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Lizzie

2 years journey from UK · Fearlessly Fertile Method

Conceived at 42natural

The Transformation

Before

Blaming herself for miscarriage, doubting her body, feeling blocked and starting to lose hope despite always being someone who found solutions

Key Shift

Released guilt and self-blame from miscarriage, learned to advocate with medical professionals, gained clarity on what she needed rather than accepting what doctors thought she needed

After

Confident, clear on her needs, able to have difficult conversations, believing in abundance rather than scarcity

In summary: Lizzie's story demonstrates that natural conception at 42 with male partner 56 post-cancer, conceived after being told sperm was 'shot to hell', and overcame miscarriage trauma through mindset work. She conceived naturally at 42 despite Recurrent Miscarriage and Advanced Maternal Age after a 2 years journey.

Breakthroughs6

  • Cancer can be a wake-up call that opens your eyes to what's truly important and stops you from living someone else's life

    Adam, diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer at 55, says getting cancer was 'the best thing that never happened to me' because it made him stop sleepwalking through life and question why he was living by other people's expectations.

    12:12
  • Your mind is everything in healing — diet and treatments are just marginal gains if your mind isn't in the right place

    Adam was told by a Macmillan cancer counselor that stage 1 patients can die in weeks while stage 4 patients can live forever, and it's all in your mind. He realized he had to deal with past sexual abuse trauma to truly want to live.

    16:16
  • Medical professionals have opinions, not gospel truth — you can tell them what you need from them

    Lizzie insisted on getting Adam the best surgeon in the country for his cancer surgery, turning what would have been a 4.5-hour operation into a 9.5-hour operation that saved his life. Later, they were told his sperm was 'shot to hell' and Lizzie got pregnant the next day.

    30:44
  • There's life before mindset work and life after — it creates a completely new language for your relationship

    Adam says 'there was us before Roseanne and us after Roseanne' — Lizzie's sessions gave them new language to have conversations they never could have had before, including dealing with why they broke up eight years earlier.

    21:00
  • Guilt and self-blame after miscarriage can block you from conceiving again

    After their miscarriage of a chromosomally perfect baby, Lizzie blamed herself saying 'I killed a perfectly healthy child' and couldn't get pregnant again until she worked through the guilt and self-doubt with mindset coaching.

    8:13
  • Happy, relaxed people get pregnant — the universe is an abundant place if you ask for what you want

    Adam and Lizzie conceived naturally at ages 56 and 42 respectively, after cancer treatment and miscarriage, when they shifted from scarcity thinking to abundance mindset through their mindset work.

    23:37

Teachings2

  • Working on yourself is the most generous thing you can do for everybody around you

    Adam witnessed how Lizzie's mindset work with Rosanne transformed not just her fertility journey but their entire relationship, giving them new language for difficult conversations and making their partnership 'the best it's ever been.'

    24:50
  • You are responsible for your own journey, happiness, and the life you want to live — it's nobody else's fault

    Adam, who survived stage 4 cancer and conceived naturally at 56 after being told his fertility was destroyed, emphasizes that you have complete agency to change your life regardless of what medical professionals or others say.

    29:30

Quotable Moments6

  • Best thing never happened to me was getting cancer, and it opened my eyes to how I've been sleepwalking through my life.

    Adam12:12
  • Working on yourself is the most generous thing you can do for everybody around you.

    Adam24:50
  • There was us before Roseanne, and there's us after Roseanne.

    Adam21:00
  • Happy, relaxed people get pregnant. We do not wanna deal in lack of scarcity. The universe is an abundant place.

    Adam23:37
  • I got a sperm test come back, said, your sperm shot to hell. You're never gonna have a baby. And then she was pregnant, like, a day after that or something.

    Adam27:58
  • You are responsible for your own journey. You are responsible for your own happiness. You are responsible for the life you want to live.

    Adam29:30

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