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Why trying harder doesn’t work #fertility #mindset

Rosanne Austin explains why trying harder doesn't work for fertility success and introduces the concept of 'soft power' - influence through alignment rather than force.

Teachings 2

  • Soft power - influence through alignment rather than force - is what creates fertility success

    Women succeeding quicker on fertility journey are using soft power instead of force and pressure

  • Success comes from nervous system regulation and identity shift from 'infertile' labels to being the woman who can conceive

    Women finding success quicker are regulating their nervous system and shifting away from labels like infertile, too old, too late, too hopeless

Perspectives 1

  • Trying harder and hustling more doesn't lead to fertility success - if it did, high-achieving women would already be pregnant

    Women on the Fearlessly Fertile podcast who were told they had less than 1% chance and couldn't get pregnant with their own eggs succeeded

Quotable Moments 1

  • If trying harder were the answer, you'd already be pregnant.

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Questions This Video Answers

Why doesn't trying harder work for getting pregnant?

If trying harder were the answer, you'd already be pregnant. Women who are succeeding on the fertility journey now are not hustling harder. They're mastering soft power.

Rosanne Austin

Trying harder through force and pressure fails because successful women use 'soft power' - influence through alignment rather than control through striving. They regulate their nervous system and shift their identity instead of hustling harder.

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Key Points 3

Trying harder and hustling more doesn't lead to fertility success - if it did, high-achieving women would already be pregnant

Soft power - influence through alignment rather than force - is what creates fertility success

Success comes from nervous system regulation and identity shift from 'infertile' labels to being the woman who can conceive