Common belief
“Victimhood & Blame”
Discussed in 3 episodes.
This reflects mindset coaching perspectives from Rosanne Austin, JD, PCC. Always consult your medical team for clinical guidance.
Teachings
Teachings 4
When you go to fertility clinics with lack, scarcity, blame, and victimhood, nobody wants to touch your case with a ten-foot pole
Rosanne contrasts the reception patients get when they approach medical care from fear versus approaching with a beautiful life-giving obsession about their baby, noting the stark difference in treatment quality.
Ask yourself where are your gaps - in body, mindset, relationship, friendships, and faith - this empowers strategic action rather than victimhood
Rosanne clarifies this isn't criticism but empowerment, stating 'you expect victory on this journey, so you cannot tolerate victimhood' and smart women need to 'think strategically' about their gaps.
When you make a heart-based promise to yourself, you position yourself as the authority on your journey
Rosanne teaches that making this promise shifts you from uncertainty, doubt, and negativity into being 100% responsible for your success or failure, no longer blaming doctors, partners, or family.
It's only when our ego gets involved that we get thrown off track - egoic thinking leads to seeing yourself as a victim, which is the most repulsive kind of low vibe energy you can bring to this journey
Rosanne contrasts approaching your future child with love versus ego-driven thoughts like 'this baby is gonna save my marriage' or 'my life is not complete,' showing how ego-based thinking creates victim mentality that blocks success.
