Mel shares her journey from never wanting children to overcoming a cancer scare, blocked fallopian tube, and wonky uterus to conceive naturally. After years of obsessive tracking and a miscarriage, she transformed her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method and is now 15 weeks pregnant.
Mel· natural· Became a mamaBefore
Obsessed with cycle tracking, carrying anger and resentment, glass-half-empty mindset, felt broken and would have meltdowns on the floor
Key Shift
8 weeks of forgiveness work, releasing resentment, meditation and visualization, shifting from fear to gratitude
After
Energetically open, able to trust intuition, joyful, grateful, could form authentic relationships, felt light and free
Mel shares how the day after her wedding, she experienced a complete shift from never wanting children to desperately wanting to be a mom. This unexpected change set her on a journey that would challenge everything she thought she knew about herself and conception.
Within months of trying to conceive, Mel faced a series of health scares including abnormal cervical cells requiring surgery, a breast lump, and a uterine mass. Later, testing revealed a completely blocked right fallopian tube, seemingly stacking the odds against her.
Mel became consumed with tracking her basal body temperature with obsessive precision, to the point where she wouldn't let herself use the bathroom at night for fear of disrupting her readings. This controlling behavior continued for eight months without conception, leading to a major breakdown.
Working with Rosanne through the Fearlessly Fertile Method became an eight-week course in forgiveness for Mel. She released years of anger and resentment, describing the feeling as having 'a big rock removed from her chest' and finally being able to form authentic relationships.
Two months after completing the program, Mel conceived naturally but spent the pregnancy in fear of miscarriage. At nine weeks, her fears materialized and she lost the pregnancy, but instead of giving up, she made a promise to celebrate any future pregnancy.
Inspired by one of Rosanne's podcast episodes on wonderment, Mel shifted into a state of joy and gratitude. She began looking at everything through 'joyful eyes' and implemented the principle that 'you can't be afraid if you're grateful and have joy.'
When doctors recommended exploratory surgery for her blocked tube, Mel's intuition guided her to decline and continue with meditation and visualization instead. This decision to trust her inner knowing proved pivotal to her success.
Mel's final visualization connected her to the beauty and life force around her, leading to the realization that 'there's no reason why I can't carry a life inside of me.' Five days later, she was pregnant again and chose to celebrate openly, maintaining her positive mindset throughout the pregnancy.
“my right tube completely blocked. But my left tube works... I was visualizing just just an openness, just that my tube my right tube would become open and that my left side, it would start creating the eggs”
— Mel▶ 13:50
Yes, you can get pregnant naturally with one blocked fallopian tube if your other tube is functioning. Mel conceived naturally despite having a completely blocked right tube by working with her body through visualization and meditation.
“I became obsessed with monitoring my basal body temperature... I couldn't even wake up. I mean, I'd wake up in the middle of the night having to go to the bathroom, but I couldn't even let myself go to the bathroom because my basal body temperature would be off in the morning”
— Mel▶ 7:31
Obsessive fertility tracking can create energetic blocks that actually harm conception chances. The anxiety and control it creates can be more damaging than helpful for getting pregnant.
“I had a big block of just the anger and resentment I was carrying around from the past... I would get up in the morning, and I would run forty five minutes in hopes that running would just release this anger, but it never did”
— Mel▶ 11:46
Yes, carrying anger, resentment and negative emotions can create physical constriction that blocks fertility. Releasing these emotions through forgiveness work can open up energy for conception.
“You can't be afraid if you're grateful and have joy. You just can't. You can't have those two emotions at the same time”
— Mel▶ 30:38
Gratitude eliminates fear, negativity and doubt because you cannot experience fear and gratitude simultaneously. Daily gratitude practices help maintain the positive emotional state that supports conception.
“your body hears what you tell it. Even if even if you're not speaking it out loud, if you're thinking, oh, my uterus is so stupid. I'm never gonna get pregnant. It's hostile. Whatever. Your body hears that, and it will react accordingly”
— Mel▶ 36:34
Fertility affirmations are positive statements about your body's ability to conceive. They work because your body hears and responds to your internal dialogue, so negative self-talk can create hostile conditions while positive affirmations support fertility.
“my doctor said I could do I could keep going with treatments. Like, they could do exploratory surgery, all of that. And just my intuition just told me, no. I'm perfectly fine with what I have”
— Mel▶ 33:18
Higher consciousness through meditation can help you discern when medical recommendations feel right versus when your intuition guides you toward a different path. Trust the inner knowing that emerges from a calm, centered state.
Mel's approach to using meditation and visualization to work with her body despite a blocked fallopian tube and other physical issues
Daily Meditation Practice
Set aside time each day for meditation, even just 5 minutes. Create a calm space where you can connect with your body.
Visualize Your Body Working
Picture your functioning reproductive parts working optimally. Mel visualized her left ovary creating eggs and her blocked tube opening.
Release Agenda and Be Open
In meditation, let go of specific outcomes and allow whatever comes to mind. Trust the images and sensations that arise.
