Abundance Mindset

Being a mom in your 40s after a long fertility journey means you appreciate every moment differently because you know how precious and fleeting it all is

Lavinia had her daughter at 43 after 10 years of trying and says she enjoys contact sleeping and night wakings that other moms complain about because she knows these phases pass quickly.

Happy, relaxed people get pregnant — the universe is an abundant place if you ask for what you want

Adam and Lizzie conceived naturally at ages 56 and 42 respectively, after cancer treatment and miscarriage, when they shifted from scarcity thinking to abundance mindset through their mindset work.

When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through

Joycelinne's husband's insurance covered up to $25,000 in IVF for the first year ever, and when she needed $4,000 for genetic testing, her aunt unexpectedly gifted her $2,500.

Taking time off to live your life—including drinking wine in Italy—can be exactly what your fertility journey needs.

Mette took three months off after multiple IVF failures to travel to Italy with her husband, drinking and eating freely without thinking about babies, before returning to conceive naturally.

You must be in the vibration of what you desire to receive it - act as if it's already here

Maria moved her bed to make room for the bassinet before conceiving, practiced being a wife before marriage, and made space for baby items before they arrived - all manifestations showed up including a Moses basket from a high school friend she hadn't spoken to in 14 years.

Gratitude for what you have creates the emotional state that allows your baby to come

Alina shifted from constantly complaining and focusing on what was missing to being grateful for her life in nature outside London, her career, her relationship. This gratitude practice was key to her natural conception at 40 after years of struggle.

When you see all the good things you already have, you stop focusing on what you lack and your baby comes when they're ready

Dr. Mariève's main goal was becoming more grateful. Even after her miscarriage, she was happier than she'd been in two years because she could see her great life again, then conceived shortly after.

Gratitude for what you already have creates abundance consciousness that attracts your baby

Jessica practiced daily gratitude for everything from waking up to sale items, shifting from tunnel vision on what was missing to seeing abundance everywhere. This practice was key to her successful IVF pregnancy.

Money and scarcity mindset can be the biggest obstacle to fertility success, even more than medical conditions

Tracy delayed IVF for years due to scarcity beliefs rooted in childhood, asking 'why pay for something my body should do naturally?' This mindset kept her stuck until she learned to pivot and invest in her dream.

Acting as if your baby's arrival is inevitable rather than questionable shifts you into empowered surrender and accelerates conception

Kate began strutting down Target's baby aisle with confidence, writing 'with God all things are possible' on signs, and thanking God for her baby before conception - she got pregnant within weeks of this shift.

The collective awakening happening globally is that this journey doesn't have to be fear, lack, scarcity and burnout

Rosanne observes women all over the world rejecting the old narrative of fertility struggle. Her podcast reaches women across six continents who are embracing new rules of fertility based on empowerment rather than limitation.

Instead of counting women out who want babies over 35, society should celebrate them as they're driving birth rates up

Women over 40 are going to be driving the birth rate up, which should be celebrated rather than condemned with antiquated labels like geriatric and advanced maternal age.

When you believe in abundance and put out that frequency, you call more miracles in - energy and frequency are no longer debatable

Rachel manifested her house after visualizing herself drinking coffee and looking at mountains, beating 12 other bidders in a competitive market, while both women have experienced real estate miracles through energetic alignment

High-achieving women have a setup in their lives for having it all and should not feel ashamed for wanting both career success and motherhood

Unlike average people, successful women are willing to do the work, put in the time, get education and coaching to become extraordinary, making the fertility journey a dial up of their life rather than a dial back.

Taking a stand for what you really want, not what you could settle for, changes everything

Instead of going to New York after Christmas when hotels were cheaper, Francois insisted they go during Christmas despite the high cost, and they conceived their baby on Friday the 13th of December during that trip.

You need balance - you need to do what's medically necessary, but you also need to eat ice cream sometimes and go out with friends

Francois observed that Super Cat conceived naturally after they shifted from obsessive problem-solving to including fun and relaxation, eating New York bagels with gluten and cream cheese during their Christmas vacation where they conceived.

When you change your mindset, you change your beliefs, actions, and results

Melissa changed jobs to less stressful work, hired a nutritionist, invested in coaching, went to bed early, and made decisions from abundance rather than scarcity. These actions led to natural conception at 39 after years of IVF failure.

The excuse 'I can't afford it' is really saying 'I'm not worth it' and will guarantee fertility failure

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by breaking through scarcity mindset and investing in what mattered most to her dream of motherhood.

