“Past failures predict future results”

Treatment shame blocks your ability to receive help and conceive your baby

Anne spent years hiding from being seen at fertility clinics, feeling like she didn't belong there, which blocked her from being open to treatment. Only when she released this shame and became an engaged participant did she conceive and reach 21 weeks pregnant.

You can't give up on yourself if you want to be a mother - you're worth the investment

Anne invested in mindset coaching after hitting rock bottom, recognizing she was worth the time, energy and money. This self-investment led to her transformation and pregnancy at 21 weeks.

Statistics and past failures don't determine your future - you can go from six normal embryos to zero and still conceive naturally with the right mindset and medical team.

Anne Marie used all six of her genetically normal embryos without success, was told to consider donor eggs, but then conceived naturally on her next retrieval at 40 with a new doctor who believed in her potential.

You wouldn't want and desire this baby if there was not a way - you are not a stupid woman

This core teaching underlies Rosanne's work with hundreds of women who have beaten impossible odds, including having babies in their 40s and 50s and beating less than 1% odds, proving that desire indicates possibility.

You're not too late, you're not too broken, you're not too fucked up—you have to become the woman who is fearless

Rosanne overcame years of treatment failure and conceived naturally at 43, proving that age, past failures, and perceived brokenness don't determine fertility outcomes.

Your current circumstances may look like shit, but they are no indicator of what is to come

Rosanne's own journey from years of fertility treatment failure to natural conception at 43 demonstrates that current circumstances don't predict future outcomes.

People who desire to become parents will become parents if they don't give up on their journey

Dr. Bove states 'people who want to become parents will become parents. The desire is in your heart for a reason.' Rosanne confirms 'there's not a single person that I have met who did the work and made the decision to be a parent that didn't find a way.'

The only women who reach the end of their fertility journey without their baby are those who gave up

Rosanne states definitively 'The only women that get to the end of their journey without their baby are the ones that gave up' based on over 10 years of coaching experience.

Partners should examine their woman's history of good decisions when feeling uncertain about new approaches

Mr. Austin suggests asking 'do you have a level of trust that I'm advancing us in everything I do' and reflecting on whether 'she hasn't bankrupted us' and 'always made the right decision for our family'.

This journey ignites a level of desire and drive that most people will never understand because they try something 2-3 times maximum before falling into limiting beliefs

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure, demonstrating the persistence most people can't comprehend when facing repeated setbacks

For recurrent miscarriage, you need to build trust in yourself, your body, and this baby - not let residue from past losses cloud your judgment

Even when pursuing treatment for pregnancy loss, women need to examine what they're saying to themselves about those losses so heavy feelings don't distract them from knowing they're meant to be a mom

Every month is a new month - you can reclaim your life back with this perspective

Caroline used this reframe to move through disappointment when her period came, knowing she was one month closer to her wedding and had been taking supplements longer, creating forward momentum instead of defeat.

Your baby is in new territory that you don't know - getting to the place where you get and stay pregnant is new ground you've never been there before

Even women who've been pregnant before but couldn't hold pregnancies need to reach new territory of getting and staying pregnant, which requires embracing the discomfort of unfamiliar experiences.

The prove it mentality is egotistical and based in hubris - you only know your own experience

Women stuck in 'I know this and that' thinking limit themselves to their past failures instead of remaining open to new possibilities and approaches that could work.

The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you - this is your birthright

Rosanne comes from this perspective not because it's cute, but because she actually believes it, and when clients choose to believe it too, they create insane things in their lives

If being a mom is truly your calling, you cannot allow someone else's position, fear, or negativity to rob you of this life experience

Rosanne teaches from her experience as a fertility mindset master who helps women beat the odds globally, emphasizing that women must take responsibility for their dreams just as they would for their profession.

The grit required to overcome three ectopic pregnancies, repeated miscarriage, and self-doubt while being a top professional demonstrates the power of commitment to growth

Somaya endured three ectopic pregnancies, multiple miscarriages, and 20 months of trying while running a successful executive search firm, ultimately conceiving naturally at 38.

Being the woman who says 'I'll take those odds because I ain't leaving without my baby, and ten percent means shit's still possible' positions you to beat the odds

This exact mindset allowed Rosanne to conceive naturally at 43 despite doctors recommending donor eggs due to age-related statistics.

The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you

Rosanne emphasizes this core belief that sustained her through years of treatment failure before conceiving naturally at 43, and teaches this to women across six continents.

The desire to be a mom is in your heart because it was meant for you

This core principle guided Austin to her own natural conception at 43 after treatment failures and has become the foundation for helping women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journeys.

The desire in your heart to be a mom exists because there's a way to get there - nature and God don't put desires in hearts without providing a path

As a four-time bestselling author and coach who has worked with women across six continents, Rosanne has witnessed countless women fulfill their maternal desires against medical odds.

