Dr. Erica Bove
MD, REI
Key Insights
- Can predict embryo implantation success with nearly 100% accuracy by sensing energetic receptivity
- Stops embryo transfers to pray and meditate if patient isn't in receptive state
- Lab values like AMH and FSH only predict treatment success, not natural conception ability
- Less intervention often more effective than aggressive protocols for challenging cases
- Women must create space in their lives and reduce stress before fertility treatments
Actionable Advice
- Seek fertility doctors who see you as whole person, not just statistics
- Understand lab values don't determine natural conception ability
- Create space in your life for a baby by reducing work stress and clearing misaligned commitments
- Practice self-compassion and release shame/blame around fertility struggles
- Find medical team aligned with your values who will support your intuition
From This Conversation
Teachings 10
A fertility doctor can sense whether an embryo will implant with nearly 100% certainty before leaving the operating room
Dr. Erica Bove states she can tell 'with almost a hundred percent certainty' if an embryo will take before leaving the OR, even though embryos shouldn't implant for 24-48 hours minimum.
If a woman is not in a receptive state to receive an embryo, the transfer should be stopped for prayer and meditation
Dr. Bove explains 'if I sense that a woman is really not in a receptive state to receive an embryo, I'm not gonna put that embryo in. I stop the show. We're praying. We're meditating.'
Doubt, negativity, self-blame and shame can block embryo implantation even at the level of the uterus
Dr. Bove states 'if even at the level of your uterus, something, doubt, negativity, self blame, shame, any of those things is blocking it, it's not gonna take. So we need to open the channels for this to happen.'
Lab values like AMH and FSH only indicate that fertility treatments are less likely to work in an office setting, not that natural conception is impossible
Dr. Bove clarifies 'those are not fertility markers. It's very, very important to understand this. All those things tell us is that fertility treatments in an office setting are less likely to work.'
For women with concerning lab values, less intervention is often more effective than aggressive IVF protocols
Dr. Bove explains 'when I see somebody with sort of concerning lab values, sometimes I say to them, actually, less is more. Why would we stress your body through this whole darn process to get one egg?'
Women in their forties must make space in their lives for a baby by reducing stress and clearing out what doesn't align with motherhood
Dr. Bove states 'many people have not made room in their lives for a baby, and they're working eighty hours a week. They are stressed to the max' and recommends 'declutter the stuff that is not going to align with new motherhood.'
The fertility journey is preparation for becoming the woman worthy of being your baby's mother through healing and transformation
Rosanne shares her belief that 'my son made me wait so that I could transform and become the woman that was worthy of being his mother' after conceiving naturally at 43.
Conceiving is fundamentally about receiving, which requires accessing feminine energy rather than masculine force
Rosanne explains 'conceiving is all about receiving. If you're trying to get like a man, you're going to create results that you probably don't want.'
People who desire to become parents will become parents if they don't give up on their journey
Dr. Bove states 'people who want to become parents will become parents. The desire is in your heart for a reason.' Rosanne confirms 'there's not a single person that I have met who did the work and made the decision to be a parent that didn't find a way.'
The only women who reach the end of their fertility journey without their baby are those who gave up
Rosanne states definitively 'The only women that get to the end of their journey without their baby are the ones that gave up' based on over 10 years of coaching experience.
Episode
A Fearlessly Fertile Special: No Negative Energy Around Your Embryo! A Conversation with Dr. Erica Bove, MD, REI
2025-04-03 · 53 min
