Fertility Mindset: Peace Over Principle
Rosanne Austin teaches fertility mindset principle #12: choosing peace over principle strategically on the fertility journey. She explains when to prioritize inner peace versus fighting battles, providing practical exercises to identify personal peace sources and core principles.
Teachings 6
Peace over principle means strategically choosing your battles rather than fighting every fertility-related conflict
Austin explains this applies to situations like doctors telling you statistics, nurses making snide comments, or family not understanding - you pick your spots rather than fighting everything
Making peace your priority is a power move and boss move for fertility success
Austin states that miracle mamas in her programs show peace over principle at pivot points where their journeys become smoother with less relationship conflict and internal conflict
You can create lists of 25 things that bring peace and 5 core principles worth fighting for
Austin provides specific homework: list peace sources, identify negative associations with peaceful activities, and narrow principles to 5 manageable ones for better decision-making
Every miracle mama shows peace over principle at a pivot point in her fertility journey
Austin references her client success stories, stating that women in her programs consistently demonstrate this principle at turning points where their journeys become clearer and smoother
When you're in overwhelm, it's hard to feel peace, so managing overwhelm is crucial
Austin explains that limiting core principles to 5 helps get out of overwhelm, which blocks peace and better decision-making
Your mindset is your best insurance for fertility success - the six inches between your ears is prime real estate
Austin emphasizes that what you think and believe is playing out on your fertility journey today, and if you don't like results, it's time to think differently
Quotable Moments 4
“If you don't quit on yourself, you will get to the end of your journey with a baby on your hip and a smile on your face.”
— Rosanne Austin“Your mindset is your best insurance for success as you live this journey. This six inches here, what's going on here? These are the most important six inches in creating your success.”
— Rosanne Austin“Every single one of the miracle mamas shows peace over principle at one point on her journey, and it tends to be a pivot point.”
— Rosanne Austin“Making peace your priority is like a real boss move for us on this journey.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
How do you know when to choose peace over principle on fertility journey
“What do I really desire right now? Do I desire peace, or am I ready to take up arms in this battle? Over principle. What's important to me right now? My peace or this principle?”
— Rosanne Austin
Ask yourself 'What do I really desire right now? Do I desire peace, or am I ready to take up arms in this battle?' Based on your personal situation, you can strategically choose which battles are worth fighting versus when to prioritize your inner peace.
What practical steps help implement peace over principle
“Make a list of twenty five things that bring you peace. Your principles, you want those to be more precise and concise. Five. My guess is you have more than five. But for the sake of our purposes here, make this simple.”
— Rosanne Austin
Make a list of 25 things that bring you peace and note any negative associations. Create a list of 5 core principles you're willing to fight for. This gives you tools to choose peace when needed while staying clear on battles worth fighting.
Does choosing peace over principle mean settling on fertility journey
“I don't think you have to settle on any of your principles, really. It is simply a matter of priority. What are the principles that you wanna prioritize?”
— Rosanne Austin
No, it's about priority and strategy, not settling. You can have all your principles - it's simply choosing which ones to prioritize in different situations. This helps you pick your battles wisely rather than fighting everything.
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Key Points 6
Peace over principle means strategically choosing your battles rather than fighting every fertility-related conflict
Making peace your priority is a power move and boss move for fertility success
You can create lists of 25 things that bring peace and 5 core principles worth fighting for
Every miracle mama shows peace over principle at a pivot point in her fertility journey
When you're in overwhelm, it's hard to feel peace, so managing overwhelm is crucial
Your mindset is your best insurance for fertility success - the six inches between your ears is prime real estate
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