Abundance & Joy

Happy, relaxed people get pregnant — the universe is an abundant place if you ask for what you want

Adam and Lizzie conceived naturally at ages 56 and 42 respectively, after cancer treatment and miscarriage, when they shifted from scarcity thinking to abundance mindset through their mindset work.

When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through

Joycelinne's husband's insurance covered up to $25,000 in IVF for the first year ever, and when she needed $4,000 for genetic testing, her aunt unexpectedly gifted her $2,500.

Taking time off to live your life—including drinking wine in Italy—can be exactly what your fertility journey needs.

Mette took three months off after multiple IVF failures to travel to Italy with her husband, drinking and eating freely without thinking about babies, before returning to conceive naturally.

Gratitude for what you have creates the emotional state that allows your baby to come

Alina shifted from constantly complaining and focusing on what was missing to being grateful for her life in nature outside London, her career, her relationship. This gratitude practice was key to her natural conception at 40 after years of struggle.

Living your life fully while trying to conceive creates the energy that attracts your baby

Connie conceived during a 3-week European vacation where she drank wine, ate gluten and cheese, and prioritized joy over fertility rules.

When you see all the good things you already have, you stop focusing on what you lack and your baby comes when they're ready

Dr. Mariève's main goal was becoming more grateful. Even after her miscarriage, she was happier than she'd been in two years because she could see her great life again, then conceived shortly after.

Gratitude for what you already have creates abundance consciousness that attracts your baby

Jessica practiced daily gratitude for everything from waking up to sale items, shifting from tunnel vision on what was missing to seeing abundance everywhere. This practice was key to her successful IVF pregnancy.

The Bible supports having life in abundance, not settling for lack

Jessica quotes John 10:10 'I came that they might have life and have it in abundance and enjoy it' as her foundation for believing she could have it all - successful IVF, daughter, and plans for a third child.

Asher came when Rosanne and her husband finally rejected the idea they had to spend another day miserable and started rolling out the red carpet with joy and possibility

In the cycle prior to conceiving Asher naturally at 43, Rosanne hadn't felt so alive in years, and conceiving had nothing to do with diets, lotions or potions - it was about the joyful place where he would grow.

Conceiving Asher had nothing to do with diets, lotions, or potions - it had everything to do with Rosanne being the joyful place where he would grow and thrive

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure, and in the cycle prior to conceiving she hadn't felt so alive in years while living luxuriously.

Money and scarcity mindset can be the biggest obstacle to fertility success, even more than medical conditions

Tracy delayed IVF for years due to scarcity beliefs rooted in childhood, asking 'why pay for something my body should do naturally?' This mindset kept her stuck until she learned to pivot and invest in her dream.

You can tell your body 'we are having this baby, I don't have to rush, I don't care how old I am, I have all the time in the world'

This approach signals safety rather than scarcity to your nervous system, moving away from beliefs about not having enough time, money, or resources

Bitterness blocks your baby - the more time you spend in gratitude, the more open you become to receiving the good coming for you

Women sitting in corners saying 'nothing works out for me' cannot be open to receiving their babies, while those who cultivate gratitude develop the receptivity needed for conception.

You are a miracle - the chances of your mom's egg being hit by your dad's sperm to create your unique soul and personality

This perspective helped Rosanne shift from seeing herself as broken to recognizing she was built for more, leading to her natural conception after years of treatment failure.

When you believe in abundance and put out that frequency, you call more miracles in - energy and frequency are no longer debatable

Rachel manifested her house after visualizing herself drinking coffee and looking at mountains, beating 12 other bidders in a competitive market, while both women have experienced real estate miracles through energetic alignment

Taking a stand for what you really want, not what you could settle for, changes everything

Instead of going to New York after Christmas when hotels were cheaper, Francois insisted they go during Christmas despite the high cost, and they conceived their baby on Friday the 13th of December during that trip.