Lack and scarcity is one of the most throat-stomping belief systems that will crush and torpedo your fertility dreams like nothing else

After 12+ years coaching women across six continents, Rosanne has observed that women trapped in scarcity thinking consistently give up on their dreams instead of becoming outliers who figure it out.

The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you, so make choices from abundance rather than scarcity

This core philosophy has guided Rosanne's work with over 300 women across six continents, helping them achieve pregnancy by aligning with their deepest desires rather than external limitations.

Your baby doesn't live in lack and scarcity - babies are all about possibility, just like little kids who aren't about lack and scarcity

If you're stuck in 'get' mentality, you'll never be in glorious perception and beautiful reception because you'll always be operating from lack and scarcity instead of possibility.

To attract what you want, you must be in vibrational harmony with it - you can't attract a high-vibrational baby while obsessing over fear, doubt, and negativity

Rosanne explains quantum physics principles and references how every miracle mama on the podcast faced challenges like age, repeated failures, and shady fertility histories but shifted their mental focus to succeed.

There's a difference between a beautiful obsession with having your baby versus obsessing over your fears - the woman with the beautiful obsession manifests what she wants

Rosanne contrasts obsessing over age, money spent, and partner concerns versus filling your mind with the smell of your baby's head and saying 'Yes, I Can' - noting that miracle mamas overcome less than 1% chances through this mindset.

Rules about what's 'too much' often come from other people's judgments and keep women accepting less than they deserve

Women question wanting career, love, professional achievements, babies, wealth and travel simultaneously because someone else's rules say that's too much, when those rules are based on scarcity mindset.

Conceiving is all about receiving, and women with poverty mindset tend to be the worst receivers

This connects to the previous episode on poverty vs abundance mindset - if you don't believe you deserve good care or investment in your dreams, you limit your ability to conceive.

There are only two types of people when it comes to abundance: poverty-minded and wealth-conscious, with no middle ground

Based on observing women from all over the world over 11+ years, Rosanne confirms this binary exists across all financial backgrounds - you can have tons of money and still operate from poverty mindset.

Abundance mindset is characterized by peace, confidence that there's more than enough, generosity, being self-driven and open to solutions

People with abundance mindset focus on what they stand to gain, trust themselves to figure things out no matter how bad it gets, and understand that money comes and goes - creating completely different daily experience.

Your baby exists at a high frequency of love, possibility, and expansiveness - you want to lead your journey from love rather than competition and scarcity

Rosanne's methodology focuses on mind-body alignment and has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true through high-frequency energy work

Acts of faith in other life areas create momentum for fertility breakthroughs

Elise invested in new floors and wrote a book while pregnant at 45, demonstrating how expanding vision beyond fertility and taking leaps of faith in other areas amplifies receiving capacity overall.

We've been conditioned to live in a matrix of lack, scarcity, and limitation, trained from early age to live by somebody else's rules

The fertility journey requires breaking free from this conditioning, as demonstrated by women who succeed despite being told they're too old, have poor odds, or should give up after multiple failures

You can turn this around on a dime - all the lies about not having enough resources or judgment are simply faith in the opposite direction

Rosanne's 12+ years of coaching show women can shift from despair to success quickly when they redirect their focus. The recent podcast recordings prove this rapid transformation is possible.

Your baby is at a high vibration, so you must operate at a high frequency to match that energy and receive your upgrade

One beloved miracle mama had her eye on a Porsche, test drove one as homework, and was pregnant within a year after years of trying - the upgrade in how she saw herself matched the baby's frequency.

Everything you're doing on this journey is an investment in your future - you're showing God, universe, source that you're ready for this baby and the upgrade

Women from all disciplines - physicians, teachers, lawyers, engineers, businesswomen, scientists - consistently see breakthrough when they invest in themselves at this level and stop giving everything to everyone else.

Don't stop your life while you're on this fertility journey - you can live and be on this journey and have joy

Caroline was told to plan her wedding during her fertility journey, which brought joy back into her life. She conceived naturally in November, just two months after getting married in September.

