Rosanne dismantles money as an excuse for not investing in mindset work or fertility support. She teaches that money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it, and investing in expertise accelerates success more efficiently than trying to figure it out alone.
Rosanne opens by declaring money the lamest excuse people use on their fertility journey. She teaches that money is abundant but requires trading value and doing work to obtain it, challenging the scarcity mindset that keeps women stuck.
Rather than trying to figure everything out alone, investing in expert guidance provides faster, smarter, and ultimately less expensive results. Rosanne compares this to having a personal trainer versus working out alone - the expertise accelerates success.
Everyone has gifts and talents that exceed their current application. Rosanne provides examples of people with significant challenges who successfully generate income, proving that anyone committed to their goals can find ways to make money.
Money fears aren't inherent - they're inherited from families of origin. Understanding that these limitations came from others who may have been in fear allows you to question whether these stories serve your fertility goals.
“Need money? Go make more of it. You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:50
Focus on generating more income rather than just cutting expenses. Money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it - use your gifts and talents, take on side projects, or find creative ways to offer value in exchange for payment.
“What you are investing in is getting all of that fucking goodness faster, smarter, and frankly, at a less expensive rate on all levels than if you try to do that shit DIY.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:17
Yes, because investing in expertise gets you results faster and cheaper than trying to figure it out yourself with limiting beliefs sabotaging your efforts. You never work out harder than with a trainer - the same principle applies to mindset work.
“If you let money stand in the way of you getting what you need to have this baby, whether it has to do with mindset, treatments, diets, or anything else that you need to be successful. You don't want this baby bad enough.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:49
Examine whether your money stories are really yours or inherited from family. There are loans available, side hustles to pursue, and ways to generate income if you're truly committed. The question is how badly you want this baby.
“Your stories about money are not yours. They came from someone else, likely a caretaker in your family, and you were hearing this garbage from the time you were extremely little.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:27
Money stories typically come from your family of origin - caretakers who may have been in fear about money, used it to manipulate others, or thought of money as scary. Babies aren't born with money fears; these are learned limitations.
“You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today. Go make money if you are complaining about money.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:50
Use your existing gifts and talents that exceed what you're currently doing. Consider side hustles, freelance work, selling items you don't need, or offering services to others. Focus on generating new income rather than just cutting expenses.
“When you have a big dream, you have to be more resourceful than conventional wisdom about money. Conventional wisdom about money doesn't take into account your struggle with fertility.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:26
When you have a big dream like having a baby, you need to be more resourceful than conventional financial wisdom. There are loans available, and if you need to deviate from your financial plan temporarily, it can be worth it for your fertility goals.
A three-question framework for identifying and overcoming money limitations on your fertility journey
Identify Your Money Stories
Write down all the stories you tell about money - be honest about beliefs around money being hard to make, scarce, or for other people
Calculate the Cost
Determine what it's costing you to hold onto these money stories - how are they impacting your journey, resourcefulness, and willingness to invest in your success
Create Your Income Plan
List ten additional ways you could make money right now using your existing gifts and talents, side projects, items to sell, or services to offer
Money is the lamest and most provably false excuse people use on the fertility journey because money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by investing in mindset work despite financial concerns. Her program clients across six continents consistently overcome money obstacles to achieve success.
Investing in expertise means you don't have to read thousands of books, attend hundreds of seminars, or make the same mistakes your expert made - you get results faster, smarter, and less expensively than DIY
Women in Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method program achieve success by leveraging her 12+ years of expertise rather than trying to figure out mindset work on their own with limiting beliefs hijacking their progress.
You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today - if you're complaining about money, go make more of it
Rosanne points to people with Down syndrome running craft businesses and elderly working as shop greeters, demonstrating that anyone can find ways to generate income regardless of circumstances.
Your stories about money are not yours - they came from someone else, likely a caretaker in your family, and you were hearing this garbage from when you were extremely little
Rosanne explains that babies are not afraid of money and don't have money stories - these limiting beliefs are inherited from families of origin, often from people in fear about money.
If you let money stand in the way of you getting what you need to have this baby, you don't want this baby bad enough
Rosanne's successful clients consistently find ways to invest in mindset work and treatments because they prioritize their baby dreams over money excuses, leading to pregnancies against medical odds.
You never lower your standard of living to meet your income - you raise your income to meet your standard of living
Rosanne credits this wisdom from Bob Proctor, explaining that clipping coupons only reallocates existing money rather than generating new revenue needed for fertility investments.
Money is the lamest and most provably false excuse people use on the fertility journey because money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it
▶ 2:54Investing in expertise means you don't have to read thousands of books, attend hundreds of seminars, or make the same mistakes your expert made - you get results faster, smarter, and less expensively than DIY
▶ 4:47You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today - if you're complaining about money, go make more of it
▶ 7:50Your stories about money are not yours - they came from someone else, likely a caretaker in your family, and you were hearing this garbage from when you were extremely little
▶ 11:27If you let money stand in the way of you getting what you need to have this baby, you don't want this baby bad enough
▶ 12:49You never lower your standard of living to meet your income - you raise your income to meet your standard of living
▶ 15:43“I can't afford mindset coaching or fertility treatments”
CONSIDER: Money is everywhere if you're willing to work for it - the question is how badly do you want this baby
“I need to save money by doing everything myself”
CONSIDER: Investing in expertise gets you results faster and cheaper than trying to figure it out with limiting beliefs hijacking your brain
“My money limitations are just my reality”
CONSIDER: Your money stories came from your family of origin and are not objective truth - babies aren't born afraid of money
“Money is fucking everywhere. Do you have to do shit to get it? Yeah. Do you have to trade value in exchange for it? Yeah.”
“You were born with gifts and talents that far exceed what you are currently doing today.”
“If you let money stand in the way of you getting what you need to have this baby, you don't want this baby bad enough.”
“Your stories about money are not yours. They came from someone else, likely a caretaker in your family.”
“You never lower your standard of living to meet your income. You raise your income to meet your standard of living.”
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Common Beliefs
Rules about when things are supposed to happen are completely made up and often sabotage women who focused on career first
Many successful women struggle because they followed rules saying marriage and babies should happen in their twenties, but they were building careers through their thirties instead.
Rules about how things are supposed to happen keep women waiting for the 'perfect time' that never comes
Women in their forties think everything should have happened in order - college, love, marriage, baby - but what if right now is the perfect time regardless of the sequence.
Your mindset determines whether you see yourself as a victim of circumstances or an empowered woman who can overcome any obstacle on your fertility journey.
Anne Marie transformed from seeing herself as a 'barren orphan' to an empowered woman who switched clinics twice, advocated for the ERA test, and ultimately conceived at 40 after 5 years of challenges including life-threatening ectopic pregnancy.
When doctors dismiss your requests for testing or treatment options, you have every right to leave and find a provider who will partner with you in your care.
Anne Marie left her first clinic when they refused the ERA test, then left her second clinic when they pushed donor eggs without trying her own eggs first. At the third clinic, she got pregnant within 6 months using her own eggs at 40.