The excuse 'I can't afford it' is really saying 'I'm not worth it' and will guarantee fertility failure

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by breaking through scarcity mindset and investing in what mattered most to her dream of motherhood.

Lack and scarcity is one of the most throat-stomping belief systems that will crush and torpedo your fertility dreams like nothing else

After 12+ years coaching women across six continents, Rosanne has observed that women trapped in scarcity thinking consistently give up on their dreams instead of becoming outliers who figure it out.

The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you, so make choices from abundance rather than scarcity

This core philosophy has guided Rosanne's work with over 300 women across six continents, helping them achieve pregnancy by aligning with their deepest desires rather than external limitations.

Your baby doesn't live in lack and scarcity - babies are all about possibility, just like little kids who aren't about lack and scarcity

If you're stuck in 'get' mentality, you'll never be in glorious perception and beautiful reception because you'll always be operating from lack and scarcity instead of possibility.

Rules about what's 'too much' often come from other people's judgments and keep women accepting less than they deserve

Women question wanting career, love, professional achievements, babies, wealth and travel simultaneously because someone else's rules say that's too much, when those rules are based on scarcity mindset.

Conceiving is all about receiving, and women with poverty mindset tend to be the worst receivers

This connects to the previous episode on poverty vs abundance mindset - if you don't believe you deserve good care or investment in your dreams, you limit your ability to conceive.

There are only two types of people when it comes to abundance: poverty-minded and wealth-conscious, with no middle ground

Based on observing women from all over the world over 11+ years, Rosanne confirms this binary exists across all financial backgrounds - you can have tons of money and still operate from poverty mindset.

Abundance mindset is characterized by peace, confidence that there's more than enough, generosity, being self-driven and open to solutions

People with abundance mindset focus on what they stand to gain, trust themselves to figure things out no matter how bad it gets, and understand that money comes and goes - creating completely different daily experience.

Acts of faith in other life areas create momentum for fertility breakthroughs

Elise invested in new floors and wrote a book while pregnant at 45, demonstrating how expanding vision beyond fertility and taking leaps of faith in other areas amplifies receiving capacity overall.

We've been conditioned to live in a matrix of lack, scarcity, and limitation, trained from early age to live by somebody else's rules

The fertility journey requires breaking free from this conditioning, as demonstrated by women who succeed despite being told they're too old, have poor odds, or should give up after multiple failures

Daily gratitude practice shifts focus from what's missing to abundance that already exists

Chrissie and her husband implemented a daily gratitude practice during her program and continue it today, which helped her see 'winks from Gus' and maintain faith even during failed cycles.

You can turn this around on a dime - all the lies about not having enough resources or judgment are simply faith in the opposite direction

Rosanne's 12+ years of coaching show women can shift from despair to success quickly when they redirect their focus. The recent podcast recordings prove this rapid transformation is possible.

Don't stop your life while you're on this fertility journey - you can live and be on this journey and have joy

Caroline was told to plan her wedding during her fertility journey, which brought joy back into her life. She conceived naturally in November, just two months after getting married in September.

You can conceive in joy - it doesn't have to be hard in the sense of suffering

Caroline learned she didn't need to suffer to 'earn' her baby. She conceived naturally in November after a joyful September wedding and October honeymoon, embracing pleasure and celebration instead of struggle.

Using your mother's money rules when trying to conceive is choosing loyalty to limitations over your dreams

Rosanne points out the contradiction of claiming 100% commitment to having a baby while following financial rules from someone who never faced fertility challenges requiring different investment strategies.

Focusing only on needs versus wants keeps you in survival mode instead of creation mode, blocking fertility success since conception requires creative energy and desire

Rosanne teaches that the only true needs are food, water, and shelter - everything beyond that is desire, and anyone who has created anything worthwhile did so based on desire, not just meeting basic needs

There is nothing more expensive than regret - if saving money is important, save it in other places, but don't cut corners on your fertility journey

Rosanne points out that people torture themselves about not starting their family earlier, and warns that cutting corners on fertility due to money concerns will lead to even worse self-torture over something that's easier to fix than time

When you're living abundantly, abundance flows in all areas of life

When Tanya shifted to living fully—training for marathons, traveling, renovating—four different job opportunities appeared at work while she was conceiving naturally.