Treating having a baby like a budget line item instead of recognizing it as a top life event and heart-based calling will limit your success on the fertility journey

Rosanne explains that having a baby is right up there with top life events, but people treat it as just a budget line item, comparing spending $60,000 on fertility treatments to buying a car when they're completely different investments

Focusing only on needs versus wants keeps you in survival mode instead of creation mode, blocking fertility success since conception requires creative energy and desire

Rosanne teaches that the only true needs are food, water, and shelter - everything beyond that is desire, and anyone who has created anything worthwhile did so based on desire, not just meeting basic needs

There is nothing more expensive than regret - if saving money is important, save it in other places, but don't cut corners on your fertility journey

Rosanne points out that people torture themselves about not starting their family earlier, and warns that cutting corners on fertility due to money concerns will lead to even worse self-torture over something that's easier to fix than time

When you're living abundantly, abundance flows in all areas of life

When Tanya shifted to living fully—training for marathons, traveling, renovating—four different job opportunities appeared at work while she was conceiving naturally.

Gratitude for what you have shifts your energy from lack to abundance

After witnessing multiple heart attacks and near-death experiences, Tanya shifted from focusing on not having a baby to appreciating her wonderful life, husband, and opportunities.

When you commit to getting pregnant within twelve months from a loving, positive perspective, the universe lines up to help you

Rosanne works exclusively with women committed to getting and staying pregnant in the next twelve months, contrasting this positive deadline with fear-based age deadlines that create scarcity.

The wait and see mindset keeps your life on hold during fertility treatment, but two things can be true simultaneously—you can be on this journey AND live fully

Women hold back from investments, conversations, and decisions thinking things must happen in order, but most of these sequential requirements are completely made up.

You have the power to manifest and visualize your dreams into reality

Yasmine, mother to 5-month-old Eva, discovered her manifesting power by buying baby onesies before conception and now carefully monitors her thoughts and goals.

You can maintain joy and live fully while going through fertility treatment instead of putting life on hold

Claire and her partner did more activities in the year of treatment than they'd ever done before, went on holiday during the process, and she grew her business to reach income goals in less than a year.

Lack and scarcity thinking creates the belief that you can't have it all - success AND motherhood

Carolyn discovered through the Fearlessly Fertile Method that she was 'pitting things against one another' - believing she could be happily married OR have a baby, successful in business OR be a great mom, but not both.

Money is the lamest and most provably false excuse people use on the fertility journey because money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by investing in mindset work despite financial concerns. Her program clients across six continents consistently overcome money obstacles to achieve success.

You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today - if you're complaining about money, go make more of it

Rosanne points to people with Down syndrome running craft businesses and elderly working as shop greeters, demonstrating that anyone can find ways to generate income regardless of circumstances.

You never lower your standard of living to meet your income - you raise your income to meet your standard of living

Rosanne credits this wisdom from Bob Proctor, explaining that clipping coupons only reallocates existing money rather than generating new revenue needed for fertility investments.

The sooner you get into a place where it is safe and natural to expect the good you desire, the sooner you position yourself to receive it

This impacts the decisions you make and opportunities you see and seize—when you drop judgment, doubt, and indecision, you stop blocking your good and create an entirely different journey experience.

Lack and scarcity mindset isn't just about money—it's about time, opportunity, and most tragically about love, silencing the truth that there is abundance all around

Somaya overcame her working-class immigrant background's scarcity mindset, eventually buying herself a car as a celebration when she had her second baby, demonstrating abundance thinking.

Being cheap on your fertility journey is shortsighted and dumb — this baby is not a commodity like a house or car

Deals on houses and cars always come around, but fertility timing doesn't. The average couple drops upwards of $60,000 on fertility treatments, making mindset coaching comparatively cheap insurance.

Your 401k lost 30% this year anyway — you could have borrowed that money to work for your fertility journey

Many 401ks are down 30% from the previous year. That money disappeared regardless, but could have been leveraged for fertility treatments with payback to yourself rather than sitting unused in declining accounts.

Don't be a 'freeple' bottom-feeding for free solutions — it only reinforces whatever lack you think you have

Rosanne defines 'freeple' as people looking for free solutions, which reinforces scarcity thinking. Free approaches rarely solve fertility problems for women who've been trying for years.

Scarcity mindset guarantees mediocrity - if you want to stay broke or dried up in your 50s, stay in scarcity

Rosanne and Wendee discuss how scarcity thinking prevents taking the risks necessary for wealth and abundance, while they both demonstrate creating their own economies regardless of external economic conditions

People who claim to believe in abundance but penny pinch and tip poorly are reinforcing beliefs in lack through their behavior

Rosanne stopped making fear-based and price-alone decisions, choosing value over discounts, which aligned with her abundance mindset and led to conception within a year.

What you need always shows up, always in an unexpected way - we live in an abundant universe

Despite Rosanne's childhood programming around lack and scarcity, everything they needed for their fertility journey always appeared, though not always as cash falling from the sky.

