Rosanne challenges listeners to take radical responsibility for their fertility journey results by asking where they can be better. She shares how Miracle Mama #46 got her first positive pregnancy test in 8 years, just 37 days after completing the Fearlessly Fertile daily program.
Miracle Mama #46· natural· First positive pregnancy testBefore
Eight years of trying with zero positive pregnancy tests
Key Shift
Acknowledged gaps in her strategy and took responsibility for change
After
First positive pregnancy test exactly one week after completing the program
Rosanne opens with exciting news about Miracle Mama #46, who achieved her first positive pregnancy test in 8 years just 37 days after starting the Fearlessly Fertile daily program. This remarkable timeline demonstrates how quickly things can shift when women are willing to take responsibility and do the inner work required for success.
Being better isn't about perfection or competing with others - it's about constant improvement in your own lane. Rosanne emphasizes this means being better than you were yesterday, last year, or even 15 minutes ago, and it starts with honest self-assessment from a place of love.
Rosanne challenges listeners to examine where they're not keeping their word, making excuses, or blaming others instead of taking empowered action. She distinguishes between valid emotions like disappointment and the disempowering trap of feeling sorry for yourself, which prevents women from accepting help and solutions.
The path to being better starts with telling yourself the truth from love, not self-flagellation. Rosanne provides a practical framework: ask where you can be better, write it down rather than just thinking about it, and take concrete action. This systematic approach leads to the kind of rapid results her clients experience.
With the year more than halfway over, Rosanne presents a stark choice: be the woman who gives it her all and can feel proud regardless of timing, or face soul-searing regret from not taking the chances offered. She emphasizes that peace comes from knowing you trusted yourself and gave everything to your dream.
“Being better is just that. Be better than you were a year ago. Be better than you were yesterday. Be better than you were fifteen minutes ago, one minute ago. Be better, improve constantly.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 4:49
Being better means constantly improving from where you are now - better than yesterday, a year ago, or even 15 minutes ago. It's not about being perfect or competing with others, but about taking an honest look at where you're at and asking where you can improve in your own lane.
“It was her first positive test after eight fucking years of trying, and she got this result exactly one week to the day after completing her thirty days in my fearlessly fertile daily program.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:04
Results can happen remarkably quickly when you're willing to take responsibility and do the work. One woman got her first positive pregnancy test in 8 years just 37 days after starting a fertility mindset program, with the positive coming exactly one week after completing the 30-day program.
“nine point nine five times out of ten, the enemy is not outside of us. The challenge is not outside of us. It is us.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 6:02
Often women are looking to other scared and confused people for answers instead of investing in real expertise. They may be stuck in low-vibe online groups, not setting boundaries, making excuses, or feeling sorry for themselves rather than taking responsibility for change.
“When you're serious about success on this journey, you can be totally disappointed, angry, frustrated, sad, and all of that shit. But sorry for yourself, that is a recipe for disaster.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:54
Being in pain, disappointed, or afraid is completely valid. Feeling sorry for yourself is different - it's disempowered and prevents you from taking action or accepting help. You can be totally disappointed and frustrated while still taking responsibility for your success.
“when you are looking to be better, it starts with truth, telling yourself the fucking truth from a place of love. No self flagellation or beating yourself up. Just tell the fucking truth”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:16
Start with telling yourself the truth from a place of love - no beating yourself up, just honest assessment. Ask where you can be better, write it down (don't just think about it), and take action. Look at areas like keeping your word, making decisions, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility.
“As our number stands now, with a number of pregnancies being reported to me and my team, we have one woman getting pregnant in my coaching practice every four point zero eight days”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:40
As of this episode, one woman gets pregnant in Rosanne's coaching practice every 4.08 days, and those are just the pregnancies that are reported back to her team. Some women never reach out until after their babies are born because they're busy living their lives.
