Joycelinne

Other people's fertility stories can become reinforcement of your own fears if you're not careful

Joycelinne realized that praying for her struggling friend and hearing traumatic IVF stories from family members had reinforced her own fertility fears rather than offering hope.

How am I going to be a mom if I don't see me as a mom? You're not giving a space for your baby to come into your life

Joycelinne realized she was working three jobs and focusing on career ambitions but not creating space for motherhood, which led to her breakthrough moment of asking forgiveness to her baby.

Being a pharmacist is easy. I cannot control my feelings and my head when you're so stuck into the darkness that you cannot see the light

Joycelinne, a pharmacist working three jobs, recognized that her professional competence didn't translate to emotional mastery during her fertility struggle.

When you stop living in scarcity and saying how am I gonna do this, and you're just hoping in like, listen, God is good, there is abundance, things are gonna come through. Things come through

Joycelinne's husband's insurance covered up to $25,000 in IVF for the first year ever, and when she needed $4,000 for genetic testing, her aunt unexpectedly gifted her $2,500.

You don't focus on how you're gonna do it, where is it gonna come from. You just do it and you have faith and it is going to work

Joycelinne and her husband decided to go straight to IVF without focusing on the cost first, and the money showed up through insurance coverage and unexpected gifts totaling over $27,500.

Your confidence and your level of confidence is what guides the journey you're gonna walk

Joycelinne went from being terrified of IVF to walking through daily injections and procedures with ease, calling the experience 'a blessing' because she approached it knowing it would work.

When you think like a woman who succeeds on her fertility journey, you make the statistics, your diagnosis, all of your shady fertility past irrelevant

Joycelinne had fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube but conceived with IVF and is now 37 weeks pregnant with baby boy Ryu after transforming her mindset through the Fearlessly Fertile Method.

The thoughts that dominate your mind are the ones that are gonna control your experience

Joycelinne went from years of fear and victim mentality to speaking life to her son Ryu by name throughout her IVF process, which resulted in successful conception and pregnancy at 37 weeks.

You have to be epic in your own advocacy because doctors often dismiss early concerns

Joycelinne's first OB refused to do an ultrasound in 2021 saying 'don't put things in your head,' but when she finally got one in 2023, they found fibroids and a blocked fallopian tube.

The generational trauma ends with your baby because now you know and you're going to be able to teach your baby a different way of living

Joycelinne addressed generational trauma and attachment issues in her twenties, then again during fertility struggles, breaking the cycle for her son Ryu.