Making fertility decisions solely based on money is a recipe for regret

Rosanne teaches that focusing on outcomes rather than price is essential because you can always make more money, but you can't get back time lost to suboptimal choices.

You get to live your life any way you wish while trying to conceive - whether you believe it or not, it's true

Rosanne lived as a prosecutor dreaming of writing books and running a global business, then created that reality while conceiving naturally at 43, proving fertility journeys don't require life to stop.

You can't be afraid and grateful at the same time - gratitude eliminates fear, negativity and doubt

Mel implemented daily gratitude practices and said 'You can't have those two emotions at the same time. I make it a point every day to be as grateful as I can because that eliminates fear and negativity and doubt and shame and all of that.'

Decisions should be made from positive possibility and expansion, not fear, lack and scarcity

Fear-driven decisions focus on what might go wrong, while expansion-based decisions create excitement about what's coming. As Rosanne's husband says, 'scared money never wins.'

Women on fertility journeys often measure every purchase against treatment costs, creating harmful lack and scarcity patterns that sabotage their success

After coaching women to fertility success for coming up on 7 years with incredible results, Rosanne has observed this destructive pattern where women compare everything to treatment investments and starve themselves of joy.

Instead of reacting like a victim when you see pregnant women, be the first person to congratulate them with your whole heart

This is part of Rosanne's 72-hour challenge based on her methodology that has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true

If there's something you want to buy but normally blow off as too expensive, get the thing - you're a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for it

This challenges the pattern of using time and money as excuses, which Rosanne calls the lamest excuses in the world based on her 12+ years of coaching experience

Your light and the way you enjoy your life is the beacon that brings your baby home to you — what we put out into the world is reflected back to us

This follows quantum physics principles — when you go out in a shitty mood, people cut you off and are rude because what you put out, you bring in.

Money and time are the top two excuses people use to sabotage true greatness in their lives

Rosanne identifies from her coaching experience that 'money and time are huge triggers for people' and observes how these limitations cause women to make inferior choices in their fertility care.

Lack and scarcity thinking is fundamentally about worthiness—whether you believe you deserve the time, money, resources, and love you desire

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure once she decided she was worth fighting for, despite initially justifying expensive shoes and Paris trips while beating herself up for 'draining resources' on fertility treatments.

Lack and scarcity is the belief that there's a finite amount of something with the presupposition that there isn't enough for you specifically

This belief system includes victimhood and the idea that there's nothing you can do about it, making you accept misery and be jealous of others who have what you want.

If you actually believe you deserve it, you will find the money - it is that simple

The same measurements we use for a car shouldn't apply to your dream of becoming a mom. When worthiness isn't the issue, resourcefulness follows.

Lack and scarcity stories parade as prudence and sensibility, but they will cost you your dream

People don't question investing $150,000 in a business, but for having a baby we apply a warped sense of value and make ourselves wrong for making investments of that size.

When you make a decision to live in truth, whole truth, everything changes - you become more resourceful, see opportunities, raise your vibration and align with the life you want

Rosanne's clients who embrace whole truth become positioned to succeed, trust themselves and their intuition, exemplified by the seven pregnancies achieved in her community in July 2021.

Don't shrink your vision because of what you already have

Jessica wanted more children after having her son at 40 and refused to settle or feel guilty about wanting to expand her family. She now has a daughter at 44 and plans for a third child.

Ask for what you want or more - gratitude shouldn't make you small

Kate was using gratitude to diminish her desires, feeling greedy for wanting a baby when she had other blessings, until she learned to embrace abundance.

Someone else's success has nothing to do with your fertility journey and allowing it to mean your failure is wildly unproductive

Rosanne teaches women to respond to others' pregnancy announcements with genuine happiness instead of comparison, focusing on their own unique path.

Two truths can exist simultaneously - there can be legitimate tragedy and real gifts in the same time period

Despite 2020's global challenges, Rosanne's team had exceptional success in their work, writing, and projects, proving that abundance and difficulty can coexist.

You are already worthy of your success and birthright - you don't have to work your fingers to the bone or suffer to be worthy of what is coming for you

Women in the Fearlessly Fertile community found a gear they didn't know they had and used new thoughts, beliefs, and patterns to support their success rather than hinder it.

Living luxe on your fertility journey means getting your emotional, spiritual, physical, and intellectual needs met on the path to your baby

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by applying this principle of not starving herself emotionally and spiritually during her journey.

