Tania and Greg share their incredible 11th hour miracle story - conceiving naturally at 42 after 9 surgeries, repeated IVF failures, and recurrent miscarriage. Just as they were preparing for donor eggs, Faith arrived naturally, proving that sometimes your baby has a completely different plan.
TaniaAge 42· natural· Baby girlBefore
Anxious, panicking before doctor appointments, brain replaying past failures, feeling like her body was broken after 9 surgeries
Key Shift
Crossed the bridge to unwavering belief, started trusting her body, embraced feminine receptivity, and surrendered the how while maintaining faith in the outcome
After
Calm, positive, speaking life over her situation, trusting divine timing, and completely rewired brain with different words and approach to life
Tania's journey began at 38 with unexplained infertility, leading to a 2.5-year medical odyssey including IUIs, IVF cycles, an ectopic pregnancy requiring emergency surgery, and the discovery of three fibroids during a 9-week pregnancy loss. Multiple surgeries to remove fibroids and recurring septum scar tissue followed, leaving Tania with 8-9 surgical procedures and mounting anxiety about doctor appointments.
After finding Rosanne's book 'Am I the Reason I'm Not Getting Pregnant?', Tania embraced personal responsibility and joined the Fearlessly Fertile Method program. She learned to cross the bridge from doubt to certainty, practice affirmations like 'I trust my God, I trust my baby, I trust my body,' and eliminate people who used faith to keep her small with phrases like 'it's not your time.'
Combining her Christian faith with aligned action, Tania worked with Doctor Cleopatra on nutrition and acupuncture, lost 20 pounds, and practiced stress-reduction techniques. Her AMH improved to an remarkable 2.8 at age 42 (normal for 40 is less than 1), demonstrating the power of the mind-body connection in fertility optimization.
Just as Tania and Greg were approved for donor eggs and preparing for their next cycle, Tania discovered she was pregnant naturally. At 28 weeks pregnant with their daughter Faith during this interview, their story proves that surrender and openness to different paths can create miraculous outcomes when you least expect them.
“Your baby had a completely different plan. When you surrender the idea that it has to happen a certain way, you eliminate those saboteur stories.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 32:03
Yes, it's absolutely possible. Tania conceived naturally at 42 after 9 surgeries, multiple IVF failures, and recurrent miscarriage. Her story shows that medical failure doesn't mean the end of possibilities - sometimes your baby has a different plan.
“Every step gets you closer there. So maybe the first time you tried this milliliter of something and it didn't work, well, now you know that didn't work. So it's gonna get you closer to what will work.”
— Tania▶ 45:54
Cross the bridge on a new thought by deciding that your losses were necessary preparation, not failures. Tania reframed her journey as eliminating what doesn't work to get closer to what will work, maintaining unwavering faith in her outcome.
“I am a Christian. And so I do believe that faith without works is dead. You helped to give me the work that I needed to do to stir up my faith so we could bring our baby here.”
— Tania▶ 16:24
Faith requires works and aligned action, not passive waiting. Tania combined her Christian faith with mindset coaching, nutrition changes, and body optimization. True faith means taking responsibility for what you can control while trusting the outcome.
“Sometimes people just don't know what to say. And sometimes it's just best to say nothing. Because, you know, sometimes that can mess up my brain. Like, what do you mean? It's not the time. Like, I am preparing my body for this.”
— Tania▶ 18:16
Set boundaries and block out voices that use faith to keep you small. Tania eliminated people who said 'it's not your time' because those phrases interfered with her faith-driven preparation and positive mindset.
“A normal forty year old AMH would be less than one. Mine was two point eight. Like, what? Two point eight.”
— Tania▶ 27:06
Yes, Tania's AMH improved from concerning levels to 2.8 at age 42 after mindset work, nutrition changes, and stress reduction. When normal AMH for a 40-year-old is less than 1, her results were remarkable.
“I really felt like there was something I could be doing. I knew that there was something that I could do. And so I said, okay. What whatever is necessary, whatever I can do, I'm game.”
— Tania▶ 12:36
Take responsibility for what you can control, including your mindset and body optimization. Tania transformed her approach from victim to empowered participant, combining medical care with mindset work and holistic support.
The desire in your heart to be a mother is meant to be there, and when you own that truth, you can overcome any physical challenge by upgrading your mental game
Tania had 9 surgeries, repeated IVF failures, and recurrent miscarriage, but conceived naturally at 42 after doing mindset work and crossing the bridge to unwavering belief in her dream.
When you surrender the idea that your baby has to come a certain way and say 'whatever it takes, I'm ready,' you eliminate saboteur stories and open to your baby's plan
Tania was approved for donor eggs and ready to proceed when she discovered she was pregnant naturally - her surrender and openness to any path allowed her miracle to unfold.
Making a decision to be successful is what ends the wishy-washiness - not making a decision is more expensive than making one because you'll chase shiny objects without clarity
Tania made a clear decision that she was having a baby regardless of how it happened, crossed that mental bridge, and stayed in that realm of positivity until Faith arrived naturally at 28 weeks pregnant.
Cross the bridge on a new thought - you can decide today that this baby is for you, it's just not right now, or you need to do things differently to prepare your body
Tania used the 'magic wand' exercise to cross the bridge from doubt to certainty, stopped being wishy-washy about her outcome, and maintained unwavering faith until conceiving naturally.
People can use faith and gratitude to keep you small by saying 'it's not your time' or 'wait on the Lord' - block out those voices and trust what's in your heart
Tania had to eliminate people who said 'it's not your time' or 'wait on the Lord' because those phrases were perceived as negative and interfered with her faith-driven preparation for her baby.