Gratitude for what you have shifts your energy from lack to abundance

After witnessing multiple heart attacks and near-death experiences, Tanya shifted from focusing on not having a baby to appreciating her wonderful life, husband, and opportunities.

You can maintain joy and live fully while going through fertility treatment instead of putting life on hold

Claire and her partner did more activities in the year of treatment than they'd ever done before, went on holiday during the process, and she grew her business to reach income goals in less than a year.

The fertility journey doesn't have to be miserable - you can do the treatments with joy and surrender

Yasemin noticed IVF clinics were filled with misery where 'nobody says hi to each other' despite trying to create life. She learned to do the same treatments but with joyfulness and detachment from outcome.

Following your joy creates heart rate variability and higher vibrational frequencies that improve immune, brain, and reproductive functioning

Rosanne conceived naturally after she and her husband said their biggest yeses to joy, returning from an incredible European vacation. A sports medicine physician she coached conceived after going skiing two days post-transfer despite being told not to, and her son is now 18 months old.

Lack and scarcity thinking creates the belief that you can't have it all - success AND motherhood

Carolyn discovered through the Fearlessly Fertile Method that she was 'pitting things against one another' - believing she could be happily married OR have a baby, successful in business OR be a great mom, but not both.

Vitamin J (joy) and showing your baby who you are makes it easier for them to find you

Carolyn stopped avoiding activities like salsa dancing and ocean swimming due to fertility fears, started having fun again, and conceived naturally at 45 while enjoying herself in Mexico.

Money is the lamest and most provably false excuse people use on the fertility journey because money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by investing in mindset work despite financial concerns. Her program clients across six continents consistently overcome money obstacles to achieve success.

You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today - if you're complaining about money, go make more of it

Rosanne points to people with Down syndrome running craft businesses and elderly working as shop greeters, demonstrating that anyone can find ways to generate income regardless of circumstances.

You never lower your standard of living to meet your income - you raise your income to meet your standard of living

Rosanne credits this wisdom from Bob Proctor, explaining that clipping coupons only reallocates existing money rather than generating new revenue needed for fertility investments.

Lack and scarcity mindset isn't just about money—it's about time, opportunity, and most tragically about love, silencing the truth that there is abundance all around

Somaya overcame her working-class immigrant background's scarcity mindset, eventually buying herself a car as a celebration when she had her second baby, demonstrating abundance thinking.

Your 401k lost 30% this year anyway — you could have borrowed that money to work for your fertility journey

Many 401ks are down 30% from the previous year. That money disappeared regardless, but could have been leveraged for fertility treatments with payback to yourself rather than sitting unused in declining accounts.

Don't be a 'freeple' bottom-feeding for free solutions — it only reinforces whatever lack you think you have

Rosanne defines 'freeple' as people looking for free solutions, which reinforces scarcity thinking. Free approaches rarely solve fertility problems for women who've been trying for years.

You must honestly assess whether you'll allow yourself proper support when baby arrives, or if you're setting yourself up for martyrdom Olympics

Rosanne sees this especially in maxed-out professionals (physicians, lawyers, teachers, nurses, engineers, scientists) who tell themselves they're too tired but won't get help

Scarcity mindset guarantees mediocrity - if you want to stay broke or dried up in your 50s, stay in scarcity

Rosanne and Wendee discuss how scarcity thinking prevents taking the risks necessary for wealth and abundance, while they both demonstrate creating their own economies regardless of external economic conditions

You must keep living your best life while trying to conceive, not put everything on hold

Kelly and her husband built a new house and advanced their careers during treatment, with her husband building and selling a company. When their baby arrived, they had created a beautiful life to welcome her into.

