How She Got Pregnant at 45 with Her Own Egg Despite Fibroids, Hashimoto's, and Failed IVF #ttc
Elise shares her incredible journey from failed IVF and multiple diagnoses to conceiving naturally at 45 with her own egg, emphasizing the power of faith and mindset transformation.
Breakthroughs 1
Acts of faith in other areas of life create momentum for your fertility dreams
Elise installed new floors she wanted, wrote a book, and changed churches while pursuing fertility - these acts of receiving in other areas strengthened her ability to receive her baby
Teachings 3
Don't listen to experts who dismiss you based on age alone - trust your intuition about what's right for your body
Elise's first OB wanted to send her straight to fertility treatment without any tests just based on her age at 40, but she found doctors who actually investigated and discovered treatable conditions like fibroids and polyps
Faith must precede the miracle - belief calls in what you desire, not the other way around
Elise received multiple signs including a college acquaintance's prophetic dream about her treatment, her mother prophetically naming 'Jaden' before her death, and conceiving at 45 after strengthening her faith muscle
Learning to receive rather than strive is essential for high-achieving women on this journey
Elise shifted from trying to do 100 things perfectly to being inspired to do the one right thing, moving from striving to receiving, which led to her natural conception
Perspectives 2
Over-obsession with diet and lifestyle perfection can actually work against you - joy and relaxation matter more
Elise conceived when she loosened up on her strict diet restrictions, and Rosanne notes she was eating raw cheese and wearing stilettos when she got pregnant
This fertility journey is pruning, not rejection - it refines you into the mother your child needs
Elise realized all her perceived 'rejections' were actually God refining her into a calm, faith-filled mother who doesn't parent from anxiety or fear
Quotable Moments 4
“The belief precedes the miracle always. We have to believe first. The believing is what calls that in.”
— Rosanne Austin“This fertility journey is pruning, not rejection. It refines you into the mother your child needs.”
— Rosanne Austin“Do you want the fear of failure or the pain of regret?”
— Rosanne Austin“You can always tell how we self sabotage by what we tolerate.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
Can you get pregnant naturally at 45 with your own eggs after failed IVF?
“If I had listened to what they had told me at the beginning, then I wouldn't be here today, with a baby.”
— Rosanne Austin
Yes, it's possible. Elise conceived naturally at 45 with her own egg after multiple failed IVF cycles, fibroids, and Hashimoto's by focusing on faith, mindset work, and learning to receive rather than strive.
How important is diet perfection for getting pregnant over 40?
“I think an over obsession with diet can actually work against you. Because, ironically, when I went loose on my diet right before we got pregnant, I was pregnant.”
— Rosanne Austin
Diet perfection isn't necessary and can actually create counterproductive stress. Focus on joy and relaxation instead of rigid restrictions, as over-obsession with diet can work against fertility.
How do you maintain faith during multiple failed fertility treatments?
“The belief precedes the miracle always. We have to believe first. The believing is what calls that in.”
— Rosanne Austin
Focus on receiving rather than striving, look for signs and guidance along the way, and remember that belief must precede the miracle. Faith acts as the foundation that calls in your desires.
Should you take breaks from IVF treatments?
“Your baby will wait for you.”
— Rosanne Austin
Yes, taking breaks can be beneficial for your physical and mental health. Trust your intuition about timing, and use breaks to focus on healing and mindset work rather than rushing into more treatments.
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Key Points 6
Don't listen to experts who dismiss you based on age alone - trust your intuition about what's right for your body
Over-obsession with diet and lifestyle perfection can actually work against you - joy and relaxation matter more
Faith must precede the miracle - belief calls in what you desire, not the other way around
Acts of faith in other areas of life create momentum for your fertility dreams
Learning to receive rather than strive is essential for high-achieving women on this journey
This fertility journey is pruning, not rejection - it refines you into the mother your child needs
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