In part three of her Baby-Making Breakthrough series, Rosanne reveals how new behaviors create the breakthrough - going beyond affirmations to take aligned action. She shares the specific actions she took that led to natural conception at 43, from buying her dream SUV to hiring world-class coaches.
Rosanne challenges the common belief that mantras alone create change, explaining how she had 'cool affirmations' during years of treatment failure. True transformation requires feeling your beliefs deeply enough to take corresponding action.
Concrete examples of how Rosanne aligned her actions with her desires - buying her dream SUV, investing in world-class coaches, eliminating negative influences, and adopting 'first class' standards that represented her internal shift.
Rosanne addresses money fears and scarcity thinking, explaining how smart people look at value rather than price. She reveals that committed people pay for their dreams while others make excuses about time, money and other people's opinions.
With 67 women conceiving in 2022 alone using these principles, Rosanne emphasizes that success isn't luck but the result of aligned mindset and behavior. She introduces her upcoming Fearlessly Fertile Full Throttle program for systematic transformation.
“You can say as many fucking mantras as you want. But if you don't actually feel those things to the degree that you will take different action, fuck your mantras.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:30
Affirmations alone don't work because they're just words without corresponding feelings and behaviors. You need to actually feel and believe your mantras deeply enough to take different actions that align with your desires.
“Your behavior would have to align with the expectation that my boy was coming and that I would say yes to anything that was going to propel me forward.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:11
Change your behaviors to match your desired outcome. Act like the woman who's going to have her baby - make investments in yourself, eliminate energy drains, demand first-class treatment, and align your spending with your values rather than fear.
“Until you think and feel different, you won't do different. If you aren't doing different, you can't get a different result.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 13:20
Successful fertility behaviors include investing in personal growth, eliminating people who don't match your vision, making decisions based on value not fear, planning for your future family, and consistently choosing abundance over scarcity.
“The vast majority of them did it within twelve months of doing this work.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 16:58
Most women see results within 12 months of doing the mindset work consistently. The key is making the internal shifts and behavioral changes that align with success, not just hoping for change.
“Time, money, other people. Top three excuses that people will use to damn themselves to a misery and regret laden life.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 15:04
The top three excuses that keep people from living their dreams are time, money, and other people's opinions. These excuses prevent you from taking the actions necessary for breakthrough.
“If your coach isn't investing at least ten times what they charge you in their own coaching, you better start asking some questions.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:36
A quality coach should be investing at least ten times what they charge you in their own coaching and development. This shows they believe in their own work and continue growing.
Transform your fertility journey by making your actions match your desires for motherhood
Audit your current behaviors
Look at your calendar and bank statement to see what you're actually prioritizing versus what you say you want
Make physical changes that represent your future
Buy items for your future family like Rosanne did with her SUV - act as if your baby is coming
Invest in your growth
Hire coaches and attend trainings that align with becoming the woman who beats the odds
Eliminate energy drains
Remove people and situations from your life that don't match where you're headed
Adopt first-class standards
Demand the best for yourself in how you show up and what you accept
Make value-based decisions
Choose based on what moves you forward, not fear or scarcity thinking
Affirmations and mantras are useless without corresponding behaviors that match your desires
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 within 12 months of making behavioral changes that aligned with believing her baby was coming, after 6 years of fertility treatment failures.
Your behavior must align with your expectation that your baby is coming - think and act like the woman who beats the odds
Rosanne bought her dream SUV because she decided she was going to fill it with her family, and conceived Asher within 12 months of making this identity shift.
People who claim to believe in abundance but penny pinch and tip poorly are reinforcing beliefs in lack through their behavior
Rosanne stopped making fear-based and price-alone decisions, choosing value over discounts, which aligned with her abundance mindset and led to conception within a year.
Your calendar and bank statement reveal the truth about what you value - talk is cheap
Rosanne invested in two world-class coaches and multiple trainings during her breakthrough year, putting her money where her mouth was about her commitment to motherhood.
If your coach isn't investing at least ten times what they charge you in their own coaching, question if they believe in their own work
Rosanne continues to hire the best coaches in the world because she practices what she teaches about investment in growth and achieving extraordinary results.