People who claim to believe in abundance but penny pinch and tip poorly are reinforcing beliefs in lack through their behavior

Rosanne stopped making fear-based and price-alone decisions, choosing value over discounts, which aligned with her abundance mindset and led to conception within a year.

What you need always shows up, always in an unexpected way - we live in an abundant universe

Despite Rosanne's childhood programming around lack and scarcity, everything they needed for their fertility journey always appeared, though not always as cash falling from the sky.

The fear of not trying everything can cost more than money—it's about avoiding lifelong regret about what could have been

Mr. Austin preferred to spend money on fertility treatments rather than have money for a bass boat while wondering if they could have done more to conceive.

From coaching women to fertility success for almost eight years, the consistent factor isn't extreme diets but when women bring joy back, love themselves, get into healthy relationships, and allow themselves to receive

Rosanne references watching women's faces in YouTube videos and podcast interviews, noting that fertility success comes from joy and self-love rather than eliminating dairy from their diet.

You get to live your life any way you wish while trying to conceive - whether you believe it or not, it's true

Rosanne lived as a prosecutor dreaming of writing books and running a global business, then created that reality while conceiving naturally at 43, proving fertility journeys don't require life to stop.

You can't be afraid and grateful at the same time - gratitude eliminates fear, negativity and doubt

Mel implemented daily gratitude practices and said 'You can't have those two emotions at the same time. I make it a point every day to be as grateful as I can because that eliminates fear and negativity and doubt and shame and all of that.'

Decisions should be made from positive possibility and expansion, not fear, lack and scarcity

Fear-driven decisions focus on what might go wrong, while expansion-based decisions create excitement about what's coming. As Rosanne's husband says, 'scared money never wins.'

Joy on this journey breeds resilience — that's how you put one foot in front of the other long enough for success

Dr. Mariève went from nearly quitting after four failures to having the resilience to continue because she found her joy again, leading to conception on her fifth transfer.

Two things can be true at the same time — you can want your baby desperately AND live a full, joyful life

Dr. Mariève exemplified 'Yes, and' — Yes I want this baby, and I'm going to ski, have beer, get facials, and live fully. This approach led to conception after four failures.

Women on fertility journeys often measure every purchase against treatment costs, creating harmful lack and scarcity patterns that sabotage their success

After coaching women to fertility success for coming up on 7 years with incredible results, Rosanne has observed this destructive pattern where women compare everything to treatment investments and starve themselves of joy.

People who are truly thriving take care of themselves and are not starved of joy - it's their joy, pleasure, and connection to their faith that keep them moving forward

This observation about thriving people contrasts with the pleasure anorexia that dims your light and restricts your resilience on the fertility journey.

Money and time are the top two excuses people use to sabotage true greatness in their lives

Rosanne identifies from her coaching experience that 'money and time are huge triggers for people' and observes how these limitations cause women to make inferior choices in their fertility care.

When you decide you are worth a solution, you become a magnet to solutions and incredibly resourceful

Rosanne has helped women ages 28-54 across the world make their mom dreams come true by shifting from victim mentality ('nothing good ever happens for me') to possibility thinking ('how can this happen for me').

Don't shrink your vision because of what you already have

Jessica wanted more children after having her son at 40 and refused to settle or feel guilty about wanting to expand her family. She now has a daughter at 44 and plans for a third child.

Ask for what you want or more - gratitude shouldn't make you small

Kate was using gratitude to diminish her desires, feeling greedy for wanting a baby when she had other blessings, until she learned to embrace abundance.

Two truths can exist simultaneously - there can be legitimate tragedy and real gifts in the same time period

Despite 2020's global challenges, Rosanne's team had exceptional success in their work, writing, and projects, proving that abundance and difficulty can coexist.

Gratitude will slay fear, negativity, and doubt every single time

When women complete Rosanne's two-step process of identifying gifts from difficult years and how to use them, they place themselves in gratitude which becomes their power position against fertility journey fears.

