In the third episode of her faith series, Rosanne teaches how to cultivate unwavering faith and belief on your fertility journey. She shares her personal experience of maintaining faith through a miscarriage on Christmas Day and explains why faith must precede the miracle, not follow it.
Rosanne addresses the common saboteur thought that faith is easy for her because she has her baby. She emphasizes that her faith preceded her son's appearance, not the other way around, challenging the 'I'll believe it when I see it' mentality that keeps women stuck.
Drawing from her prosecutor background, Rosanne explains how our senses are limited and biased toward negativity. She teaches that faith allows us to see beyond physical evidence and opens us to possibilities our limited perception can't grasp.
Rosanne reframes faith as taking action based on belief while harvesting good from any outcome. She shares how she maintained faith through miscarriage on Christmas Day and doubled down on her practices rather than giving up.
The episode concludes with practical exercises including questioning how life would change if you chose to believe, identifying limiting beliefs to release, and making faith cultivation a daily priority through meditation, prayer, and surrounding yourself with believers.
“When I had my miscarriage, I didn't just stop working on me and my mindset. I saw that this shit worked and that my son had made an attempt to get to me. So I kept fucking going. I didn't give up on my faith just because I had a setback. What I did was I fucking doubled down.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 14:12
Double down on your faith practices instead of abandoning them. After setbacks, increase your mindset work, continue taking action, and remember that faith must precede the miracle, not follow it.
“My faith preceded my son's appearance on this earth. Faith preceded the miracle, my love, not the other way around. Faith preceded the blessing.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 1:44
Faith must precede the miracle because waiting for proof before believing keeps you stuck in fear-based thinking. Your physical senses are limited and biased toward negativity, while faith opens you to possibilities your senses can't perceive.
“I did meditation during walks or in my home. I mean, all of that became like brushing my teeth. I started praying all the time, not because I expected some omnipotent force to just deliver my son out of nowhere immediately.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:19
Cultivate faith through daily meditation, prayer, reading about mindset and faith, working with coaches and healers, and surrounding yourself with believers. Make your spiritual relationship a daily priority like brushing your teeth.
“Faith and belief isn't just about sitting on your ass waiting for something to happen. It's taking action based on faith and belief and watching it unfold with an eye for seeing the blessing in any outcome rather than just dismissing it as a failure if it doesn't look exactly as you thought it would.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:38
Faith involves taking action based on belief while staying open to blessings in any form. It's not passive waiting but actively pursuing your dream while harvesting good from every situation, rather than dismissing outcomes as failures.
“Faith and belief don't require you to deny what your physical senses tell you. Faith and belief are a means by which you won't be limited by your senses.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:01
Yes, faith doesn't require denying what your senses tell you. Instead, faith ensures you won't be limited by your senses. It's about seeing the whole picture rather than being restricted to only what you can physically perceive.
Daily practices to build and maintain faith throughout your fertility journey
Question your assumptions
Ask yourself how different your life would be if you simply chose to believe, and what low-vibe half-truths you'd need to release
Make faith a daily priority
Engage in meditation, prayer, reading about mindset, and working with coaches as regularly as brushing your teeth
Surround yourself with believers
Spend time with people who view spirituality as a relationship rather than dogma or compliance
Take action from faith
Move forward based on belief while staying open to blessings in any form, harvesting good from every situation
Double down during setbacks
When challenges arise, increase your faith practices rather than abandoning them
Faith must precede the miracle, not follow it - you can't wait to see results before believing
Rosanne maintained faith through miscarriage on Christmas Day in ER room 13 with her last embryo, then conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure
Our physical senses barely scratch the surface and are influenced by negative, fear-based biases
Rosanne transformed from prosecutor mindset trained to assume the worst to conceiving naturally at 43 by learning to see beyond physical evidence
A big ask requires big faith - getting your baby is too important to rely on small, fearful thinking
Rosanne teaches thousands of women globally using faith-based mindset methods, with many beating the odds after years of failure
Fear is basic and boring with predictable worst-case outcomes, while faith opens infinite possibilities
Rosanne's practice now touches thousands of women worldwide daily, all because she chose faith over fear during her darkest fertility moments