You must give yourself a gift that represents a line of demarcation between the you that lived in lack and scarcity thinking and the highest version of you

This assignment requires getting out of your comfort zone because women who succeed on fertility journeys like those in Rosanne's program learn to invest boldly in themselves rather than live in deprivation.

The more you come alive in your life, the quicker your baby gets here

Rosanne shares this principle from her own experience conceiving naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure, emphasizing how she and her husband lived big and purposefully before Asher arrived.

Living luxe on your fertility journey means having your emotional, physical, spiritual, and intellectual needs met rather than being in starvation mode

Rosanne Austin explains that when women starve themselves of pleasure and support, they can't be the vibrant soul needed to welcome a baby, emphasizing that a life-affirming attitude is necessary when trying to call in a life.

When you make choices from a place of love, love is in alignment with this child you desire, and you may be surprised at how much faster they find you

This principle is demonstrated through Rosanne's own success story - after shifting from fear and statistics to love-based decisions, she conceived naturally at 43 despite years of previous treatment failures.

Thinking highly of yourself is part of having an abundant mindset - you can think you're awesome AND want the same for others without competition

This mindset gets you out of lack and scarcity that fuels jealousy and comparison. Instead of feeling stabbed when seeing pregnant women, you can think 'She's blessed and my blessing is coming too.'

The simple question 'Is this actually true?' can completely transform how you see your circumstances and open up new possibilities.

When Anne Marie questioned whether she was really a 'barren orphan,' she realized she had abundant family through her husband, brother, and close friends - shifting from scarcity to abundance thinking.

Money is never the real obstacle to having a baby - lack and scarcity are mindsets, not actual circumstances.

Anne Marie pulled together money for another IVF cycle in one evening by looking at savings, bank accounts, and even increasing her credit limit when she thought she couldn't afford treatment.

Gratitude practice is a powerful starting point for mindset transformation on the fertility journey

Ali identified gratitude as her starting point for mindset work, which helped her see her fertility journey in a completely different way and conceive within weeks.

Your brain is wired for confirmation bias - if you see this journey through a lens of lack and scarcity, your brain will provide evidence to confirm that perspective

Rosanne explains how this creates a cycle where women believe other pregnancies steal their babies and fuel jealousy, which she overcame to conceive naturally at 43

Fear, what-ifs, and scarcity thinking are massive forms of self-sabotage that torpedo dreams faster than almost anything else

This toxic thinking pattern is based in lies and fucked up thinking that will not set women up for fertility success

What goes down must come up - this is a law of nature that smart women leverage during challenging times to position themselves for success

Smart women are using this time of uncertainty to dig deeper into healing and preparation while others are cowering, giving them a competitive advantage when doors reopen.

If you're telling yourself you're gonna die if you invest x amount of dollars on this journey, do your research and see how ridiculously available that money is and how people do it every day

Women in Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program consistently overcome financial fears to invest in their success, with their results speaking for themselves.

Success on your fertility journey requires knowing exactly what you want from a global perspective, not just tunnel vision on having a baby

Women who succeed on this journey understand they want a baby AND a full life to go along with it - happy homes where both parents are living with purpose, their relationship isn't subordinated to TTC, and they can model empowerment to their children.

The average couple invests a minimum of sixty thousand dollars in IVF to get a positive result, making it crucial to have your mind and body work together to support that investment

Statistical data shows the significant financial investment in fertility treatment, which Rosanne uses to demonstrate why comprehensive mind-body support is essential rather than optional.

When you play with a long game in mind, you cover your bases and aren't penny wise and pound foolish with your investments

Rosanne explains that strategic thinking involves comprehensive support rather than cutting corners on important elements that could determine success.

The more love you let in, the brighter you shine like a beacon waving that baby straight home to you

Cam's success story demonstrates this principle - by following Rosanne's approach of receiving love fully while maintaining her fertility goal, she conceived after three long years on her second IUI.

Surrounding yourself with positive music, media, and content that declares your miracle is essential - if it doesn't leave you feeling encouraged, it's harming your journey

Kate created three uplifting playlists of Christian music declaring her miracle would happen, which helped her feel God's presence and guidance during her fertility journey.

Other people's wins on this journey have nothing to do with you or your prospects - there's no limit on the number of babies that can come into the world

Rosanne points out that if miracle mamas facing 'shitty circumstances' can find their babies, there's absolutely no reason why any other woman can't as well.

Women must shift from lack and scarcity programming to seeing abundance all around them

Rosanne had to overcome lack and scarcity programming from her upbringing as essential preparation for motherhood. This shift enabled her natural conception at 43 and now empowers her to teach Asher without the limiting beliefs she grew up with.