A step-by-step process for taking responsibility and improving your fertility journey outcomes
Tell yourself the truth
Honestly assess where you are from a place of love, without self-flagellation or beating yourself up
Ask where you can be better
Look specifically at areas like keeping your word, making empowered decisions, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility
Write it down
Don't do this assessment in your head - write down where you can be better so it doesn't get filed away with other forgotten promises
Take action
Make concrete changes based on your honest assessment - be the woman who goes the extra mile, puts in the extra hour, takes the leap
Being better means constant improvement from where you are now, not achieving perfection or competing with others
Miracle Mama #46 got her first positive pregnancy test in 8 years exactly 37 days after completing the Fearlessly Fertile daily program by focusing on being better, not perfect.
The enemy is not outside of us - 9.95 times out of 10, we are our own worst enemy on the fertility journey
Every Miracle Mama featured on the podcast had a come to Jesus moment about where they were and made a decision to do something about it, regardless of their accomplishments or degrees.
Success on this journey requires examining where you're keeping your word, making empowered decisions, and taking responsibility instead of blaming others
Rosanne's coaching practice has one woman getting pregnant every 4.08 days because her clients ask themselves where they can be better and take action.
Feeling sorry for yourself is different from being in pain and is self-sabotage that blasphemes your power
Rosanne distinguishes between valid emotions like disappointment and fear versus the disempowered state of self-pity that prevents women from taking solutions offered to them.
Being better starts with telling yourself the truth from a place of love, without self-flagellation
Rosanne applies this principle to herself when hitting roadblocks writing her book, asking where she can be better and then taking action.
Looking to other scared and confused people for answers instead of real expertise creates low-vibe environments that make you feel worse
Rosanne contrasts this with her results where women get pregnant every 4.08 days because they invest in real expertise rather than free advice from message boards.
Every successful woman who has appeared on this podcast had the heart and humility to ask where they could be better
Miracle Mama #46 exemplifies this after following Rosanne for a while, then taking the leap to join the Fearlessly Fertile daily program and getting pregnant after 8 years of trying.
Writing down where you can be better is essential because mental notes get filed away with other forgotten promises to yourself
This systematic approach contributes to the rapid results like Miracle Mama #46's 37-day timeline from program start to positive pregnancy test.
The difference between giving it your all versus not taking chances creates either pride or soul-searing regret at year's end
Rosanne emphasizes that even if the positive result doesn't come by year's end, knowing you gave it your all creates peace and trust that leads to eventual success.
Being better means constant improvement from where you are now, not achieving perfection or competing with others
▶ 4:38The enemy is not outside of us - 9.95 times out of 10, we are our own worst enemy on the fertility journey
▶ 6:02Success on this journey requires examining where you're keeping your word, making empowered decisions, and taking responsibility instead of blaming others
▶ 6:22Feeling sorry for yourself is different from being in pain and is self-sabotage that blasphemes your power
▶ 7:43Being better starts with telling yourself the truth from a place of love, without self-flagellation
▶ 8:16Looking to other scared and confused people for answers instead of real expertise creates low-vibe environments that make you feel worse
▶ 7:03Every successful woman who has appeared on this podcast had the heart and humility to ask where they could be better
▶ 8:36Writing down where you can be better is essential because mental notes get filed away with other forgotten promises to yourself
▶ 11:21The difference between giving it your all versus not taking chances creates either pride or soul-searing regret at year's end
▶ 12:02“Being better means being perfect or better than others”
CONSIDER: Being better means improving constantly in your own lane - better than you were yesterday, a year ago, or even 15 minutes ago
“The challenges on the fertility journey come from external factors”
CONSIDER: 9.95 times out of 10, the enemy is not outside of us - we are our own worst enemy and therefore part of the solution
“Seeking free advice from online groups and message boards is helpful”
CONSIDER: Looking to other scared and confused people for answers creates low-vibe environments - real expertise requires investment
“nine point nine five times out of ten, the enemy is not outside of us. The challenge is not outside of us. It is us.”
“Success on this journey isn't for the faint of heart. It's for fucking mama bears.”
“When you're serious about success on this journey, you can be totally disappointed, angry, frustrated, sad, and all of that shit. But sorry for yourself, that is a recipe for disaster.”
“Be better than you were a year ago. Be better than you were yesterday. Be better than you were fifteen minutes ago, one minute ago.”
“Listen to my mom. Be better every day. Love, Asher.”
“You know when you are lying. You know when you are making excuses. You know exactly where you are falling short.”
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