside of you.

Rosanne Austin9:06

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