Ms. Dreamy (Guavini)
16 years journey from US · Fearlessly Fertile Method
The Transformation
Before
Carrying guilt and trauma from past motherhood experience, fearful of bringing baby into broken heart
Key Shift
Chose to heal her heart, accept help, and be open to however baby Evan wanted to arrive
After
32 weeks pregnant with baby Evan, at peace with donor egg journey, fully embodying motherhood identity
In summary: Ms. Dreamy (Guavini)'s story demonstrates that donor egg success after tubal ligation, healing past trauma enables fertility, and international treatment success. despite Tubal Ligation after a 16 years journey.
Breakthroughs3
You can't bring new wine into old wine skin - you must heal your heart before bringing a baby into a broken space
Ms. Dreamy recognized she had to address her past trauma and guilt about previous children before conceiving baby Evan, saying she couldn't bring her dream baby into a dysfunctional broken heart.
▶ 14:08Call yourself a mom now - if your baby was here and needed something, you'd move heaven and earth to get it
Ms. Dreamy traveled to Mexico during COVID for stem cell therapy and tubal reversal, saying she was 'in search of my baby' and would do whatever it took because her child was calling her.
▶ 40:27Choose your baby over all the obstacles - that's the only choice that matters
Ms. Dreamy chose baby Evan over her ego about using donor eggs, over geographical limitations by traveling internationally, and over 7 failed transfer cycles by persisting until success.
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Teachings4
We all deserve a do-over in life, regardless of past choices or trauma
Ms. Dreamy had tubal ligation at 26 after traumatic motherhood experiences, went through 13 years of therapy, and at 32 weeks pregnant proves that past decisions don't define your fertility future.
▶ 3:35Babies come in different ways - they decide to show up the way they decide to show up, not the way you think they should
Ms. Dreamy initially insisted on using her own eggs but had to accept donor eggs. After letting go of how she thought her baby should arrive, she conceived baby Evan through donor egg IVF.
▶ 19:07You cannot limit yourself to one country or one approach when bringing your baby home
Ms. Dreamy traveled to Mexico for stem cell therapy and tubal reversal, researched treatments in Israel and Japan, and refused to limit herself geographically in pursuing her baby.
▶ 37:00We are the only ones that limit ourselves - we put ourselves in that box
Ms. Dreamy overcame the limitation of tubal ligation by getting reversal surgery, then donor eggs, then international treatments, proving that self-imposed limitations are the biggest barrier to success.
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Reframes2
It only takes one embryo to create your miracle
Ms. Dreamy was left with only one embryo after 6 donor eggs yielded 4, then 3, then just 1 viable embryo. Despite 7 failed transfer cycles, that single embryo became baby Evan at 32 weeks.
▶ 31:30Past treatments that seem to fail may be setting you up for future success in ways you can't see
Ms. Dreamy's stem cell therapy didn't result in natural conception as hoped, but it rejuvenated her cervix and ovaries, helping her body respond well to IVF hormones and creating the perfect environment for embryo transfer.
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Quotable Moments5
“You can't bring new wine into old wine skin. You can't bring something new and put a baby into a very dysfunctional broken heart.”
— Ms. Dreamy14:08“It only takes one. And it clearly did.”
— Rosanne Austin31:30“We are the only ones that limit ourselves. We're the only ones that put us in that box.”
— Ms. Dreamy38:03“My kid needs me. My kid is here already. You just need to jump the hoops and do it because you'll do it when physically your child is here.”
— Ms. Dreamy40:48“I hope that you choose your baby over all the obstacles. That's it.”
— Ms. Dreamy41:50