Lizzie shares how she went from a 2% chance of conceiving at 42 to naturally conceiving her second baby after learning to trust her body and embrace feminine power. Despite having a rare autoimmune condition and her partner's cancer treatment causing sperm fragmentation, she defied medical odds through mindset transformation.
LizzieAge 42· natural· Baby girlBefore
Felt like a murderer of her babies, hated her body, hardened and pushing, crying before clinic visits
Key Shift
Fell back in love with her body, embraced feminine softness, learned to advocate for her needs
After
Calm, confident medical advocate who trusted her body and feminine power
Lizzie shares how she initially thought Rosanne's podcast was a complete scam, listening for a year while trying everything else first. After 18 months of fertility treatments, acupuncture, expensive supplements and testing, she finally invested in mindset work despite being in debt. This decision changed everything.
At 42, Lizzie received a devastating diagnosis - a rare autoimmune condition that causes her body to attack pregnancies like cancer growth. Combined with her partner's sperm fragmentation from cancer treatment, doctors gave her just a 2% chance and pushed donor eggs. But Lizzie learned to advocate for herself instead.
The breakthrough came when Lizzie stopped feeling like a 'murderer' of her babies and began trusting her feminine power. She shifted from trying to conceive like a man through force and control to embracing softness and receptivity. Within one month of this transformation, she conceived naturally.
Lizzie's success extended far beyond pregnancy - she experienced a calm, joyful birth, has a peaceful baby who rarely cries, improved her relationship, got a pay raise, and transformed her entire family dynamic. The mindset tools became life skills that elevated every area of her experience.
“You cannot physiologically separate your mind from your body. So if you're living your fertility journey in fear, doubt, negativity, all kinds of that garbage, and you think that there isn't an impact on your physical health, you got another thing coming, sister.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:14
Yes, it's possible to conceive naturally at 42 even with autoimmune conditions. Lizzie had a rare autoimmune condition that attacked pregnancies like cancer, plus her partner had sperm fragmentation from cancer treatment, yet she conceived naturally within one month of addressing her mindset.
“I mean, you never let anyone tell you there is a two percent chance because all you're gonna focus on is that there is a chance.”
— Lizzie▶ 39:57
While clinics often quote very low percentages like 2%, individual success depends on addressing all factors including mindset. Lizzie was given a 2% chance at 42 but conceived naturally within one month after doing mindset work, proving statistics don't determine individual outcomes.
“When you get your mind right, you're literally you know, it's it's like crushing space and time. You compress space and time because you are the common denominator.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 24:12
Results can happen quickly when mindset shifts occur. Lizzie conceived naturally within one month of completing an 8-week mindset program, after struggling for 18 months. The key is becoming the woman who thinks and believes like someone who succeeds.
“You cannot physiologically separate your mind from your body. So if you're living your fertility journey in fear, doubt, negativity, all kinds of that garbage, and you think that there isn't an impact on your physical health, you got another thing coming, sister.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:14
Yes, mindset directly impacts fertility because you cannot separate mind from body physiologically. When you're in fear, stress and negativity, it affects your physical health. Shifting to trust, softness and feminine power creates the optimal state for conception.
“I walked into that clinic, and I sat down with my fertility doctor, and I said, I want this, I want this, I want this, and I don't want that. And I walked out, and in a month, doing that routine, we were pregnant.”
— Lizzie▶ 15:20
Don't automatically accept that recommendation. Learn to advocate for yourself and trust your body's wisdom. Lizzie was told she needed donor eggs at 42 but instead requested specific medication for her condition and conceived naturally with her own eggs.
“You gave me the trust back in my body. It wasn't that I didn't know myself... I had lost trust in my body. I was supposed to be feeling feminine and, you know, voluptuous and sexy and, you know, fertile. And I was feeling empty and dry and barren.”
— Lizzie▶ 17:54
Shift from self-hatred to self-love and trust. Stop trying to conceive like a man through force and control. Instead, embrace feminine softness and receptivity. Fall back in love with your body rather than fighting against it.
You cannot physiologically separate your mind from your body - if you're living your fertility journey in fear, doubt, and negativity, it impacts your physical health
Lizzie spent 18 months in fear and self-hatred after her autoimmune diagnosis, calling herself a 'murderer' of her babies. Once she shifted to trusting her body and embracing softness, she conceived naturally at 42 within one month.
When you get your mind right, you crush space and time - you compress timelines because you are the common denominator
Lizzie spent 18 months in misery trying everything except mindset work. After 8 weeks of mindset training, she conceived naturally within one month and carried to term despite 2% odds and her partner's stage 4 cancer treatment.