Faith without works is dead - mindset coaching provided the work needed to stir up faith and bring the baby here through aligned action
Tania combined her Christian faith with mindset work, lost 20 pounds, improved her AMH to 2.8 at age 42 (normal for 40 is less than 1), and conceived naturally after all medical interventions failed.
Walk in your femininity and practice receiving - receive help in business, support from your partner, assistance from your team instead of being superwoman
Tania shifted from being superwoman doing everything herself to receiving help and support, which aligned her with feminine receptivity and contributed to her natural conception.
Trust your God, trust your baby, trust your body - even after 8-9 surgeries, choose to work with your body instead of shaming it
Instead of beating her body up after multiple surgeries for fibroids and septum removal, Tania chose to trust and work with her body naturally, resulting in improved fertility markers and natural conception.
Open the door and welcome your baby in, talk to them in the car, manifest their presence - your baby will send signs through other people bringing baby items
Tania practiced talking to her babies in the backseat and received unexpected baby gifts from people who had no idea about their journey - blankets, playpens, and clothes arrived as manifestation signs.
When things look worst, something good is coming - the last hour breakthrough often happens when you're prepared to go in a completely different direction
Greg and Tania were approved for donor eggs and ready to proceed with a different plan when Tania discovered she was naturally pregnant, proving that apparent setbacks can precede breakthroughs.
Build a bump squad that asks 'what's the plan?' instead of offering pity when cycles don't work - surround yourself with solution-focused support
Tania's Mary Kay mentor Jen and bump squad responded to failed cycles by asking about next steps rather than expressing sympathy, keeping her focused on solutions and forward momentum.
Change your date, don't give up - we all have an idea of when we want our baby, but sometimes we're wrong about timing, not the outcome
Tania had written multiple dates on her vision board and kept changing them as time passed, ultimately conceiving naturally in November 2022 after years of different projected dates.
The desire in your heart to be a mother is meant to be there, and when you own that truth, you can overcome any physical challenge by upgrading your mental game
▶ 2:16When you surrender the idea that your baby has to come a certain way and say 'whatever it takes, I'm ready,' you eliminate saboteur stories and open to your baby's plan
▶ 32:03Making a decision to be successful is what ends the wishy-washiness - not making a decision is more expensive than making one because you'll chase shiny objects without clarity
▶ 22:58Cross the bridge on a new thought - you can decide today that this baby is for you, it's just not right now, or you need to do things differently to prepare your body
▶ 20:03People can use faith and gratitude to keep you small by saying 'it's not your time' or 'wait on the Lord' - block out those voices and trust what's in your heart
▶ 17:15Faith without works is dead - mindset coaching provided the work needed to stir up faith and bring the baby here through aligned action
▶ 16:24Walk in your femininity and practice receiving - receive help in business, support from your partner, assistance from your team instead of being superwoman
▶ 33:35Trust your God, trust your baby, trust your body - even after 8-9 surgeries, choose to work with your body instead of shaming it
▶ 21:35Open the door and welcome your baby in, talk to them in the car, manifest their presence - your baby will send signs through other people bringing baby items
▶ 46:57When things look worst, something good is coming - the last hour breakthrough often happens when you're prepared to go in a completely different direction
▶ 43:38Build a bump squad that asks 'what's the plan?' instead of offering pity when cycles don't work - surround yourself with solution-focused support
▶ 52:54Change your date, don't give up - we all have an idea of when we want our baby, but sometimes we're wrong about timing, not the outcome
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“If IVF and surgeries don't work for you, you're out of options and should consider giving up”
CONSIDER: Your baby may have a completely different plan - stay open and surrender the how while maintaining unwavering belief in the outcome
“Faith means waiting passively and accepting that 'it's not your time' when treatment fails”
CONSIDER: True faith requires works - taking aligned action while maintaining belief that the desire in your heart is meant to be fulfilled
“Multiple surgeries and physical problems mean your body is broken and can't be trusted”
CONSIDER: Every step gets you closer to what will work - your journey eliminates what doesn't work and prepares your body for when your baby arrives
“The desire in your heart to become a mother is meant to be there. When you own it, it will come true.”
“Cross the bridge on a new thought. You can decide today. Snap. Now you've crossed the bridge.”
“When you change your mindset, you change your results.”
“Faith without works is dead. You helped to give me the work that I needed to do to stir up my faith so we could bring our baby here.”
“When things look worse, that means there's something good coming. It was like at the last hour.”
“I trust my God. I trust my baby. I trust my body.”
“Sometimes our brain just replays what has occurred, but your heart, those tears in your eyes, your heart, that's true.”
“Change your date, don't give up. Sometimes we're wrong about timing, not the outcome.”
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The ambitious, driven qualities that make you successful professionally are actually your superpowers on the fertility journey, not obstacles to overcome
Jennifer initially thought her ambitious, driven nature in finance would make her a bad mother, but discovered that same resilience and refusal to quit is what ultimately brought her to conceiving her son after ectopic pregnancy and multiple failed transfers.
Your mind will give up way before your body ever will - this is why mindset is the foundation of fertility success
Jennifer's fertility clinic told her they see many patients who still have medical and financial options but give up emotionally before exhausting their possibilities. Jennifer's mental resilience kept her going through ectopic pregnancy, pregnancies of unknown location, and failed transfers until she conceived.
The pain and struggle of your fertility journey disappears once you have your baby in your arms - nothing else matters
Trish, who struggled for years before conceiving her daughter Geordie and is now pregnant again, shares that the relief and magnitude of love outweighs all the grief, sadness and disappointment from the journey.
You are the absolute boss and decision maker of your fertility journey - not the doctors
Diana applied this mindset shift to conceive her son and now has two daughters, ages 2 and 2 months. She uses these same techniques for career decisions and all life choices.
