“If it was gonna happen, it would have happened by now”

Self-sabotage is universal and often subtle - everyone does it, including top performers who hire coaches to combat it

Steve Jobs had a coach, Oprah has coaches - anyone with aspiration for success understands they are their own worst enemy and need insurance against self-sabotage

Thinking 'if it was gonna happen, it would have happened by now' is linear thinking that torpedoes dreams and causes missed opportunities

Believing things happen in logical, linear fashion on the fertility journey takes women out of the game and causes them to miss opportunities