The real answer isn't in doing more - it's about falling in love with your body and trusting the universe, getting beneath trust to that innate sense of knowing
Lizzie had tried everything physically - fertility yoga, acupuncture twice weekly, expensive supplements, womb massage costing thousands. Only when she stopped doing more and started trusting her feminine knowing did she conceive naturally.
You can't conceive like a man - babies don't exist on that driven plane when you're pushing hard. You have to be zen-like, soft, not hardened
Lizzie noticed how a fellow group member appeared softer before conceiving. Lizzie had been pushing hard all her life and succeeding, but fertility required feminine softness. Once she embraced this, she conceived naturally at 42.
It's not about what you can afford, it's about what you prioritize - money is like energy, it flows in and flows out
Lizzie had maxed out debt spending on fertility treatments but took out two more credit cards for mindset coaching. She calls it the best money she ever spent, conceiving naturally within one month and avoiding expensive IVF.
Nothing is more expensive than regret - when you don't fall into low vibe stories about money, you end up in a completely different position
Lizzie invested in mindset work despite being in debt and now has her miracle baby Annabelle at 6 months old. She avoided years of expensive IVF treatments by addressing her mindset first and conceiving naturally.
When you become the master of your own body, you can walk into a clinic and advocate for exactly what you need instead of being bullied into treatments
Lizzie went from crying in her car before clinic visits to calmly telling her doctor exactly what treatment she wanted. The doctor noticed the difference and agreed without pushback, leading to natural conception within one month.
Babies aren't made in hard hair shirts and whipping yourself - they're made in love. If you're hating your body, there's so much negativity that your body just won't conceive
Lizzie felt like a 'murderer' after learning her autoimmune condition killed her chromosomally normal baby girl. Once she fell back in love with her body and partner, she conceived naturally despite 2% odds and her partner's cancer treatment.
You cannot physiologically separate your mind from your body - if you're living your fertility journey in fear, doubt, and negativity, it impacts your physical health
▶ 2:24When you get your mind right, you crush space and time - you compress timelines because you are the common denominator
▶ 24:12The real answer isn't in doing more - it's about falling in love with your body and trusting the universe, getting beneath trust to that innate sense of knowing
▶ 19:49You can't conceive like a man - babies don't exist on that driven plane when you're pushing hard. You have to be zen-like, soft, not hardened
▶ 20:00It's not about what you can afford, it's about what you prioritize - money is like energy, it flows in and flows out
▶ 11:12Nothing is more expensive than regret - when you don't fall into low vibe stories about money, you end up in a completely different position
▶ 13:16When you become the master of your own body, you can walk into a clinic and advocate for exactly what you need instead of being bullied into treatments
▶ 15:31Babies aren't made in hard hair shirts and whipping yourself - they're made in love. If you're hating your body, there's so much negativity that your body just won't conceive
▶ 37:40“At 42 with a 2% chance and autoimmune issues, you need donor eggs and IVF”
CONSIDER: When you trust your body and feminine power, you can advocate for the treatment you need and conceive naturally
“You need to try harder and do more fertility treatments to succeed”
CONSIDER: Success comes from doing less and trusting your feminine knowing rather than pushing harder
“Mindset work is a scam and doesn't create real physical results”
CONSIDER: Mindset work creates the foundation for all other treatments to work because you cannot separate mind from body
“I mean, you never let anyone tell you there is a two percent chance because all you're gonna focus on is that there is a chance.”
“Nothing is more expensive than regret.”
“It's not about what you can afford, it's about what you prioritize.”
“Babies aren't made in hard hair shirts and whipping yourself and suffering. They're made in love.”
“When you get your mind right, you're literally crushing space and time. You compress space and time because you are the common denominator.”
“You cannot physiologically separate your mind from your body.”
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Frameworks & Methods
The fertility journey can be a catalyst for complete life transformation if you allow it to wake you up to an entirely different way of living
Lavinia spent 10 years on her fertility journey from age 33-43, transforming from someone living in victim mentality to an empowered woman who now coaches other women through fertility struggles.
You can meditate all day, but if you don't change the underlying belief system that's causing you to be stuck in worst-case scenario thinking, meditation alone won't create the transformation you need
Lavinia tried meditation and felt better physically but still had racing thoughts about 'what if I transfer and it doesn't work' until she addressed her limiting beliefs through mindset work.
Almost everything fertility-related is fixable with the right plan and approach, regardless of what your diagnosis says
Marc Sklar has seen couples overcome seemingly impossible diagnoses in his 21 years of practice by addressing root causes rather than accepting initial verdicts.
Lab results are just a snapshot in time and don't determine your fertility potential permanently
Marc Sklar explains that hormonal labs drawn on the wrong cycle day (like day 18 instead of day 3) have limited value, and that fluctuations are normal throughout a cycle.
