Joycelinne shares her journey from years of struggle with fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube to holding her baby boy at 37 weeks pregnant. After feeling trapped in fear and victimhood, she transformed her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method and conceived via IVF within 7 months of starting the program.
Joycelinne· IVF· Baby boyBefore
Victim mentality, fear of IVF, fighting with husband monthly, losing faith, working three jobs with no space for baby
Key Shift
Realized she wasn't giving space for her baby and asked for forgiveness, decided to invest in mindset work first
After
Confident, abundant mindset, strong marriage, epic medical advocacy, walking IVF journey knowing it would work
Joycelinne shares how she first discovered Rosanne's work through a struggling friend years before her own fertility journey began. When she and her husband started trying to conceive, the fear stories she'd absorbed from others began feeding her own anxiety and victim mentality.
After two years of struggling, Joycelinne finally got the testing she needed and discovered she had fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube. The Halloween diagnosis sent her into a spiral of 'why me' thinking, but it also became the catalyst for seeking the mindset help she needed.
Through the Fearlessly Fertile Method, Joycelinne shifted from scarcity and fear to abundance and confidence. This transformation preceded a series of 'miracles' - her husband's insurance covering IVF for the first time ever and unexpected financial gifts appearing exactly when needed.
Joycelinne's breakthrough moment came when she realized she was asking for a baby while giving no space for motherhood in her life. She went from working three jobs with career tunnel vision to preparing a nursery and speaking life to her son by name throughout the IVF process.
“How did I ever put myself so low, so much doubt, so much fear that I thought I was not worth it. I was God didn't love me enough that I was not so, like, blessed to experience this.”
— Joycelinne▶ 63:02
Yes, you can get pregnant with fibroids and blocked fallopian tubes. Joycelinne had both conditions and conceived her son Ryu through IVF after transforming her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method.
“Throughout those three months, I feel that mentally, I change so much.”
— Joycelinne▶ 22:06
Mindset transformation can happen relatively quickly with the right support. Joycelinne saw significant changes within 3 months of the Fearlessly Fertile Method program, going from years of struggle to pregnancy within 7 months of starting.
“Being a pharmacist is easy. I cannot control my feelings and my head when you're so stuck into the darkness that you cannot see the light.”
— Joycelinne▶ 25:16
Yes, asking for professional help with fertility struggles is smart, not weak. Even highly educated women like pharmacist Joycelinne needed specialized mindset support to navigate the emotional complexity of fertility challenges.
“When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through.”
— Joycelinne▶ 46:53
Make the decision about what you want first, then watch how the money shows up. Joycelinne decided on IVF without knowing how to pay, then her husband's insurance covered $25,000 for the first time ever and she received unexpected gifts.
“So you start going down that road, you know, am I being punished? And you start thinking about everything, like, why did I wait so long?”
— Joycelinne▶ 11:25
Victim mentality in fertility includes thoughts like 'why me,' blaming circumstances, feeling punished, and believing you're not worthy of having a baby. It keeps you stuck in fear and prevents you from taking empowered action.
“The thoughts that dominate your mind are the ones that are gonna control your experience.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 54:51
The thoughts that dominate your mind control your fertility experience. When you shift from fear-based thinking to empowered thoughts, you change how you show up for your journey and the decisions you make.
“You have to be epic in your own advocacy”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 13:30
You should advocate for yourself immediately when you have concerns. Don't wait for doctors to suggest testing - ask for what you need. Early advocacy can save years of unnecessary struggle.
When you think like a woman who succeeds on her fertility journey, you make the statistics, your diagnosis, all of your shady fertility past irrelevant
Joycelinne had fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube but conceived with IVF and is now 37 weeks pregnant with baby boy Ryu after transforming her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method.
Other people's fertility stories can become reinforcement of your own fears if you're not careful
Joycelinne realized that praying for her struggling friend and hearing traumatic IVF stories from family members had reinforced her own fertility fears rather than offering hope.
How am I going to be a mom if I don't see me as a mom? You're not giving a space for your baby to come into your life
Joycelinne realized she was working three jobs and focusing on career ambitions but not creating space for motherhood, which led to her breakthrough moment of asking forgiveness to her baby.
Being a pharmacist is easy. I cannot control my feelings and my head when you're so stuck into the darkness that you cannot see the light
Joycelinne, a pharmacist working three jobs, recognized that her professional competence didn't translate to emotional mastery during her fertility struggle.
