Tanya shares her journey from five years of fertility struggles and IVF failures to naturally conceiving her daughter at 40. After being told donor eggs were her only option, she transformed her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method and conceived within months while training for a half marathon.
TanyaAge 40· natural· Baby girlBefore
Focused on what was missing, restricted lifestyle, hoping rather than believing
Key Shift
Living life fully while maintaining unequivocal belief in natural conception
After
Training for marathons, traveling, renovating, enjoying the 'what if' of pregnancy
Tanya's fertility journey began with unexpected spiritual experiences, including her grandmother communicating through a medium about her cousin's hidden twin pregnancy. These early encounters with the supernatural opened Tanya to possibilities beyond the physical realm, setting the foundation for the spiritual guidance that would eventually lead her to her daughter.
Despite three IVF cycles, multiple surgeries, extreme diets, and countless treatments, Tanya remained childless after five years. Her turning point came when she realized she had tried everything physical but hadn't addressed the mental and emotional aspects of fertility. This recognition led her to finally invest in comprehensive mindset work.
A series of near-death experiences—her dog almost being killed, multiple heart attacks around her, witnessing a cardiac arrest—served as divine jolts that shifted Tanya's perspective from taking life for granted to deep gratitude. These experiences taught her to appreciate what she had rather than focus on what was missing.
After her mindset transformation, Tanya began living fully—training for marathons, traveling internationally, planning renovations, and making future plans. This abundant living, combined with unequivocal belief in natural conception, created the energetic shift that allowed her to conceive naturally at 40 while doing things she loved.
Tanya conceived naturally during half-marathon training, just weeks after being told donor eggs were her only option. Her pregnancy journey validated years of spiritual guidance, with the baby girl matching exactly what mediums had predicted. The timing even aligned with a prediction made years earlier about February conception.
“I was more fertile in my forties than I was in my thirties, doing what I loved, and within months of completing my beloved Fearlessly Fertile Full Throttle program.”
— Tanya▶ 1:34
Yes, women can conceive naturally at 40 even after multiple IVF failures. Tanya conceived naturally at 40 after three failed IVF cycles and five years of trying, demonstrating that mindset transformation can make you more fertile in your 40s than your 30s.
“These are your only options. Surrogate, donor egg, donor sperm, donor embryo, or you have to do this hectic immune protocol... I conceived naturally five weeks after being told donor eggs were my only option.”
— Tanya▶ 32:43
When doctors recommend donor eggs, trust your intuition and consider getting a second opinion while working on your mindset. Tanya was told donor eggs were her only option but conceived naturally five weeks later by focusing on mindset work and living abundantly.
“When I'd be dragging myself through a kilometer, I'd be like, come on, guys. Help me out here. And I'd feel this little push that would propel me a bit forward.”
— Tanya▶ 29:31
You can connect with spirit babies through meditation, journaling, and paying attention to signs and dreams. Tanya received messages about her daughter through multiple mediums and felt her baby's presence during physical activities like running.
“If I can do this, of course, I can create a baby. You know? Like, I'm not I'm not old. I'm not over the hill. I can do whatever I set my mind to.”
— Tanya▶ 30:01
Training for marathons while trying to conceive can actually build confidence in your body's capabilities. Tanya conceived naturally while training for a half marathon, using the physical challenge to prove to herself that her 40-year-old body was strong and capable.
“I conceived naturally within months of completing my beloved Fearlessly Fertile Full Throttle program.”
— Tanya▶ 1:34
Mindset transformation can lead to pregnancy within months of completing the work. Tanya conceived naturally within months of finishing the 90-day Fearlessly Fertile program after five years of unsuccessful trying.
“By the end of my run, I'd counted fifteen black and white feathers, and I think I put it in our full throttle group. I'm like, girls, this is this is pretty crazy.”
— Tanya▶ 33:45
Signs during fertility journeys often include repeated animal sightings, feathers, and meaningful objects appearing. Tanya experienced swallows, dragonflies, and black and white feathers, including finding 15 feathers and a baby's pacifier during one run.
Tanya's process for shifting from hoping for a baby to having unequivocal belief in natural conception
Recognize gratitude
Focus on what you have rather than what's missing - wonderful husband, family, resources, opportunities
Live abundantly
Make plans, travel, pursue challenges, renovate, invest - show the universe you're living fully
Build body confidence
Take on physical challenges that prove your body's capabilities, like training for marathons
Connect spiritually
Pay attention to signs, journal about dreams and intuitive hits about your baby
Shift from hoping to believing
Move from 'I hope this happens' to 'I know this is happening' through consistent mindset work
You can become more fertile in your 40s than you were in your 30s when you shift your mindset
Tanya conceived naturally at 40 after five years of trying in her 30s, including three failed IVF cycles and being told donor eggs were her only option.
