Wendee Saunders
Entrepreneur
Key Insights
- Clarity creates action, and action creates confidence
- Recognition doesn't have to come from other people
- There's what you want and what you think you can have
- You have to give up something to go up
Actionable Advice
- Practice daily self-recognition by affirming your strengths
- Refuse to settle for limitations imposed by others
- Curate your friendships to include only people who lift you up
- Use health challenges as catalysts for growth rather than setbacks
From This Conversation
Teachings 10
Health crises can become catalysts for your most abundant chapter when you refuse to let the diagnosis define your future
Wendee Saunders used open heart surgery to launch a fashion brand and book project, demonstrating how she transformed a life-threatening diagnosis into expanded possibilities for her 50s
Clarity creates action, and action creates confidence - not the other way around
Wendee explains how getting clear on what she wanted after surgery led to decisive action in finding the right surgeon who could repair rather than replace her valves, giving her confidence to pursue new ventures
You cannot think past how you feel - your frequency determines what you magnetize into your life
Rosanne references Dr. Joe Dispenza's work while discussing how Wendee's high-vibe energy and mindset attracted a surgeon capable of repairing her valves when others said replacement was the only option
Recognition doesn't have to come from other people - the most powerful recognition comes from yourself
Wendee describes walking around her house daily saying 'I am a badass, I am amazing' to herself, demonstrating self-recognition as a tool for building unshakeable confidence
Being a careful curator of your friendships means only surrounding yourself with people who lift you up and share your values
Rosanne explains how her fertility journey taught her to curate relationships with like-minded people, leading to meaningful connections like her friendship with Wendee who shares growth mindset values
There's what you want and what you think you can have - you must get clear on the difference
Wendee emphasizes that someone with your exact situation and circumstances is already doing and having everything you want, proving it's possible if you stop limiting yourself to what you think you can have
If you settle into what someone tells you is possible, you're doomed - you have to burn the boats and search for your path
Wendee refused to accept doctors' initial assessment that her heart valves couldn't be repaired, continuing to search until she found a surgeon who said 'if you let me in there, I'm really good at what I do and I repair valves most people can never repair'
Scarcity mindset guarantees mediocrity - if you want to stay broke or dried up in your 50s, stay in scarcity
Rosanne and Wendee discuss how scarcity thinking prevents taking the risks necessary for wealth and abundance, while they both demonstrate creating their own economies regardless of external economic conditions
You have to give up something to go up - there's always a sacrifice required for growth
Wendee sacrificed her preference for rib cage surgery to have open heart surgery, which led to her scar becoming inspiration for a fashion brand focused on sun protection and coverage
The hardest part of doing anything is the thinking part - your mind is the most underutilized tool in your toolkit
Wendee explains how society pushes pill solutions instead of teaching people to use their minds, while she used faith and mental control during her recovery to heal and create new opportunities
Episode
EP199 How A “Broken” Heart Can Save Your Life: A Conversation with Wendee Saunders
2022-12-19 · 58 min
