Rosanne AustinDiscovery Hub
Teaching2020-01-13·12 min

EP46 Fertility Success Principle #4

EP46 Fertility Success Principle #4

Rosanne teaches the fourth fertility success principle: the quantum leap. She explains how successful women on this journey take dramatic, paradigm-shifting actions rather than tiny incremental steps, and challenges listeners to examine whether they're positioning themselves for quantum leaps or blocking them through fear and limitation.

The Definition and Power of Quantum Leaps

Rosanne introduces quantum leaps as abrupt changes and dramatic advances that successful women make on their fertility journeys. She emphasizes these aren't baby steps but rather scary, transformative actions that align with your heart even when others think you're crazy. Drawing from quantum physics, she explains how these leaps defy conventional wisdom but create breakthrough results.

Why Science Isn't Static Truth

Challenging the worship of current medical statistics, Rosanne explains that science is constantly evolving and today's limitations may be tomorrow's outdated beliefs. She uses examples from medical history and quantum physics to show how previously unshakeable scientific truths have been overturned, encouraging listeners to not let current statistics define their possibilities.

Identifying and Overcoming Quantum Leap Blockers

Rosanne provides a comprehensive evaluation framework for recognizing self-sabotage patterns that prevent quantum leaps. She identifies specific blockers including subordinating intuition to others' opinions, hiding truth from partners, and treating yourself poorly with money. Every saboteur story creates a concrete wall between you and your dreams.

The Real Risk of Playing It Safe

Reframing conventional wisdom about risk, Rosanne argues that the biggest danger isn't taking a dramatic leap that might fail, but rather living a life of regret wondering what could have been. She challenges listeners to consider whether they want to meet their maker with satisfaction or with the pain of unfulfilled potential.

Questions This Episode Answers

What is a quantum leap in fertility success

We aren't talking about baby steps. We are talking about knock down, drag out, white knuckled, sweaty palm, can't see the net, I can't believe I'm fucking doing this, people are gonna think I'm crazy, scary as fuck, full body hell yes leaps.

Rosanne Austin3:45

A quantum leap is an abrupt change, sudden increase, or dramatic advance toward your fertility goals. It's not about baby steps but rather scary, transformative actions that take you dramatically closer to success, even when others might think you're crazy for taking such bold steps.

How do you know if you're blocking your quantum leap

Are you subordinating what you know in your fucking soul to be true just because you don't wanna make waves? Are you hiding your truth from your partner? Are you treating yourself like a child when it comes to money?

Rosanne Austin7:42

You're blocking your quantum leap if you're letting fear dictate your choices - things like subordinating your intuition to others' opinions, treating yourself like a child with money, hiding your truth from your partner, or playing so small that your future self would be disgusted. The key is honest self-evaluation about whether you're living in a way that makes quantum leaps possible.

Why shouldn't I trust fertility statistics completely

Quit worshiping at the altar of science because science is ever evolving. That is the inherent nature of it. Quit treating it as if it's the end all be all, some static thing written on a clay tablet.

Rosanne Austin4:57

Statistics represent current understanding, not absolute truth. Science is constantly evolving - quantum physics has overturned many once-unshakeable scientific theories. Medical practices like bloodletting were once considered sound science, and smoking wasn't considered harmful just decades ago. Don't worship at the altar of current limitations.

What's the biggest risk in fertility treatment

The bigger risk is not leaping. Do you really wanna look back on your life as you lay dying wondering what your life could have been?

Rosanne Austin10:36

The biggest risk isn't taking a dramatic leap that might fail - it's not leaping at all and looking back on your life wondering what could have been. Playing it safe often leads to regret rather than the peaceful satisfaction of knowing you gave your dreams everything you had.

How do successful women approach their fertility journey differently

Every single woman you have heard on this podcast demanded her quantum leap. She wasn't down with business as usual. She wasn't content with the mousy incremental changes we get lulled into thinking we should be happy with.

Rosanne Austin6:30

Successful women demand quantum leaps rather than settling for incremental improvements. They refuse to be content with 10-20% better and instead go for full-scale victory. They're willing to do things that seem crazy to others but feel absolutely right in their hearts, even when it's scary and uncomfortable.

What makes a quantum leap different from reckless behavior

Quantum leaps are not reckless or foolish from the standpoint that they are somehow out of alignment with your values as an intelligent human being... They are indeed out of your comfort zone, but in your heart, you know they are oh so right.

Rosanne Austin4:04

Quantum leaps aren't reckless because they align perfectly with your values and soul truth. While they're scary and out of your comfort zone, in your heart you know they're absolutely right. They're not about doing something patently wrong for you, but about taking dramatic action toward what you deeply know is true.

How to Take a Quantum Leap on Your Fertility Journey

Rosanne's framework for identifying where you need to leap and taking massive action

  1. 1

    Assess your current approach

    Look at how you're living your journey from a place of loving commitment to your dreams, not judgment. Ask if you're living in a way that makes you available for quantum leaps.

  2. 2

    Identify your blockers

    Evaluate whether you're squeaking by due to fear, letting others' opinions dictate your course, subordinating your soul truth, hiding from your partner, treating yourself like a child with money, or choosing convention over intuition.