Your new battle cry should be 'I am so grateful for all that I have, AND I want more' - using 'and' instead of 'but' to embrace abundance

Rosanne explains that 'and' is about abundance, belief, and positive pregnancy-making possibility, while 'but' reflects scarcity thinking that limits what you can receive.

There is no limit to the good that is possible in your life - you didn't exhaust all your good when you won a spelling bee at seven years old

Rosanne teaches this abundance principle to counter the scarcity thinking that keeps women trapped in fear, helping her clients across six continents beat the odds on their fertility journeys.

Jealousy on the fertility journey stems from lack and scarcity thinking - the belief that there's only so much good to go around, so if someone else has success, it means less opportunity for you

Rosanne shares her own experience of mentally 'hating on' a pregnant woman at the grocery store during her fertility journey, searching for clues about why this woman was 'better' and 'luckier' than her.

Don't be the woman complaining about how long it's taking or how much it's costing—become the woman for whom those things are no longer relevant

Rosanne shifted from focusing on the inconvenience and cost of her fertility journey to seeing it as investment in her baby, ultimately leading to natural conception at 43.

When you say 'I can't afford it' about having a baby, you're messaging that you're tapped out and actually can't afford to have this baby

After coaching hundreds of women, Rosanne has observed that scarcity language around fertility investments creates energetic blocks to conception and abundance.

Most people think in terms of what they stand to lose versus what they stand to gain, but fertility success requires a gain mentality that looks for opportunities

When trapped in lack and scarcity, you perceive even great opportunities as taking away from you instead of moving you forward toward your baby.

Donor conception creates abundance and community, not limitation - your family grows into relationships you never would have had

Linda started a Facebook group for donor egg families in her city, became a resource for other women through her therapist, and found her family expanded into a supportive community

You can't expect to be successful when all you're doing is merely surviving - staying in survival mode where you tolerate janky drawers is an affirmation of lack and scarcity

Having a baby requires massive expansion on so many levels, and women consistently see breakthrough when they make leaps in becoming better, being better, doing better, having better, giving at a higher level.

You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive

Natalia at 44 already had two daughters but knew her family wasn't complete, overcame shame about wanting more and conceived naturally despite PCOS and hypothyroidism

Women raised middle class were programmed for survival and subsistence, but many now live beyond that reality while their minds remain stuck in 1980s scarcity thinking

Professional women earning great salaries act broke and deny themselves opportunities because their minds haven't updated to match their current circumstances - they're educated captains of industry holding scalpels and shaping minds, not scrounging pennies

Ask yourself if your lack and scarcity thinking is flat out blocking your baby from coming

Rosanne questions whether women are putting energy out to their baby's soul that they're too expensive, creating resentment about dipping into savings, asking 'who wants to step into that shit?'

Living your fertility journey in guilt, shame, scarcity and austerity is complete bullshit and will keep your success out of reach

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after rejecting this mindset, and her clients experience similar transformations when they stop living in misery mode on their journeys.

Living your journey begging for crumbs sends out exhausted energy like a billboard saying 'Don't stop here, we're starving over here'

Rosanne contrasts this with how she and her husband were 'saying massive hell yeses to ourselves and living our journey with so much joy' when Asher came to them.

Moving from 'I already got lucky with one baby, why should I be greedy?' to 'I'm allowed to want more and it's not greedy' removes a major fertility block

Dr. Kate struggled with feeling she shouldn't ask for another baby after having her first son, but reframed this scarcity mindset to embrace abundance and her vision of a big family.

Receiving love should be about 'yes, and' rather than either/or propositions - allowing all forms of love to coexist and nurture us

Rosanne demonstrates this through her own journey, receiving love from her pets during her darkest fertility moments while remaining open to her future child, ultimately conceiving naturally at 43.

You can use other women's joy and success as proof that dreams do come true and to catapult yourself forward

Rather than feeling diminished by pregnancy announcements, Rosanne teaches that miracle mamas' joy should serve as evidence that anything is possible on the fertility journey.

Gratitude should be used as evidence of what's possible, not to keep you small or make you wrong for wanting more

Rosanne teaches that true gratitude says 'I have all this cool shit in my life - this is evidence of the good that is to come' rather than settling for less.

Other people's fertility success has nothing to do with your prospects or chances - their good fortune says nothing about you

Rosanne directly states that other people's good fortune on the fertility journey has nothing to do with you, your prospects, or your chances, countering the scarcity belief that someone else's success diminishes your own.