Rosanne shares the two critical decisions that changed her energy and led to conceiving naturally at 43. She reveals how she stopped tolerating any conversation that her baby was impossible and committed to saying yes to everything that propelled her forward into becoming the woman who beats the odds.
Rosanne introduces Dr. Joe Dispenza's principle that nothing changes until your energy changes, emphasizing this isn't woo-woo but measurable reality. She explains how every woman who beats the odds experiences an energy shift before getting pregnant, setting up the two critical decisions that created her own breakthrough.
The first critical decision involves refusing to tolerate any internal or external conversation that your baby is impossible. Rosanne explains this is about becoming your own authority and setting boundaries around who gets to make the rules in your life - you or someone else.
The second decision means saying yes to anything that propels you forward into becoming the woman who beats the odds. Rosanne challenges the mediocrity of playing it safe and shares how she made the twelve months before conceiving Asher her year of yes, giving her word to herself and keeping it.
Rosanne explains why physical interventions alone don't work, emphasizing that no diet or treatment changes worthiness beliefs or self-sabotage patterns. She addresses how true commitment creates urgency and why women who change get better results faster because they take responsibility rather than playing victim.
“The first decision that I made, number one, is I made the decision I was no longer going to tolerate any internal or external conversation that my boy was impossible... The second decision that I made was I was going to say yes to anything, I mean, anything that could propel me forward into who I was becoming.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:51
The first decision is to no longer tolerate any internal or external conversation that your baby is impossible. The second decision is saying yes to anything that can propel you forward into becoming the woman who beats the odds.
“If the vision you have for your life and for motherhood doesn't create urgency in your life, you're you're not fucking committed... Urgency in the way that I'm sharing it here is about what gets your attention. It's what makes it to the front of the line in your life.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 15:34
If the vision you have for motherhood doesn't create urgency in your life, you're not committed. Urgency isn't about being scared - it's about what gets your attention and makes it to the front of the line in your life.
“Nothing changes until you change your energy... every one of these women would tell you that their energy changed before they got and stayed pregnant. It was it in some ways, it was a sort of condition precedent.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:28
Your energy changes before you get and stay pregnant. It's not woo-woo - it's measurable. Every woman who beats the odds has their energy shift first, which means becoming the person who achieves what you want before you actually achieve it.
“No diet or treatment is gonna change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're truly worthy of having what you want on this journey. And, dude, if you don't feel worthy and you don't believe you can have what you want, you won't do the shit that is required.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 13:31
No diet or treatment can change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're worthy of having what you want. Even physicians confirm there's much more at play than just physical interventions.
“When they change, when something in them changes, they get new, better results faster. No excuses, no victimhood, no blaming. In fact, the woman who actually changes isn't looking for anyone to blame because she knows she holds the key.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 14:03
When women change, they get new, better results faster. The woman who actually changes isn't looking for anyone to blame because she knows she holds the key. She's not a victim and isn't looking for other people to clean up her mess.
“I gave my word to myself and kept it that I would be the woman that beat the odds. I gave myself permission to become her, and then I did.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 14:43
You have to become the woman who beats the odds before you actually beat them. This means making decisions that propel you forward, setting boundaries around limiting conversations, and refusing to play by rules that others make for your life.
The specific decisions that change your energy and propel you toward fertility success
Make Decision One: Stop Tolerating Limiting Conversations
Decide you will no longer tolerate any internal or external conversation that your baby is impossible. This means immediately rejecting any conversation that what you desire isn't going to happen, regardless of who is doing the talking - you or someone around you.
Claim Your Authority
Become your own authority by setting a boundary about who will have authority in your life - you or someone else. This is about deciding whether you or others will make the rules you live by.
Make Decision Two: Say Yes to Forward Movement
Commit to saying yes to anything that can propel you forward into who you are becoming - the woman who beats the odds. This means moving beyond what feels normal, sensible, and cautious.
Create Your Year of Yes
Give your word to yourself that you will become the woman who beats the odds, then keep that commitment. Give yourself permission to become her and take the actions that align with that identity.
Nothing changes until you change your energy - and your energy changed before you get and stay pregnant
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after making critical energy shifts, and every woman she's coached over 12+ years across six continents had their energy change before getting and staying pregnant.
