Common belief
“External forces will punish bold decisions”
Discussed in 10 episodes. 4 women share a different experience.
This reflects mindset coaching perspectives from Rosanne Austin, JD, PCC. Always consult your medical team for clinical guidance.
Women Who Had a Different Experience
Teachings
Breakthroughs 3
When you can accept that you're on this journey and stop making it wrong, you can actually enjoy the process and see the gifts it brings
Jennifer went from seeing her fertility journey as a curse to genuinely viewing it as a gift that made her a better person. She was able to find peace with her situation while still maintaining her determination to keep going for as long as it took.
Learning to forgive yourself and reconnect with faith is essential for healing
Erika learned to forgive herself, stop feeling punished, reconnect with church and faith after her grandmother's death, which was part of her transformation before conceiving naturally.
Going from not believing you deserve happiness to fully owning that you deserve a child is a massive transformation
Tracy went from questioning if she deserved to have a child because her father died and would never meet the baby, to fully believing 'I do deserve this, I do deserve a child' and letting the course of action take place.
Teachings 7
The fertility journey is preparation for becoming the woman worthy of being your baby's mother through healing and transformation
Rosanne shares her belief that 'my son made me wait so that I could transform and become the woman that was worthy of being his mother' after conceiving naturally at 43.
If you don't believe you deserve what you say you want, you won't do what it takes to have it and will sabotage without knowing
Many big-hearted women continue to sabotage their fertility journey until they address their core worthiness beliefs, then experience breakthrough pregnancies that seem to come out of nowhere.
Have a growth mindset—this is happening for you, not to you, and you'll become a better version of yourself
Natalia's fertility struggle and postpartum challenges made her more compassionate, present with her children, and able to receive help from her husband
The challenge is your chance - fertility struggles are opportunities for growth, not obstacles to overcome
Rosanne's clients consistently beat insane odds when they make this shift, with 12 women getting pregnant in the past two months at time of recording
Guilt and shame keep women trapped on this fertility journey through false karma beliefs
Seema believed for years that her abortion was karma preventing pregnancy, saying 'this is my fault' and crying constantly until she learned to forgive herself and move forward to conceive at 39.
Self-love and kindness to yourself is the foundation that must be addressed before any other fertility intervention
Chris Axelrad teaches that being judgmental and hard on yourself makes it difficult to look in the mirror and make necessary changes, while self-compassion allows you to mine failures for growth without taking them personally
Infertility is a gift that teaches you to shift and change to find happiness exactly where you are
Dr. Kiltz, who has guided thousands through fertility journeys, teaches that the struggle is cleansing and forces growth that wouldn't happen otherwise.
Perspectives 3
Fertility struggles are a gift that forces you to examine your lifestyle, relationships, and create an environment that truly welcomes life
Rosanne Austin shares how her own fertility journey required becoming a different person, moving from working 80-hour weeks as a prosecutor living on caffeine to addressing root causes, ultimately conceiving naturally at 43.
▶ 38:04The fertility journey is a gift that teaches women another way of being before they become mothers, preventing them from parenting from a place of perfectionism, control, and overwork
Rosanne believes babies insist that mothers learn lessons before they come through, transforming women into the nurturing, patient, fun mothers they daydream about being rather than giving children 'flea bitten leftovers' after twelve-hour work days.
▶ 11:30The fertility journey is preparation for motherhood, not punishment—every challenge teaches lessons needed to be the best mother possible
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure once she learned crucial lessons including patience, boundaries, and trusting her instincts. When her son Asher needed emergency stitches at age 1, she was grateful for the preparation because her old perfectionist self would have reacted dramatically differently.
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