  3. 3

    Pick one area for your leap

    Take a look at where you're at on this journey and pick one specific area where you know you need to make a dramatic change.

  4. 4

    Take massive action

    Take a massive step of your own choosing in that direction, embracing the discomfort as a sign you're in quantum leap territory.

All Teachings 8

TeachingChallenging2:45

Fertility success requires quantum leaps - abrupt changes and dramatic advances - not incremental baby steps

Every successful woman featured on the podcast including Asia, Jennifer, Jen, doctor Lucy, Kate, Tracy, Beth, and Catherine demanded full scale victory rather than being content with 10 or 20 percent improvements.

TeachingFierce3:45

Quantum leaps are scary, uncomfortable actions that feel crazy to others but align perfectly with your heart and soul

Rosanne describes them as 'knock down, drag out, white knuckled, sweaty palm, can't see the net, I can't believe I'm fucking doing this, people are gonna think I'm crazy, scary as fuck, full body hell yes leaps.'

ReframeChallenging4:36

Science is ever-evolving, not static truth, so don't worship statistics as unchangeable reality

Quantum physics has overturned many Cartesian and Newtonian physics theories once considered bedrock truth. Medical practices like bloodletting and leeches were once considered sound science, and smoking wasn't considered harmful just decades ago.

TeachingChallenging7:42

Multiple self-sabotage behaviors block quantum leaps including subordinating intuition, treating yourself like a child with money, and playing painfully small

Rosanne lists specific blockers: letting others' opinions dictate your course, hiding truth from your partner, choosing convention over intuition, and living so small that your 80-year-old self would shake her head in disgust.

TeachingFierce9:03

Every saboteur story you tell yourself creates a concrete wall between you and what you want

Rosanne specifically names the saboteur stories: feeding yourself bullshit about age, failures, money, what others think, beating yourself up over mistakes, worshiping statistics, avoiding help and mentorship, and dismissing heart desires as nice-to-haves.

TeachingEmpowering10:05

The bigger the quantum leap, the bigger the payoff - successful women double down rather than play it safe

Rosanne states directly that 'the more those women double down, the bigger the payoff' referring to all the successful women featured on her podcast who made dramatic changes.

TeachingComforting10:15

Being out of your comfort zone is a sign you're in quantum leap territory

Rosanne explains that quantum leaps 'look, feel, sound, smell, and just behave totally different than what we're used to' so discomfort indicates you're making the right kind of dramatic change.

ReframeChallenging10:36

The bigger risk is not taking the leap - living a life of wondering what could have been

Rosanne challenges listeners asking 'Do you really wanna look back on your life as you lay dying wondering what your life could have been? Or do you want to have the peaceful fuck yeah smile people envy because you can meet your maker knowing you didn't let them down?'

Episode Tone
4 challenging2 fierce1 empowering1 comforting

Key Teachings 8

Fertility success requires quantum leaps - abrupt changes and dramatic advances - not incremental baby steps

2:45

Quantum leaps are scary, uncomfortable actions that feel crazy to others but align perfectly with your heart and soul

3:45

Science is ever-evolving, not static truth, so don't worship statistics as unchangeable reality

4:36

Multiple self-sabotage behaviors block quantum leaps including subordinating intuition, treating yourself like a child with money, and playing painfully small

7:42

Every saboteur story you tell yourself creates a concrete wall between you and what you want

9:03

The bigger the quantum leap, the bigger the payoff - successful women double down rather than play it safe

10:05

Being out of your comfort zone is a sign you're in quantum leap territory

10:15

The bigger risk is not taking the leap - living a life of wondering what could have been

10:36

Perspectives 3

Science and statistics are absolute, unchangeable truths that should guide all fertility decisions

CONSIDER: Science is ever-evolving and what's considered impossible today may be routine tomorrow - don't worship at the altar of current limitations

Taking small, incremental steps is the safest path to fertility success

CONSIDER: Fertility success requires quantum leaps - dramatic, paradigm-shifting actions that may seem crazy to others but align with your soul

The bigger risk is taking dramatic action that might fail

CONSIDER: The bigger risk is not leaping and looking back on life wondering what could have been

Quotable Moments

We aren't talking about baby steps. We are talking about knock down, drag out, white knuckled, sweaty palm, can't see the net, I can't believe I'm fucking doing this, people are gonna think I'm crazy, scary as fuck, full body hell yes leaps.

Rosanne Austin3:45

Success leaves clues. If you desire success, the equation is simple. Do what successful people do.

Rosanne Austin2:23

Quit worshiping at the altar of science because science is ever evolving. That is the inherent nature of it.

Rosanne Austin4:57

Every saboteur story you perpetuate is creating a concrete wall between you and what you want.

Rosanne Austin9:14

The bigger risk is not leaping. Do you really wanna look back on your life as you lay dying wondering what your life could have been?

Rosanne Austin10:36

if you're out of your comfort zone, you know you're in quantum leap territory, my darling.

Rosanne Austin10:15

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