Be a historian of your successes, not just your failures

Kate learned to recognize improvements like pain-free periods and natural fertile windows instead of focusing only on negative pregnancy tests and failed cycles.

Being all in means refusing to back down to people, circumstances, and fear - it's about holding on for those extra few seconds that change everything

Rosanne emphasizes that when she and her husband doubled down and burned the bridges despite near constant failure and miserable history, Asher came to them, proving the power of absolute commitment.

What you are afraid of is where you are holding yourself back - whether it's money, time, number of failures, age, or being alone because no one else believes in you

Rosanne's 12+ years coaching women ages 28-54 across six continents reveals these common fear patterns that keep women stuck on their fertility journeys.

Every saboteur story you tell yourself creates a concrete wall between you and what you want

Rosanne specifically names the saboteur stories: feeding yourself bullshit about age, failures, money, what others think, beating yourself up over mistakes, worshiping statistics, avoiding help and mentorship, and dismissing heart desires as nice-to-haves.

Be in agreement with your potential, not your limitations - this is game changing

Helen from Rosanne's book had repeated miscarriages and went on to carry full term healthy babies, showing what's possible when you focus on potential.

Lack and scarcity thinking manifests in toxic fertility beliefs like 'some people are just lucky,' 'if it was gonna happen it would have by now,' and 'you can't have it all'

Rosanne lists specific examples of lack and scarcity thinking: 'some people are just lucky,' 'if it was gonna happen, it would have already happened by now,' 'you failed so many times already, why don't you just give up,' and 'you can't have it all.'

Each no brings you one step closer to yes - this runs counter to how we're typically conditioned but is a crucial mindset shift

The nine women who announced pregnancies in the past seven weeks heard devastating noes and faced repeated failures before their victories.

Multiple rounds of IVF can make you think 'if medicine can't help me, nothing can' - but treatment is simply an opportunity, you are still the answer

Women build cases against themselves based on number of treatment failures, but need to ask what within them can be lovingly adjusted so the next cycle can be different

Donor egg decisions become simple when reframed as receiving a gift from a loving woman rather than creating drama about what it means

Rosanne teaches that the complexity around donor eggs dissolves when viewed as 'receiving a gift from a beautiful woman that is so loving and open enough to give me her eggs.'

Failure isn't final - failures propel you to something bigger and better

Rosanne's fertility failures didn't predict failure in building her coaching business, despite having no background in business or coaching.

When others complain about getting their period, you shout 'damn straight, my shit still works'

This reframe is part of the mindset training Rosanne used to conceive naturally at 43 and teaches to women worldwide who are now beating statistical odds on their fertility journeys.

Your baby is not in your past - your baby is present in spirit and you will be holding them in the future

Women across six continents at all different ages, including those with less than 1% chances, have made their mom dreams come true by believing their baby exists and taking action from that reality.

Failures can be reframed as evidence of how badass and gangster you are for holding fast to your dreams

Rosanne had 84 failures before conceiving Asher naturally at 43. She teaches that each 'no' may signal a big yes is coming since no one fails all the time.

Reframing failed cycles as 'another opportunity' instead of 'another failure' transforms your entire fertility experience

Ali shifted from thinking 'another failure' to 'another opportunity the next time' and conceived that very cycle after making this mindset change.

Haters are mirrors reflecting what they gave up on in their own lives - your fire reminds them of dreams they chickened out on

Rosanne observes that fertility message boards and online groups are often 'bleak wasteland deserts of bitterness' where people who failed insist others will fail too, like crabs in a pot pulling the escaping crab back down.

Multiple losses don't make you a loser - they make you a warrior who keeps showing up

Beth experienced losses at natural miscarriage, twins at 25 weeks, 13 weeks, and 12 weeks but reframed from 'loser' to 'someone who doesn't give up' and conceived successfully

Failed transfers or miscarriages don't mean your dream is over—they can be preparation for success

Tracy had two failed IVF transfers and a miscarriage after natural conception, but got pregnant naturally again within months and is now 27 weeks with her daughter.

A period is just what women do - it's the meaning you attach to it that creates your emotional experience

Rosanne demonstrates how shifting from 'I'm a failure' to 'I have another shot at another cycle' when getting your period completely changes your emotional state and next actions.

In the pursuit of your baby, expect more no's than yeses - this expectation actually affirms your power rather than diminishes it

Nine of Rosanne's clients announced pregnancies in seven weeks after facing repeated failures, advanced maternal age, and unexplained infertility diagnoses.

Failure is not final - your past failures just need a makeover, they're not a verdict unless you make them so

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 despite years of treatment failure, proving past outcomes don't determine future results.

The past can be a wonderful teacher but it's absolutely not a verdict - you don't have to be a slave to previous fertility setbacks

Rosanne overcame years of fertility treatment failure to conceive naturally at 43 by applying this mindset, and now helps women globally reframe their past experiences to create future success.