Common belief
“IVF is the only way”
Discussed in 14 episodes. 3 women share a different experience.
This reflects mindset coaching perspectives from Rosanne Austin, JD, PCC. Always consult your medical team for clinical guidance.
Women Who Had a Different Experience
Teachings
Breakthroughs 1
Walking away from treatment was an opportunity to deepen faith and trust yourself at a level you've never trusted before
Rosanne walked away from fertility treatment and conceived naturally at 43 after years of failure, demonstrating how what appears as loss can become the pathway to success.
Teachings 13
Creating fertile ground means examining your relationship, stress levels, nutrition, environment, and whether you're truly welcoming life
Dr. Palevsky explains that if you're not eating real food, breathing clean air, in a loving relationship, or using non-toxic products, you're not creating an environment that welcomes life - which explains infertility.
Many women get pregnant naturally just from having an educational consultation with a fertility doctor, without any treatment at all
Dr. Merhi reports that after consultation alone, many stressed patients who had been exposed to negative information suddenly conceive naturally because addressing their mental state removes a major barrier.
Low AMH with regular periods is not actually a fertility diagnosis - if you're releasing an egg every month, the quantity in reserve doesn't affect current fertility
Dr. Merhi challenged 10 fertility doctors to explain why low ovarian reserve causes infertility in women with regular cycles and none could answer, because AMH measures quantity not quality of eggs being released.
For women with concerning lab values, less intervention is often more effective than aggressive IVF protocols
Dr. Bove explains 'when I see somebody with sort of concerning lab values, sometimes I say to them, actually, less is more. Why would we stress your body through this whole darn process to get one egg?'
Delayed cord clamping and skin-to-skin are natural mammalian processes hospitals interrupt
Dr. Fischbein explains that no other mammal has their cord cut immediately or baby taken away, and when gorillas have c-sections they don't bond because they didn't go through the natural process.
Your mind is portable and goes everywhere with you on this journey, making mindset critically important whether you're in treatment or daily life
Austin explains that 'Your brain is portable. It's going everywhere with you on this journey. Whether you're on your back and your legs are in stirrups or you're walking up and down the aisle at the grocery store... your mind is with you.'
The wait and see mindset keeps your life on hold during fertility treatment, but two things can be true simultaneously—you can be on this journey AND live fully
Women hold back from investments, conversations, and decisions thinking things must happen in order, but most of these sequential requirements are completely made up.
Most people are looking for an external solution for an internal problem
Women Rosanne works with collapse time and space - going from 5 years of suffering to getting pregnant within 12 months by addressing internal blocks first
Fear-based choices suck - there's a difference between needing medical support and choosing it from a place of empowerment versus panic
Rosanne Austin mentions a 46-year-old woman who conceived naturally after IVF failed once she stopped making fear-based choices and started acting from consciousness.
PCOS and fertility issues are fundamentally connected to insulin resistance and metabolic dysfunction, which can be reversed through dietary interventions
Calley's sister Casey, a Stanford-trained surgeon, discovered that patients with fertility issues, depression, diabetes, and high cholesterol all shared root metabolic dysfunction that could be addressed through food and exercise interventions rather than separate medications for each condition.
Women who beat the odds make their own luck - you can't expect extraordinary results from ordinary actions
Physicians Rosanne has coached confirm that fertility success involves much more than diet and treatment - it requires addressing worthiness beliefs and self-sabotage patterns.
You cannot limit yourself to one country or one approach when bringing your baby home
Ms. Dreamy traveled to Mexico for stem cell therapy and tubal reversal, researched treatments in Israel and Japan, and refused to limit herself geographically in pursuing her baby.
Asking 'Is this true for me?' requires ovaries of steel because it presupposes you are worthy of more than cursory consideration
This question puts everyone on notice that you are discerning and expect attention to be paid to your unique circumstances, which many women struggle to demand in medical settings.
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