Connect to Life and Beauty
Visualize yourself as part of the beauty and life around you - sunsets, mountains, flowers. Feel your connection to the life force.
Trust Your Inner Knowing
Use the clarity from meditation to make intuitive decisions about treatments and medical recommendations.
Obsessive cycle tracking can create energetic blocks that repel conception rather than support it
Mel tracked her basal body temperature with such precision that she wouldn't let herself go to the bathroom at night, afraid it would throw off her readings. This obsession lasted 8 months without conception until she shifted her approach.
Carrying anger and resentment creates physical constriction that blocks fertility
Mel described running 45 minutes every morning trying to release anger that never left, until she did forgiveness work through the Fearlessly Fertile Method. She said it felt like 'a big rock had been removed from my chest' and she could finally form authentic relationships.
Visualization and meditation can help the body work with physical limitations like blocked fallopian tubes
After discovering her right tube was completely blocked, Mel spent the summer visualizing her left side creating eggs and her right tube opening. She conceived naturally just two months after finishing the program, despite only having one functioning tube.
You can't be afraid and grateful at the same time - gratitude eliminates fear, negativity and doubt
Mel implemented daily gratitude practices and said 'You can't have those two emotions at the same time. I make it a point every day to be as grateful as I can because that eliminates fear and negativity and doubt and shame and all of that.'
Your body hears what you tell it and reacts accordingly to your internal dialogue
Mel explains 'if you're thinking, oh, my uterus is so stupid. I'm never gonna get pregnant. It's hostile. Whatever. Your body hears that, and it will react accordingly. So, yeah, chances are you do have a hostile uterus, and you're never going to get pregnant.'
Higher consciousness through meditation allows you to make intuitive decisions about your medical care
After her HSG showed a completely blocked right tube, doctors recommended exploratory surgery. Mel's intuition told her 'no. I'm perfectly fine with what I have, and I will meditate and visualize to heal this.' She conceived naturally without the surgery.
Taking the road less traveled on your fertility journey, even when it's messy, can create the most beautiful outcomes
Mel quotes Robert Frost: 'Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.' She describes her unconventional approach of choosing meditation over surgery and continuing to travel during her journey, resulting in natural conception.
When you change your energy from agenda-driven to open and authentic, you attract better outcomes in all areas of life
Mel describes how after her transformation, she could 'control my energy' in her work with students. Families began opening up and telling her their life stories, and even pets were drawn to her new energy, whereas before her agenda-driven approach put people off.
Obsessive cycle tracking can create energetic blocks that repel conception rather than support it
▶ 7:31Carrying anger and resentment creates physical constriction that blocks fertility
▶ 11:46Visualization and meditation can help the body work with physical limitations like blocked fallopian tubes
▶ 13:50You can't be afraid and grateful at the same time - gratitude eliminates fear, negativity and doubt
▶ 30:38Your body hears what you tell it and reacts accordingly to your internal dialogue
▶ 36:34Higher consciousness through meditation allows you to make intuitive decisions about your medical care
▶ 33:18Taking the road less traveled on your fertility journey, even when it's messy, can create the most beautiful outcomes
▶ 37:36When you change your energy from agenda-driven to open and authentic, you attract better outcomes in all areas of life
▶ 22:13“The more you track, monitor and control your fertility, the better your chances of conception”
CONSIDER: Obsessive tracking and control can create energetic blocks that actually repel conception
“Professional success strategies (planning for the worst, being negative to avoid failure) work for fertility too”
CONSIDER: Glass-half-empty mindsets that create professional success actually repel babies and block fertility
“Physical problems like blocked tubes require medical intervention and surgery”
CONSIDER: You can work with your body's limitations through visualization and higher consciousness rather than rushing into invasive procedures
“You can't be afraid if you're grateful and have joy. You just can't. You can't have those two emotions at the same time.”
“No baby is going to want a mom that sees the world so negatively.”
“If you are a part of all of this beauty, then there's no reason why I can't carry a life inside of me.”
“Your body hears what you tell it and it will react accordingly.”
“Change your mind, and your life will follow. That's kinda like my new life motto now.”
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”
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Frameworks & Methods
When you think like a woman who succeeds on her fertility journey, you make the statistics, your diagnosis, all of your shady fertility past irrelevant
Joycelinne had fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube but conceived with IVF and is now 37 weeks pregnant with baby boy Ryu after transforming her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method.
Other people's fertility stories can become reinforcement of your own fears if you're not careful
Joycelinne realized that praying for her struggling friend and hearing traumatic IVF stories from family members had reinforced her own fertility fears rather than offering hope.
Cancer can be a wake-up call that opens your eyes to what's truly important and stops you from living someone else's life
Adam, diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer at 55, says getting cancer was 'the best thing that never happened to me' because it made him stop sleepwalking through life and question why he was living by other people's expectations.
Your mind is everything in healing — diet and treatments are just marginal gains if your mind isn't in the right place
Adam was told by a Macmillan cancer counselor that stage 1 patients can die in weeks while stage 4 patients can live forever, and it's all in your mind. He realized he had to deal with past sexual abuse trauma to truly want to live.