Delays in your fertility journey can be divine delays preparing you for the right timing
Tanya needed to wait four months to see a specialist, which gave her time to complete the Fearlessly Fertile program and shift her mindset before conceiving naturally.
Spirit babies are around you before conception, and you can connect with them during your journey
Tanya had multiple medium readings confirming a girl was around her, and she journaled about dreams of a boy before conceiving. She conceived a girl as predicted by mediums years earlier.
When you're living abundantly, abundance flows in all areas of life
When Tanya shifted to living fully—training for marathons, traveling, renovating—four different job opportunities appeared at work while she was conceiving naturally.
Your baby can give you energy and support during physical challenges
While training for a half marathon, Tanya would ask her spirit babies for help during difficult runs and felt them pushing her forward. She conceived while in peak physical training.
Gratitude for what you have shifts your energy from lack to abundance
After witnessing multiple heart attacks and near-death experiences, Tanya shifted from focusing on not having a baby to appreciating her wonderful life, husband, and opportunities.
You must be ready to transform wholeheartedly, not just try to DIY your mindset work
Tanya listened to fertility podcasts for two years but didn't get pregnant until she invested in the full Fearlessly Fertile program and committed completely to the transformation.
Hope must transform into unequivocal belief for manifestation to occur
Tanya shifted from hoping her baby would come to having complete belief it would happen. She conceived naturally five weeks after being told donor eggs were her only option.
Signs and synchronicities multiply when you become open to seeing them
Tanya began noticing black and white feathers, dragonflies, and swallows everywhere after opening to spiritual guidance. During one run, she found 15 feathers and a baby's pacifier.
Aging is a privilege, not a fertility death sentence
Tanya reframed turning 40 from a fertility deadline to a celebration, conceived six weeks after her 40th birthday naturally after years of trying in her 30s.
You can become more fertile in your 40s than you were in your 30s when you shift your mindset
▶ 46:46Delays in your fertility journey can be divine delays preparing you for the right timing
▶ 26:27Spirit babies are around you before conception, and you can connect with them during your journey
▶ 11:38When you're living abundantly, abundance flows in all areas of life
▶ 40:00Your baby can give you energy and support during physical challenges
▶ 29:31Gratitude for what you have shifts your energy from lack to abundance
▶ 20:59You must be ready to transform wholeheartedly, not just try to DIY your mindset work
▶ 23:43Hope must transform into unequivocal belief for manifestation to occur
▶ 37:00Signs and synchronicities multiply when you become open to seeing them
▶ 34:14Aging is a privilege, not a fertility death sentence
▶ 39:04“Delays in your fertility journey are setbacks that decrease your chances”
CONSIDER: Delays can be divine timing preparing you for transformation and the right moment for conception
“You should sacrifice everything and live cautiously while trying to conceive”
CONSIDER: Living your life fully and abundantly creates the energy that attracts your baby
“Turning 40 means your fertility is over”
CONSIDER: Age is just a number when you align your mindset with your body's capabilities
“I was more fertile in my forties than I was in my thirties”
“If you're gonna continue making excuses, you got nobody to blame but yourself”
“I wasn't leaving without my baby”
“Things aren't happening to you. They're happening for you”
“Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways totally worn out shouting, holy shit. What a ride”
“You have the power to determine the trajectory of your life”
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Frameworks & Methods
Statistics are not your destiny - you can choose to be an outlier rather than a statistic
Erika overcame stage 4 endometriosis, multiple failed IVF cycles, and a 0% chance of natural conception to conceive naturally at 31 after 9 years of trying.
Fertility challenges transcend age - you can have the diagnosis of someone in their fifties while in your twenties
Erika was told at 29 that her AMH and egg counts were like those of a 50-year-old, yet she still conceived naturally at 31.
Women can become more fertile in their late thirties than they were in their mid-thirties, regardless of medical predictions
Krysten was told she had low AMH and diminished ovarian reserve at 34, but conceived naturally at 38 after years of failed treatments, proving fertility can improve with age and mindset work.
When couples align with their true values rather than medical pressure, conception often follows naturally
Krysten and Carson felt pushed into IVF but it didn't align with their values. When they returned to wanting natural conception, took their honeymoon, and released control, they conceived naturally even with Carson having COVID during ovulation.
