Common belief
“Empowered surrender means giving up”
Discussed in 13 episodes. 1 women share a different experience.
This reflects mindset coaching perspectives from Rosanne Austin, JD, PCC. Always consult your medical team for clinical guidance.
Women Who Had a Different Experience
Teachings
Breakthroughs 1
Taking a break from treatment can be exactly what you need to reset your mindset
Anne took a year break after failed IVF, during which she discovered Rosanne's work and transformed her mindset. When she returned to treatment with the right headspace, she conceived and reached 21 weeks pregnant.
Teachings 9
Belief on this journey is not passive—there's no room for doubt and you can't stay the same
Rosanne transformed from a woman with treatment failures to naturally conceiving at 43 by actively pushing back doubt and refusing to remain the same person.
Surrendering doesn't mean giving up desire - you can want something deeply while releasing attachment to the outcome
Kerry conceived naturally within 6 weeks of walking away from IVF treatments in Germany, then had her second child 9 months postpartum from one encounter
Trust, faith, and surrender are interconnected - you cannot truly surrender without trust and faith
Women in Rosanne's programs learn that surrender requires trust, which enables them to make decisions from faith rather than fear throughout their fertility journey.
You can decide to be successful and still be surrendered to the outcome - surrender doesn't mean being wishy-washy about your commitment
Rosanne teaches the distinction: 'I don't know how. I don't know when this baby's coming, but I know this baby is coming. There's nothing unsurrendered about that.'
Acceptance is conscious awareness of whole truth without hanging stories on facts - you see things as they are in the present without believing they'll never change
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by applying mindset principles including acceptance of her current situation while maintaining belief in future possibilities.
Women need to practice making ten seconds of eye contact as a superpower because this is feminine receptive energy that signals availability
Dr. Northrup learned this through Argentine tango where the Mirada (eye contact) and Cabeceo (nod) system is used for dance invitations, and she notes that ten seconds will feel like an eternity for most women to practice.
If you are not consciously rejecting something, you are subconsciously accepting it
This principle from Rosanne's mentor forms the foundation of why women must actively block negative fertility statistics and comments rather than passively listening, as subconscious acceptance undermines belief in success.
When you want to give up, that is the time to double down because that's when you get the breakthrough
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure by applying this principle of doubling down when everything seemed hopeless.
Giving up is easy and doesn't require you to get out of your comfort zone, change your perspective, and grow - it's basically relaxing into the embrace of your saboteurs
Rosanne's global work with women across six continents shows that those who give up stay stuck in the same patterns, while those who push through challenges achieve breakthroughs.
Perspectives 1
Acceptance is not waving the white flag - it's an awareness of facts without the drama your ego creates, allowing you to decide what to do about situations
As a former California sexual assault prosecutor turned fertility coach, Rosanne has helped women around the globe beat the odds by distinguishing between surrender and strategic awareness.
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