Fertility Mindset: Crisis Is Opportunity
Rosanne Austin teaches how to reframe fertility crises as opportunities for growth and solution-seeking rather than remaining stuck in victim mentality.
Teachings 4
At the same time a crisis shows up, the solution must exist at the same time
Austin has coached thousands of women globally whose crises were all eventually resolved - 'nobody's still stuck five years ago'
You cannot solve problems from inside the problem - you need to think at a higher altitude
Austin's methodology has helped women beat insane odds with less than 1% chance of pregnancy by any means
Panic and fight-or-flight responses naturally close your field of vision, preventing you from seeing solutions
Based on Austin's experience as former California prosecutor and fertility coach working with type-A professional women
The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you
Austin's four bestselling books and 300+ podcast episodes document this principle working for women worldwide
Perspectives 2
Crisis is an opportunity to see yourself as a solution seeker rather than a victim
Rosanne Austin conceived naturally at 43 using this mindset approach after becoming more fertile in her forties than her thirties
The fertility journey shapes the woman, wife, partner and mother you become
Austin's 12+ years coaching women ages 28-54 across six continents shows women can enter motherhood with unshakable confidence or bitter and exhausted
Quotable Moments 4
“It takes you from being a victim to somebody on the road to victory.”
— Rosanne Austin“At the same time the crisis exists, the solution must as well at the same time.”
— Rosanne Austin“The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.”
— Rosanne Austin“You cannot separate the mind and the body physiologically. This is one system.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
How do I stop feeling like a victim during fertility crises?
“Crisis is an opportunity to see yourself in a different way. Because crisis often comes into our lives and we immediately see ourselves as a victim. We see ourselves as powerless, as merely the receiver of some bad shit.”
— Rosanne Austin
Shift into seeing yourself as a solution seeker. When crisis hits, ask 'What solution am I seeking here?' and remember that if the crisis exists, the solution must exist at the same time.
What should I do when my IVF medications are delayed?
“As a person who sees the truth about herself as having power in her life, the power to seek solutions, the power to seek support from people who can help her solve the problem, you immediately take yourself out of a victim mindset.”
— Rosanne Austin
Instead of panicking, become a solution seeker. Ask who can help you resolve this problem and gather people around you to find solutions. This immediately reduces stress and takes you out of victim mindset.
How does fertility struggle prepare you for motherhood?
“All of the skills that you are currently learning about resilience, about your ability to overcome, how to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey, will serve you in motherhood.”
— Rosanne Austin
The skills you learn about resilience, overcoming challenges, and thinking like a successful woman will serve you in motherhood. You can enter motherhood with unshakable confidence or bitter and exhausted - the choice is yours.
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Key Points 6
Crisis is an opportunity to see yourself as a solution seeker rather than a victim
At the same time a crisis shows up, the solution must exist at the same time
The fertility journey shapes the woman, wife, partner and mother you become
You cannot solve problems from inside the problem - you need to think at a higher altitude
Panic and fight-or-flight responses naturally close your field of vision, preventing you from seeing solutions
The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you
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