Living luxe on your fertility journey means having your emotional, physical, spiritual, and intellectual needs met rather than being in starvation mode

Rosanne Austin explains that when women starve themselves of pleasure and support, they can't be the vibrant soul needed to welcome a baby, emphasizing that a life-affirming attitude is necessary when trying to call in a life.

You must engage in life affirming activities because you are trying to call in life

Rosanne teaches this principle led to her natural conception at 43 and drives the transformations she sees in her successful clients worldwide.

Thinking highly of yourself is part of having an abundant mindset - you can think you're awesome AND want the same for others without competition

This mindset gets you out of lack and scarcity that fuels jealousy and comparison. Instead of feeling stabbed when seeing pregnant women, you can think 'She's blessed and my blessing is coming too.'

Money is never the real obstacle to having a baby - lack and scarcity are mindsets, not actual circumstances.

Anne Marie pulled together money for another IVF cycle in one evening by looking at savings, bank accounts, and even increasing her credit limit when she thought she couldn't afford treatment.

Your brain is wired for confirmation bias - if you see this journey through a lens of lack and scarcity, your brain will provide evidence to confirm that perspective

Rosanne explains how this creates a cycle where women believe other pregnancies steal their babies and fuel jealousy, which she overcame to conceive naturally at 43

What goes down must come up - this is a law of nature that smart women leverage during challenging times to position themselves for success

Smart women are using this time of uncertainty to dig deeper into healing and preparation while others are cowering, giving them a competitive advantage when doors reopen.

If you're telling yourself you're gonna die if you invest x amount of dollars on this journey, do your research and see how ridiculously available that money is and how people do it every day

Women in Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program consistently overcome financial fears to invest in their success, with their results speaking for themselves.

The more love you let in, the brighter you shine like a beacon waving that baby straight home to you

Cam's success story demonstrates this principle - by following Rosanne's approach of receiving love fully while maintaining her fertility goal, she conceived after three long years on her second IUI.

Other people's wins on this journey have nothing to do with you or your prospects - there's no limit on the number of babies that can come into the world

Rosanne points out that if miracle mamas facing 'shitty circumstances' can find their babies, there's absolutely no reason why any other woman can't as well.

Women must shift from lack and scarcity programming to seeing abundance all around them

Rosanne had to overcome lack and scarcity programming from her upbringing as essential preparation for motherhood. This shift enabled her natural conception at 43 and now empowers her to teach Asher without the limiting beliefs she grew up with.

Your new battle cry should be 'I am so grateful for all that I have, AND I want more' - using 'and' instead of 'but' to embrace abundance

Rosanne explains that 'and' is about abundance, belief, and positive pregnancy-making possibility, while 'but' reflects scarcity thinking that limits what you can receive.

There is no limit to the good that is possible in your life - you didn't exhaust all your good when you won a spelling bee at seven years old

Rosanne teaches this abundance principle to counter the scarcity thinking that keeps women trapped in fear, helping her clients across six continents beat the odds on their fertility journeys.

Jealousy on the fertility journey stems from lack and scarcity thinking - the belief that there's only so much good to go around, so if someone else has success, it means less opportunity for you

Rosanne shares her own experience of mentally 'hating on' a pregnant woman at the grocery store during her fertility journey, searching for clues about why this woman was 'better' and 'luckier' than her.

Don't be the woman complaining about how long it's taking or how much it's costing—become the woman for whom those things are no longer relevant

Rosanne shifted from focusing on the inconvenience and cost of her fertility journey to seeing it as investment in her baby, ultimately leading to natural conception at 43.

Most people think in terms of what they stand to lose versus what they stand to gain, but fertility success requires a gain mentality that looks for opportunities

When trapped in lack and scarcity, you perceive even great opportunities as taking away from you instead of moving you forward toward your baby.