The braver choice is leaning into belief rather than facing your fears
Rosanne went from prosecutor trained to assume the worst to fertility coach helping women globally by choosing belief over fear-based thinking
Faith isn't passive waiting - it's taking action based on belief while harvesting the good in any outcome
Rosanne kept teaching women after her miscarriage, seeing tremendous results, leading to her current practice helping thousands globally
Faith allows you to not be limited by your physical senses - it's about being expansive
After miscarriage on Christmas Day, Rosanne maintained faith her son was still coming and conceived naturally months later at 43
Cultivating faith requires daily work - reading, coaching, meditation, prayer, and surrounding yourself with believers
Rosanne's daily faith practices led to natural conception at 43 and a practice now helping thousands of women globally achieve their dreams
When you have setbacks, double down on faith instead of abandoning it
After miscarriage with last embryo, Rosanne doubled down on mindset work, kept teaching women, and conceived naturally at 43
Children naturally believe they can achieve anything until bitter adults tell them they can't
Rosanne helps women worldwide rediscover childlike faith, leading to success stories like her own natural conception at 43 despite treatment failures
Faith must precede the miracle, not follow it - you can't wait to see results before believing
▶ 1:44Our physical senses barely scratch the surface and are influenced by negative, fear-based biases
▶ 2:27A big ask requires big faith - getting your baby is too important to rely on small, fearful thinking
▶ 4:40Fear is basic and boring with predictable worst-case outcomes, while faith opens infinite possibilities
▶ 5:01The braver choice is leaning into belief rather than facing your fears
▶ 6:04Faith isn't passive waiting - it's taking action based on belief while harvesting the good in any outcome
▶ 7:38Faith allows you to not be limited by your physical senses - it's about being expansive
▶ 9:12Cultivating faith requires daily work - reading, coaching, meditation, prayer, and surrounding yourself with believers
▶ 11:47When you have setbacks, double down on faith instead of abandoning it
▶ 14:12Children naturally believe they can achieve anything until bitter adults tell them they can't
▶ 16:15“You need to see evidence before you can believe in your fertility success”
CONSIDER: Faith must precede the miracle - belief comes first, then the baby follows
“Facing your fears is the bravest thing you can do on your fertility journey”
CONSIDER: The braver choice is leaning into belief and faith despite uncertainty
“Faith means passively waiting and hoping for the best”
CONSIDER: Faith is taking action based on belief while harvesting good from any outcome
“My faith preceded my son's appearance on this earth. Faith preceded the miracle, my love, not the other way around.”
“Fear is so fucking basic and boring. When it comes to fear, the outcome is predictable.”
“A big ask requires big faith.”
“Faith and belief are a means by which you won't be limited by your senses.”
“I didn't give up on my faith just because I had a setback. What I did was I fucking doubled down.”
EP173: She Found Herself, Her Voice, and Her Baby: Agata’s Story
After two devastating IVF failures, Agata made a bold choice to trust herself—and it led to her miracle baby.
EP349: From No "Normal" Embryos with IVF to Pregnant Naturally In Her 40s: Liz's Story
From no normal embryos through IVF to pregnant naturally at 42 — Liz's story proves that sometimes the biggest breakthrough comes when you finally trust yourself.
EP328: From Thinking IVF Was the ONLY Way to Getting and Staying Pregnant Naturally After 5 Years: Melisa's Story
How one woman went from 5 failed IVF cycles and being told natural conception was impossible to getting pregnant naturally at 39 — just 2 months after completing the Fearlessly Fertile Method.
Conditions
Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
You are the one fixing you, healing you—your medical team supports you, but ultimately you must believe in yourself
Agata went from trusting doctors completely through two failed IVF cycles to trusting herself and conceiving through IUI on the fourth attempt, now 26 weeks pregnant.
When treatment isn't working, stepping back to reassess your approach can reveal better options that align with your heart
Agata had never heard of IUI despite two failed IVF cycles. When she trusted her instinct for less invasive treatment and tried IUI, she conceived on the fourth attempt.
Worthiness issues from earlier relationships directly impact fertility journey outcomes and decision-making patterns.
Liz spent 10 years in an unhealthy relationship telling herself she didn't want kids rather than facing the reality, then ghosted her future husband because she couldn't believe he liked her for who she was. These same worthiness patterns showed up as immediately running to IVF after one miscarriage at 41.
The way you do one thing is the way you do everything - relationship patterns will show up in your fertility journey.
Liz's pattern of feeling unworthy in her relationship (ghosting her husband because she couldn't believe he liked her) directly translated to feeling inadequate about conceiving and immediately seeking medical intervention after one miscarriage instead of trusting her body.