The first critical decision is to no longer tolerate any internal or external conversation that your baby is impossible
This decision became Rosanne's boundary about who would be the authority in her life - herself or someone else - leading directly to conceiving Asher naturally at 43.
The second critical decision is saying yes to anything that can propel you forward into who you are becoming - the woman who beats the odds
Rosanne made her twelve months leading up to Asher's natural conception her 'year of yes,' giving her word to herself and keeping it to become the woman who beats the odds.
Playing it normal, sensible, and cautious are all synonyms for mediocrity - people who beat the odds don't play by rules others make
Rosanne challenged the conventional fertility rules made by people who will never know what it's like to long for a baby, leading to her natural conception at 43.
Women who beat the odds make their own luck - you can't expect extraordinary results from ordinary actions
Physicians Rosanne has coached confirm that fertility success involves much more than diet and treatment - it requires addressing worthiness beliefs and self-sabotage patterns.
No diet or treatment will change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're worthy of having what you want
Multiple physicians Rosanne has coached confirm that worthiness beliefs and self-sabotage patterns must be addressed for fertility success, beyond just physical interventions.
When women change, they get new, better results faster - the woman who changes isn't looking for anyone to blame because she knows she holds the key
Rosanne observes this pattern consistently in women who share their stories across podcasts and articles - when something in them changes, results follow quickly.
If the vision you have for motherhood doesn't create urgency in your life, you're not committed - urgency is about what gets your attention and makes it to the front of the line
Rosanne made these decisions well into her forties when urgency was real, leading to natural conception at 43 after years of treatment failure.
Nothing changes until you change your energy - and your energy changed before you get and stay pregnant
▶ 5:28The first critical decision is to no longer tolerate any internal or external conversation that your baby is impossible
▶ 7:51The second critical decision is saying yes to anything that can propel you forward into who you are becoming - the woman who beats the odds
▶ 10:27Playing it normal, sensible, and cautious are all synonyms for mediocrity - people who beat the odds don't play by rules others make
▶ 10:47Women who beat the odds make their own luck - you can't expect extraordinary results from ordinary actions
▶ 13:10No diet or treatment will change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're worthy of having what you want
▶ 13:31When women change, they get new, better results faster - the woman who changes isn't looking for anyone to blame because she knows she holds the key
▶ 14:03If the vision you have for motherhood doesn't create urgency in your life, you're not committed - urgency is about what gets your attention and makes it to the front of the line
▶ 15:34“You should play it safe and follow conventional fertility advice to increase your chances”
CONSIDER: Playing it normal, sensible, and cautious are synonyms for mediocrity - women who beat the odds don't play by rules that others make
“Fertility success comes down to the right diet and treatment protocol”
CONSIDER: No diet or treatment will change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're worthy - physicians confirm there's much more at play than physical interventions
“Nothing changes until you change your energy.”
“I made the decision I was no longer going to tolerate any internal or external conversation that my boy was impossible.”
“Normal, sensible, and cautious are all synonyms for mediocrity.”
“Women who beat the odds make their own luck.”
“If the vision you have for your life and for motherhood doesn't create urgency in your life, you're not fucking committed.”
“No diet or treatment is gonna change how you feel about yourself and whether you believe you're truly worthy of having what you want on this journey.”
“The woman who actually changes isn't looking for anyone to blame because she knows she holds the key.”
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Conditions
Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Women struggling with fertility often internalize failed treatments and take on the identity of a 'fertility fuck-up,' especially high achievers who aren't used to struggling
Austin observes from 11+ years of coaching that go-getters who are 'absolutely slain in their lives' become entirely different people as months, years, and treatments stack without success
You are not your diagnosis, statistics, or what medical professionals say you are - you get to decide your identity on this journey
Austin emphasizes rejecting labels like 'geriatric,' 'poor responder,' or 'difficult case' that medical professionals assign
There's a fundamental difference between wanting a baby from lack versus being ready to receive one - wanting comes from what isn't here, while readiness focuses on preparing for what's to come
Rosanne observed this shift in all successful clients featured on her podcast over 200+ episodes, noting when 'the switch flips' from chasing energy to confident readiness
Being ready to receive has an innate emotional maturity, confidence, peace and calm that is decidedly different from the desperate energy of 'when is my baby gonna get here?'
Rosanne describes recognizing this shift in all women who achieved success on her podcast, noting it's 'truly a beautiful thing' to observe when the transformation happens