Eliminate people and things from your life that are not a vibrational match for where you're headed
Rosanne and her husband consciously stopped hanging around people who didn't match their direction during their breakthrough year, not from anger but for their own growth.
Show up first class or nothing - demand the highest standards for yourself in how you serve and what you accept
Rosanne adopted a 'first class or nothing' standard in her work and travel during her breakthrough year, representing an internal shift in how she valued herself.
Until you think and feel different, you won't do different - and if you aren't doing different, you can't get a different result
This principle guided Rosanne's transformation from 6 years of treatment failure to natural conception at 43 within 12 months of changing her thoughts, feelings and behaviors.
The top three excuses people use to avoid living their dreams are time, money, and other people
Rosanne overcame all three excuses during her breakthrough year - investing time in growth, money in coaches, and ignoring others' opinions - leading to conception within 12 months.
67 women this year alone got pregnant supported by this work - none of them got lucky, they made their own luck
As of this 2022 recording, 67 known women conceived using Rosanne's methods, with the vast majority achieving pregnancy within 12 months of doing the mindset work.
Affirmations and mantras are useless without corresponding behaviors that match your desires
▶ 2:34Your behavior must align with your expectation that your baby is coming - think and act like the woman who beats the odds
▶ 7:11People who claim to believe in abundance but penny pinch and tip poorly are reinforcing beliefs in lack through their behavior
▶ 7:22Your calendar and bank statement reveal the truth about what you value - talk is cheap
▶ 8:34If your coach isn't investing at least ten times what they charge you in their own coaching, question if they believe in their own work
▶ 9:36Eliminate people and things from your life that are not a vibrational match for where you're headed
▶ 10:58Show up first class or nothing - demand the highest standards for yourself in how you serve and what you accept
▶ 11:28Until you think and feel different, you won't do different - and if you aren't doing different, you can't get a different result
▶ 13:20The top three excuses people use to avoid living their dreams are time, money, and other people
▶ 15:0367 women this year alone got pregnant supported by this work - none of them got lucky, they made their own luck
▶ 16:16“Positive affirmations and mantras alone will change your fertility outcomes”
CONSIDER: Affirmations are useless unless you feel them deeply enough to take aligned action
“Being financially conservative and cautious is wise during fertility struggles”
CONSIDER: Smart people look at value, not price, and committed people pay the price for their dreams
“You should be modest about your dreams and not take up too much space”
CONSIDER: You must shine bright and demand first-class treatment because that's how your baby will find you
“You can say as many fucking mantras as you want. But if you don't actually feel those things to the degree that you will take different action, fuck your mantras.”
“Until you think and feel different, you won't do different. If you aren't doing different, you can't get a different result.”
“Talk is fucking cheap. It's the new behaviors that we're gonna be talking about that are super telling, and that is what is gonna make all the difference in the world.”
“Time, money, other people. Top three excuses that people will use to damn themselves to a misery and regret laden life.”
“If you continue to act as if you are a dried up old bitch who missed the bus to MommaTown, how are you ever going to fucking get there?”
“None of these women got lucky. It is insane disrespect to them to just call them lucky. They made their own luck, and it started with them.”
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Conditions
Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Lack and scarcity thinking is fundamentally about worthiness—whether you believe you deserve the time, money, resources, and love you desire
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure once she decided she was worth fighting for, despite initially justifying expensive shoes and Paris trips while beating herself up for 'draining resources' on fertility treatments.
The proof of what you believe you're worth is in your actions, not your words—there are tests of worthiness by the minute in how you respond to judgment and boundaries
Rosanne explains how tolerating idiotic conversations with judgmental relatives due to fear of not being loved is actually lack and scarcity thinking about love itself.
If trying harder were the answer to fertility success, women would already be pregnant - the issue isn't lack of effort but the wrong approach
Women featured on the Fearlessly Fertile podcast who succeeded were told they had less than 1% chances and couldn't get pregnant with their own eggs, yet conceived by shifting away from force-based approaches.
Soft power is about alignment, emotional regulation, clarity, vision, receptivity and influence - not about being passive or giving up
Every woman who appeared on the Fearlessly Fertile podcast exercised soft power by ending the pushing and desperation of force and stepping into influence, clarity, certainty, and faith.