Donor conception creates abundance and community, not limitation - your family grows into relationships you never would have had

Linda started a Facebook group for donor egg families in her city, became a resource for other women through her therapist, and found her family expanded into a supportive community

The process doesn't have to suck — you can find joy and fun even in the midst of fertility treatments

Chrissie transformed her experience by asking her husband for surprise Friday night dates, saying yes to invitations again, and making her final transfer a celebration with music and intention rather than a medical procedure to endure.

Stopping life while trying to conceive actually repels the baby — they want to join a vibrant, joyful life

Chrissie stopped traveling and attending events 'just in case' it interfered with treatment cycles, but once she started saying yes to life again and planning trips, she conceived and celebrated with a beach vacation the day after her positive test.

You can't expect to be successful when all you're doing is merely surviving - staying in survival mode where you tolerate janky drawers is an affirmation of lack and scarcity

Having a baby requires massive expansion on so many levels, and women consistently see breakthrough when they make leaps in becoming better, being better, doing better, having better, giving at a higher level.

Desperate energy repels what you want - your future child wants to come to a fun, joyful mom living her life, not someone who has put everything on hold.

Amanda conceived after deciding in 2023 to focus on fun, enjoying life, having drinks, and not obsessing about diet. Within 6 months of this energetic shift from desperation to joy, she conceived through IUI.

You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive

Natalia at 44 already had two daughters but knew her family wasn't complete, overcame shame about wanting more and conceived naturally despite PCOS and hypothyroidism

Having privilege doesn't invalidate your emotional needs - gratitude and struggle can coexist

Suzy, living in Scottsdale with financial security, initially felt guilty for being depressed when she had 'everything,' learning that emotional needs matter regardless of external circumstances.

Women raised middle class were programmed for survival and subsistence, but many now live beyond that reality while their minds remain stuck in 1980s scarcity thinking

Professional women earning great salaries act broke and deny themselves opportunities because their minds haven't updated to match their current circumstances - they're educated captains of industry holding scalpels and shaping minds, not scrounging pennies

This fertility journey is an existential crisis that has the power to take us from comfortably puny mediocrity into a level of faith, trust, and abundance that few may experience

Rosanne transformed from years of fertility treatment failure to natural conception at 43 by embracing this perspective. Her clients across six continents have experienced similar transformations, with 63 pregnancies achieved in 2022 using this approach.

Living your fertility journey in guilt, shame, scarcity and austerity is complete bullshit and will keep your success out of reach

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after rejecting this mindset, and her clients experience similar transformations when they stop living in misery mode on their journeys.

Having a high opinion of yourself doesn't mean narcissism - it means showing respect for the creator by valuing the unique expression you were meant to be

Gary Vaynerchuk notes you have a 1 in 444 trillion chance of being human - you're more likely to win the mega millions five times over than to be born, proving how blessed you are to be here.

Moving from 'I already got lucky with one baby, why should I be greedy?' to 'I'm allowed to want more and it's not greedy' removes a major fertility block

Dr. Kate struggled with feeling she shouldn't ask for another baby after having her first son, but reframed this scarcity mindset to embrace abundance and her vision of a big family.

Receiving love should be about 'yes, and' rather than either/or propositions - allowing all forms of love to coexist and nurture us

Rosanne demonstrates this through her own journey, receiving love from her pets during her darkest fertility moments while remaining open to her future child, ultimately conceiving naturally at 43.

You can use other women's joy and success as proof that dreams do come true and to catapult yourself forward

Rather than feeling diminished by pregnancy announcements, Rosanne teaches that miracle mamas' joy should serve as evidence that anything is possible on the fertility journey.

Gratitude should be used as evidence of what's possible, not to keep you small or make you wrong for wanting more

Rosanne teaches that true gratitude says 'I have all this cool shit in my life - this is evidence of the good that is to come' rather than settling for less.

Other people's fertility success has nothing to do with your prospects or chances - their good fortune says nothing about you

Rosanne directly states that other people's good fortune on the fertility journey has nothing to do with you, your prospects, or your chances, countering the scarcity belief that someone else's success diminishes your own.