When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through
Joycelinne's husband's insurance covered up to $25,000 in IVF for the first year ever, and when she needed $4,000 for genetic testing, her aunt unexpectedly gifted her $2,500.
You don't focus on how you're gonna do it, where is it gonna come from. You just do it and you have faith and it is going to work
Joycelinne and her husband decided to go straight to IVF without focusing on the cost first, and the money showed up through insurance coverage and unexpected gifts totaling over $27,500.
The thoughts that dominate your mind are the ones that are gonna control your experience
Joycelinne went from years of fear and victim mentality to speaking life to her son Ryu by name throughout her IVF process, which resulted in successful conception and pregnancy at 37 weeks.
You have to be epic in your own advocacy because doctors often dismiss early concerns
Joycelinne's first OB refused to do an ultrasound in 2021 saying 'don't put things in your head,' but when she finally got one in 2023, they found fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube.
Your confidence and your level of confidence is what guides the journey you're gonna walk
Joycelinne went from being terrified of IVF to walking through daily injections and procedures with ease, calling the experience 'a blessing' because she approached it knowing it would work.
The generational trauma ends with your baby because now you know and you're going to be able to teach your baby a different way of living
Joycelinne addressed generational trauma and attachment issues in her twenties, then again during fertility struggles, breaking the cycle for her son Ryu.
When you think like a woman who succeeds on her fertility journey, you make the statistics, your diagnosis, all of your shady fertility past irrelevant
▶ 1:45Other people's fertility stories can become reinforcement of your own fears if you're not careful
▶ 5:05How am I going to be a mom if I don't see me as a mom? You're not giving a space for your baby to come into your life
▶ 26:46Being a pharmacist is easy. I cannot control my feelings and my head when you're so stuck into the darkness that you cannot see the light
▶ 25:16When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through
▶ 46:53You don't focus on how you're gonna do it, where is it gonna come from. You just do it and you have faith and it is going to work
▶ 49:50The thoughts that dominate your mind are the ones that are gonna control your experience
▶ 54:51You have to be epic in your own advocacy because doctors often dismiss early concerns
▶ 13:30Your confidence and your level of confidence is what guides the journey you're gonna walk
▶ 60:07The generational trauma ends with your baby because now you know and you're going to be able to teach your baby a different way of living
▶ 51:24“You should be able to handle fertility struggles on your own, especially if you're educated and successful”
CONSIDER: Being smart in your career doesn't mean you can navigate fertility emotions alone - asking for help is smart, not weak
“Focus on the money and how you'll afford treatment before making decisions”
CONSIDER: Make the decision first based on what you want, then watch how the money shows up
“Doctors know best about when to do testing and procedures”
CONSIDER: You must be your own epic advocate because doctors often dismiss early concerns
“How am I going to be a mom if I don't see me as a mom?”
“When you think like a woman who succeeds on her fertility journey, you make the statistics, your diagnosis, all of your shady fertility past irrelevant.”
“Being a pharmacist is easy. I cannot control my feelings and my head when you're so stuck into the darkness that you cannot see the light.”
“When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through.”
“The thoughts that dominate your mind are the ones that are gonna control your experience.”
“Your confidence and your level of confidence is what guides the journey you're gonna walk.”
“Step out of the mindset of victimhood because it is unfortunately, it is a type of victimhood that we feel we're not worth it.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Obsessive cycle tracking can create energetic blocks that repel conception rather than support it
Mel tracked her basal body temperature with such precision that she wouldn't let herself go to the bathroom at night, afraid it would throw off her readings. This obsession lasted 8 months without conception until she shifted her approach.
Carrying anger and resentment creates physical constriction that blocks fertility
Mel described running 45 minutes every morning trying to release anger that never left, until she did forgiveness work through the Fearlessly Fertile Method. She said it felt like 'a big rock had been removed from my chest' and she could finally form authentic relationships.
Past treatment failures don't predict future success - your history is not your destiny
Dr. Kathy had AMH of 0.23, failed IUIs, miscarriage, and failed IVF that produced only one egg, yet conceived naturally at 37 and is now 34 weeks pregnant with her son.
High-achieving women are especially susceptible to the seduction of statistics and can get trapped in their analytical minds
Dr. Kathy, both a physician and lawyer, went down the 'rabbit hole' of AMH research and statistics, initially trusting science more than her body despite doctors having more faith in her than she had in herself.
